Let's get real. - Page 7

Originally posted by: luisa1983

OMG!!!😲so, with this statement are you implying that i have been cheating on my husband, because i have, had giving hugs and kisses (cheeks) to my exes, ( as a greeting of course) and in front of him sometimes, shame on me!!! 😲(sarcastic)..., but why is it wrong to give an assuring and friendly hug to an ex, being an ex doesn't mean that i have to be far away from you, when he/she sometimes becomes your friend... " SIGH " a never ending debate of beliefs and morals.😭

Ok my dear relax.no need to be defensive . Everyone is welcome to his or her own opinions. Very rare lovers remains friends after breaking up . If they do then there should be limits in touching etc . But not everyone feels the same way about it. For me a friend will always be a friend . But a lover could soon become your greatest enemy based on the circumstances of the break up . If you are still friends with your ex " hats off to you " . It should be so but not everyone is able to do it .. Including me . I am not that strong .

SO now i am wondering were those hugs today amounting to Adultery and infidelity???

Originally posted by: luisa1983

OMG!!! 😲 so, with this statement are you implying that i have been cheating on my husband, because i have, had giving hugs and kisses (cheeks) to my exes, ( as a greeting of course) and in front of him sometimes, shame on me!!! 😲 (sarcastic)..., but why is it wrong to give an assuring and friendly hug to an ex, being an ex doesn't mean that i have to be far away from you, when he/she sometimes becomes your friend... " SIGH " a never ending debate of beliefs and morals. 😭

👏 word...i agree fully...the time is love ajkal not love kaltak...dude...

Bang on. Honestly, it's not just this topic, but from human "trading/traffficking" to "adultery" and "infidelity", it's upsetting that such things are being compared to things on a fictional show that are not even to that extreme. That's the only problem that I have been having lately on the forum. You're taking something minor, and taking it to a whole new level of extremism by using it interchangeably with these words.

You said it! 👍🏼

Finally one sane post. I was kiind of getting sick of hearing about adultery , human trading etc.

Originally posted by: LaVita-E-Bella

Bang on. Honestly, it's not just this topic, but from human "trading/traffficking" to "adultery" and "infidelity", it's upsetting that such things are being compared to things on a fictional show that are not even to that extreme. That's the only problem that I have been having lately on the forum. You're taking something minor, and taking it to a whole new level of extremism by using it interchangeably with these words.

They are just assuring their lovers that everything will be fixed. I think I would have been more upset if they did not try to fix the situation and explain it all.

How can they respect a marriage which they know is fake and only temporary? Where they have no feelings for one another?

I'm someone who highly values the institution of marriage, and marriage ceremonies hold a lot of meaning to me. Marriage is one of the most sacred rituals between two. And trust me, I have been pretty upset about how they have put it out there, but not getting into that. Anyhoo, regardless, in this situation I don't consider this a marriage and I don't consider what they are doing wrong in any sense at all.

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

I agree I think this forum has a habit of blowing situations out of proportion. Its annoying to see emotional moments like these on the show taken as such heavy terms when that is not even the intention of the makers. I hardly see a few people who watch the show only for entertainment. I think this whole track is rubbish tbh, especially the way they got Ayaan Zoya married. And if either of them fall in love with the other at any given point, QH and its essence will be butchered for me. But as off now when they're both sure that this relation is meant to get over in the next few days whatever they do in terms of their life should not be judged at any given point.

Points very well addressed. But .. As you can see everyone understands differently .For instance this was a fun post and most did not grasp quickly. Many don't separate and takes a lot in a more personal manner which is understandable It's great that the viewers are able to put out their feelings for once. What is written here sometimes cannot be discussed in the home . So this is why the forum is a blessing in disguise . It educates and expands our minds. Changes has to be made and it's a struggle to do so .to bring old traditions and apply it to the time we live in with all corrections keeping within all religious laws is very delicate . This is only a show and the bashing is out of proportion. But it's needed for us to understand and start making a change . A lot of wrong should be made right . Our parents and grand parents told us what to do and never explained why . Further more we were not able to object or voice our opinions. So laws that were made up along the way most of the time . wrong ones ..we're kept and passed on. Parents now face the opposite because no child carries out orders without questioning. So some rules have to be broken for changes to be made and stay within the limits. . Understanding is the key word. This is only my opinion.