And he drives away... - Page 9

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

it's really amazing the way I see everyone supporting Asad's character...to a point where members are disrespectful to others...anyways, I as a viewer is very sure of what I think of Asad's character and I believe that it is a very weak character...and yes he is guilty but for once he needs to stop wallowing in himself and think about Zoya's state.

Originally posted by: delena90

Point is billi is pushing for the marriage not him. I she requests its he may not disagree and even if he believes it was consensual he will never abandon a kid that he believe is his. This tells me the pregnancy card hasn't been played. Asad will not run after zoya if he is going to be a father.

I know what you are referring to and my point was we don't know where that scene fits in the whole track. That could be somewhere in the middle of the track with her arriving there...anything we don't know. Ajmer will probably be end of this week, they are setting it up I think.

I understand that you feel Zoe has receive the short end of the stick but all these characters are flawed including Zoe. I don't know if you watched ipk (note to mods I am not comparing) but the lead Khushi for instance had to be the most selfish characters ever written. Had Anjali been a real person Khushi and Arnav would have been held accountable for a lot of the terrible things that happened to her along with Shyam. But people loved these characters because they were perceived as goo while I perceived them as foolish and selfish. The point I am trying to make is Guls lead heroines are not always lovable even if that is her aim. Zoya is a rare creation for her. But just as much as Asad was an ass, zoya has contributed to the situation by also being immature and unthinking. I am not excusing characters just saying that zoya has not helped her cause sometimes.

Asad is a flawed character as is zoya and this is one of those rare Gul khan stories where the leads are actually not any fault. They are a victims o circumstances and neither Asad nor zoya are to blame. Asad and zoya are destroyed by this and as an viewer I can feel this. Yes Asad needs to seek forgiveness but this was not the way he should have learnt that lesson.

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Hey u have made a good post..and yes he is very consumed with himself at the moment...i had posted this earlier also that guilt is a very self absorbed emotion...its all about 'my fault, my mistakes, my, my, my..'

That is the reason that people who feel guilty are so into their own...guilt does not do anything constructive to your psyche...however it is an emotion as real as anger and love..and being humans we are prone to it very much..

As far as Asad not waiting for her more than he did...I would just like to put it this way...he did go there to apologize...he was told the way she was living and he has again gone on a guilt trip and cursing himself...to man up and apologize he needs to become free of the guilt...in presence of guilt, no person can apologize...because guilt ka base concept hi yehi hai 'i have committed a mistake that cannot be forgiven, so i will punish myself and repent'...

But I would not use this as a test of his love...I am not giving a benefit of doubt to him...also i will not say that he did a good thing by giving her space, because giving her space was not the reason he went away from there...he went away because he felt guilty...

I am just saying how a normal human being reacts when absorbed by guilt...negative emotions only cloud love, they do not lessen it...😊

Originally posted by: chicksoup

As if he doesn't care enough?

Hmmm...

Why would he not care? He cares too much, for her feelings- that is what I felt as a viewer.

Zoya saw him waiting for her- and when he left she was not disappointed that he left- just that she had reacted that way to him- her heart had betrayed her strong determination to never see him again.

As for Asad: If he had insisted that he meet Zoya- I WOULD HAVE CALLED THAT SELFISH- there is nothing he can do to erase her pain- NOTHING HE CAN SAY IS CHANGING THAT- all he can ask for is forgiveness, FOR HIMSELF- so I would have called it SELFISH if he had persisted.😊

he didn't have to barge in necessarily...but could have waited silently in the car...on the contrary if he he would have waited for her I would have felt much better as a viewer more so as a Zoya supporter.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

...he has supposedly not seeng her over a month...just found out from the man how miserable she is...but instead of wanting to see another glimpse of her...to talk to her...to hold her...he just drives away...

Why didn't he wait there in his car and be persistent...why didn't he plead with the people to let him see her...talk to her for once?

Oh yes he is a man of principles but I expected a little more desperation and eagerness from him...

Gul khan fix the loopholes and inconsistencies...it's getting worse.

Originally posted by: GodhuliLogon

priyanka .. I guess this one month leap was not working with me .. I did not find it was executed nicely .. the pain and remorse was not shown properly .. I fast forwarded that asad's conversation with the man of orphanage ..😃I loved the zoya's sudden run a lot ..

Originally posted by: nupsie

I felt the same...I wud hav loved if he had waited for her till morning or forever...just to see her once...to Apologize once🥺😔

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Originally posted by: delena90

@rupunzale - yes zoya is being punished unfairly much like Asad. However both characters needed to grow the hell up. Zoya to put it quite simply is a brat. Does that warrant Asads judgmental behavior? - No. But the fact remains that she needed a dose of reality too.

As a viewer I am furious that both these characters are going through this. Asad needs redemption and zoya needed maturity but this was way too harsh a punishment for both.

Barring the slap which i 100% do not agree with both Asad and zoya have pulled their fair share of shit, Asad's came across as worse because of his blind faith and sudden loss of grey matter.

Do I think asya are soulmates? - no I don't believe there is such a thing. Asad and zoya are different on the surface but fundamentally they are exactly the same which makes the dynamic interesting.

Edit:

I notice you said that Asad didn't wait by his car for her...he did and zoya saw him too. Asad's self-loathing ad zoyas self-preservation are the only reasons why these two didn't meet.