And he drives away... - Page 12

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

I love how you fight for Asad Kirann ...But you shouldn't try so hard for someone who is not going to change her point of view of him...No matter how much of a good man he is...

Originally posted by: youth_showsfan

hey really sorry to interupt ur conversation

f talking abt trust

zoya has broken asads trust not once but many times and once a trust brakes its hard to trust d same person again. and i guess it comes back with only time

asad asked zoya not to keep mariam in d house yet she hided d fact dt she kept mariam n d house. she didnt even bother to tell dilshaad or najma forget asad. its asad's house n being a guest one cant keep someone else without telling d owner of d house. (this was d point where he realised zoya can lie also)

then rashid case asad took her to d house where her fathers clue cn be found out but what did zoya give n return? stopped him from reaching to d court? i agree she did this for dilshaad but dts where asad i think realised dt she s not a person to be trusted.

the difference here is billi tells d truth herself b4 asad can come to know either from his own instinct or through someone else. he always says speak truth. so when billi herself confesses like she told abt d eye thing she also made a story so zoya telling him later didnt impact him cause billi herself told him. nd meanwhile zoya always gets caught leing. there s a huge difference i believe when u catch someone lieing and when someone automatically tells u d twisted truth b4 anyone else can say it. the one who speaks first always gets a benefit of doubt

if u see asads dialogue he always says its not the time to joke or dont be silly. zoya;s image infront of asad s dt she is mischivious and can lie too even though for a good cause but for him a lie is a lie.

coming to d topic i guess he didnt wanted to force zoya to meet him nd thus went. but in todays episode he stayed back at night nd also n precap he is wearing d same clothes so i guess he stayed back.

having said dt i liked what asad did today he didnt take zoya to khan mansion he respected zoya's wish, she had left his house nd taking her back would have meant he disrespected her wish of moving out and plus it would have been more painful. i believe asya shud step n dt house together only after clearing their MU 😳 todays epi was good😊

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Trust comes with time.. Zoya told him Billi lied about burn marks, Asad did not say anything to her but waited and asked Billo to show marks, there were marks so he believed what he saw with his eyes..Zoya told about white eye, Asad did not deny but Billi told him that even before Zoya.. Asad never said that Zoya was doing all that intentionally or out of jealousy towards Tannu, he just said Zoya was having misunderstanding and two people can have misunderstandings.. He did not question Zoya's intentions, he knew her heart is pure as he said she is bholi and masum...Zoya did not tell him about SR plan..Even Zoya does not have that blind trust.. I am not criticizing her, I find it totally ok.. They will build trust with time.. She believed what she saw with her eyes so did Asad.. If she trusts Asad blindly , she wouldn't have gone like this before listening to him even once..

Asad did not trust Zoya against his best friend who is all goody goody for him, but Zoya did not trust Asad against evil Tanveer when she knew how disgusting Tannu is.. So can you explain this??

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Ofcourse Zoya has proven to be not trust worthy many a times in Asad's eyes and she was a stranger...a principled man like Asad shouldn't be having double standards then...but what did we see? He gave the benefit of doubt to Billo when she lied about her glass eye...marriage...has he not? Wasn't it not a reason enough to doubt Billo ? Isn't it hypocrisy by all means.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

agree trust comes with time...but again hasn't he known her long enough to trust her...he still didn't trust her...didn't even give her the benefit of doubt . He was always ready to doubt her. Ots very disappointing to watch that. Kiraan, I don't have a problem with Asad ...I did give the character a chance after the slap episode...i felt betrayed as a viewer so now i need to see a real redemption from his side. What I cannot digest is the fact that Zoya is going through the punishment. She is the one suffering and no man is worth it...simply no one.

This is an extremely wrong thing to show that a strong woman like Zoya falls apart for a man like this...yes she is shocked and is in depression but punishing oneself for a man...it's not right. What about her Appi and jiju ? What about her life? I don't like to see women break down this way.

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

He did say he believes her but asked her to show proofs. That was his step towards trust. WE cannot expect him to just get up and say yes Zoya I trust you, let's kick Billo out. I understand that his blind faith in Tannu is irritating and unrealistic. It's equally annoying and irritating to me as well and I absolutely hate it. He might have his reasons or whatever the case be, I don't even wanna get into that. Forum32's article said, there might be a back-story as to why he blindly trusts Billi. I don't know the back-story, hence I'm not even going to comment anymore on that. But with Zoya, even Zoya herself did so much stuff which is why he didn't trust her. I'm not saying Zoya is wrong, her intentions are always right but she does mess stuff up a lot. but lately, he had developed a lot of understanding and trust. If you are gunna see things as Zoya's fan or you are nto going to put your dislike for Asad aside, I don't think you can see Asad in positive light or you can understand his actions.

Even now, even though he's totally devastated, shattered, lonely, depressed, you're still saying he doesn't love Zoya enough. I don't see desperation. The thing is different times call for different measures. Why would he be desperate now? To ask for forgiveness when she doesn't wanna see his face? When he knows he's the reason of her pain? When he himself thinks he has wronged her? betrayed her? He's completely shattered, devastated, lost, his day starts with her and ends with her, sees her everywhere, crying day and night, doesn't eat properly, slept on the floor just because she sleeps there, curses himself, stayed all night outside the orphanage because she's not well and you say he doesn't love her enough? What do you want him to do? Kill himself? Just because he's not desperate to meet her he doesn't love her? he has clearly stated he wants her to forget him and move on because she deserves better so why would he be desperate to meet her? Yes he wanted to ask her for forgiveness but she said she doesn't wanna meet him, so he respected her wishes and didn't meet her. Now he's respecting her wishes, understanding her, doesn't force her and is accepting her as is. This is love now. Selfless love as Delena90 said in her post!

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Ofcourse Zoya has proven to be not trust worthy many a times in Asad's eyes and she was a stranger...a principled man like Asad shouldn't be having double standards then...but what did we see? He gave the benefit of doubt to Billo when she lied about her glass eye...marriage...has he not? Wasn't it not a reason enough to doubt Billo ? Isn't it hypocrisy by all means.

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Let's not forget Zoya has lied to him many a times and a man like him who already has trust issues will not so easily trust her especially when she was a guest at his place. But then again he slowly started understanding her and started giving her benefit of doubt. That's a huge step from his side.

Zoya is not the only one suffering. Asad is suffering too. What's his fault? That he trusts his friend? That harsh punishment for trusting you friend? Both are suffering without any fault of theirs and if you wanna blame Asad, Zoya is equally to blame. Let's be fair!

Don't strong women have emotions? Don't they have a heart? Everyone has a breaking point. She has lost so much and now finally she was seeing her life with the man she loves and she felt betrayed on her wedding day. Why wouldn't she break? She's a human after all. NO matter how strong one is, everyone has a breaking point. Even strongest of buildings fall down when storm comes and here we are talking about a human. Zoya is still strong and courageous enough to help orphan kids. What's so wrong and weak about that? I just don't get it. What were you expecting her to do? She can't be the same bubbly girl reciting couplets after getting the shock of lifetime.

The only person to blame in all this is tanwh**e who needs to be tortured to death!

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

dear Kiraan...I am really beginning to like you girl ! It's really nice to see someone trying to defend what she believes in...you are as persistent as I am😉...ok here we go...as I mentioned before its not that I don't want to see Asad in a positive light...I do...I did try but when I think about the whole cycle it refrains me to think otherwise. I as a person cannot support a relationship where a woman has been abused...it's a vicious cycle and once into it it's very hard to get out. I don't want Zoya in this relationship until Asad completely trusts her once for an all...go back into thinking about everything that zoya has disclosed about billo...figuring it out himself...and for that the first step it to believe in her completely...cut of Billo absolutely from his life...I really don't see a point in crying and wallowing...of he really loves her...he needs to come clean with her about everything...he needs to assure her that there was a reason that he had to abandon her...Zoya feels abandoned and betrayed ...she is hurting profusely...yes she doesn't wants to see her...but as a woman we all know what she wants really...don't we? She actually wants him to come and apologize ...assure her. He needs to realize this and that is what is coming up in Ajmer...he is not going to hold back anymore and confess his love.