And he drives away... - Page 10

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

I know this is in reply to the TM but I really liked what you stated so I am quoting😆

I agree, both the characters are flawed and human, both have made mistakes. Asad's seem more prominent because he has been judgmental and also because he is believing a person whom we as viewers loath.

But if you see it from a larger perspective Asad and Zoya are clean hearted, good people and none deserve the pain they are going through. Yes Asad has made mistakes, and the mistake is not the lack of trust in Zoya (because IMO he trusts her, but didn't trust her judgments ) but because he didn't understand her real self for a lot of time. He had begun doing that when this incident happened, and in a way its teaching him a lot about her and making him value her all the more now. But back to the point that both Asad and Zoya do not deserve this pain because they've done nothing to harm anyone else or the other,they just have different ideas in life and different ways of seeing situations, but inside both are the same, going through the same insecurities, fears and so on. Which connects their souls.

Asad loves Zoya but has now begun to value her, respect her, and stand by her choices and though its still a long way to go before he catches up, and also sometime before she entirely understands Asad. Yesterday was the first step in proving the difference in which he'd deal with Zoya.

Thanks and yes I agree. It's more a lack of trust in her judgment vs lack of trust in her as a person. Zoya has not always made the best judgments and it is natural to assume that she may be showing same haste in it. As a viewer it irritates me because tanveer is a horrible character who does not deserve the benefit of the doubt.

Asad is a hypocrite in his dealings with both women but this is still to high a cost for blind belief. And the hypocrisy has come across because of inconsistent character development of tanveer. As viewers we have not been shown a reason for Asads faith in tanveer which is making the story fall flat. It's much easier to sympathize with Asad's trust situation if we had a back story.

Zoya on the other is quite the disrespectful guest. While I wouldn't change my personality there are definitely certain things I wouldn't do if I was a guest, starting with I would try and not be disrespectful to the house owners. We as viewers manage to overlook this because phuphi was so understating and welcoming but it is a character flaw for zoya as is her knack of button in were she really shouldn't interfere.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Asad is self absorbed and consumed with himself right now...I was surprised to see him drive away after coming to know about her pathetic condition...it's a shame actually.

Originally posted by: delena90

Thanks and yes I agree. It's more a lack of trust in her judgment vs lack of trust in her as a person. Zoya has not always made the best judgments and it is natural to assume that she may be showing same haste in it. As a viewer it irritates me because tanveer is a horrible character who does not deserve the benefit of the doubt.

Asad is a hypocrite in his dealings with both women but this is still to high a cost for blind belief. And the hypocrisy has come across because of inconsistent character development of tanveer. As viewers we have not been shown a reason for Asads faith in tanveer which is making the story fall flat. It's much easier to sympathize with Asad's trust situation if we had a back story.

Zoya on the other is quite the disrespectful guest. While I wouldn't change my personality there are definitely certain things I wouldn't do if I was a guest, starting with I would try and not be disrespectful to the house owners. We as viewers manage to overlook this because phuphi was so understating and welcoming but it is a character flaw for zoya as is her knack of button in were she really shouldn't interfere.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

in my dictionary love is the other name of trust...an undeniable trust that you have on your partner...the reason I don't have faith in Asad's love for Zoya is because he doesn't have an ounce of trust in her...on the contrary surprisingly he has blind trust on Billo although they haven't met for 10 yrs...it's very strange. Right now I cannot sympathize with Asad because as a character he has to earn it .

it would have been better if he was more persistent..i agree

had asad begged zoya for forgiveness, it would only seem a selfish act to me as it'll only give him inner peace but would torture zoya more!

Originally posted by: delena90

@rupunzale - yes zoya is being punished unfairly much like Asad. However both characters needed to grow the hell up. Zoya to put it quite simply is a brat. Does that warrant Asads judgmental behavior? - No. But the fact remains that she needed a dose of reality too.

As a viewer I am furious that both these characters are going through this. Asad needs redemption and zoya needed maturity but this was way too harsh a punishment for both.

Barring the slap which i 100% do not agree with both Asad and zoya have pulled their fair share of shit, Asad's came across as worse because of his blind faith and sudden loss of grey matter.

Do I think asya are soulmates? - no I don't believe there is such a thing. Asad and zoya are different on the surface but fundamentally they are exactly the same which makes the dynamic interesting.

Edit:

I notice you said that Asad didn't wait by his car for her...he did and zoya saw him too. Asad's self-loathing ad zoyas self-preservation are the only reasons why these two didn't meet.

I don't believe in soul mates either😉...ofcourse Zoya has many flaws...she is not an angel but did she deserve to get a reality check in such a drastic form ...I don't think so. A reality check...? For been messy...or for standing up to what she believes in or to not been a perfect guest ? Did she deserve to see her fiance cheating on her on her marriage day? No.

Originally posted by: ehmmbhvirman

He dnt wnt to hrt nymor

sure...so he drives away once again after finding out that she was buried in the wall...great!

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

sure...so he drives away once again after finding out that she was buried in the wall...great!

I wanted him to stay on for the whole night too. And the next night he drives away ... again. Seriously? Now you know her life is in danger and you freaking drive away? Wow, some love there buddy. Every girl should have a prince like you.