Was Asad right in asking Zoya to apologize - Page 4

Originally posted by: realitybites

Well as its been shown to us and to Khan family, they have said so many ways that Zoya is innocent and Dilshad even explained to Asad that Zoya went to Ayaan engagement for him. She is a sweet person who would go ahead and do things for people she cares without a worry in the world. Asad has also told Zoya that she does not delve much and does things with her heart. Asad has seen Zoya for so long during all their travails and guess all this is indicative. Its not about not finding the proof but the point of trusting her that she must have seen some papers and is telling the truth. Asad believes Zoya humiliated Tanveer but what about the hurt he caused her? He has always been rebuking her in meanest of words and full of bitterness. Is that etiquette?

Zoya felt comfortable in Khan house and she tried to stay as per her style, yes that was wrong and she did adapt. No body defended her then. SHe adapts and learns to deal with people who care unlike Asad who hurt and give pain to people they claim to love.

Offensive is Tanveer interfering in engagement/marriage of Asad-Zoya. She made her own observations and voiced them without being asked for. Are these etiquettes? even from Asad's point of view?

Jealousy for what?😆😆 Asad is marrying ZOya and not Tanveer. Why wld she be jealous? THis was pointedly asked by Zoya today and Asad did not reply.

BTW above all Asad is a smart and intelligent business man and he ought to know how to recognize right and wrong. He is a self made man.

Succinctly, if a family member insulted a personal friend in one's house, even if said personal friend is under suspicion by oneself, it behooves the insulting party to apologize to the injured party.
With proof the matter may be taken up another day.
But for now, good manners require the apology.

As for the hurt he caused Ms. Farouqui, when she is vindicated with proof, I am sure his good manners will require him to apologize and he will do so

Tunveer's behavior is another topic.

Jealousy... Ms. Faoruqui has displayed plenty of that whenever Tunveer is clingy with Mr. Khan and Mr.Khan knows this.

Jayne

Originally posted by: realitybites

Much worse than a jerk, he is hurting the person, he claims to LOVE?😳 Well Tanveer's truth it seems will take a long time to come out, since they have involved Rashid today so probably whole of June and may be JUly!🤓🤔

Originally posted by: Jayne

Succinctly, if a family member insulted a personal friend in one's house, even if said personal friend is under suspicion by oneself, it behooves the insulting party to apologize to the injured party.
With proof the matter may be taken up another day.
But for now, good manners require the apology.

As for the hurt he caused Ms. Farouqui, when she is vindicated with proof, I am sure his good manners will require him to apologize and he will do so

Tunveer's behavior is another topic.

Jealousy... Ms. Faoruqui has displayed plenty of that whenever Tunveer is clingy with Mr. Khan and Mr.Khan knows this.

Jayne

Right or Wrong the rule says that the Guest never argues with the host even when its evident that the host is wrong.

As regards the insult -family member and friend, agreed that as courtesy sake the host can do that but not at the cost of insulting your partner. Its not about gender. What Asad could have done instead is he could have apologized to Tanveer and talked to Zoya to sort out her doubts. Thats respecting and trusting your love and balancing it with your friendship or treating guests. Importantly the onus of good behavior lies more on the guest than the host!😆 ZOya is a simpleton and initially she did not mind Tanveer much only when she is ignored. What she is feeling is perhaps unnecessary and forced clinging by tanveer. Zoya would not even bother had it not been for surreptitious acts by Tanveer.

No...his asking her to apologize was absolutely wrong and his repeated insistence proved that he least cares about Zoya's dignity and self respect. It's appalling to see how people are defending his act as an improvement in his behavior towards Zoya...how was it different? Previously he used to bark at her throwing insults at her but now he does that in a more civilized tone...it's nevertheless insult. This man is a hypocrite. He cares about his best friend 's honor and respect who miraculously appeared after 10 years but doesn't refrain from insulting and demeaning the woman he supposedly loves. He is actually worse than Rashid...Rashid is spineless and has repeatedly kept quiet when Dilshad was insulted publicly but Asad is a step ahead because he is the one who has actually insulted Zoya publicly just like today by making her apologize and the worst is not over...the second round starts tomorrow.

Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani

Oh god.. I really hope not. I really hope that the longest this goes on is till next week. I'm pretty sure this is gonna go the Badi Bi-Razia way but I'm just hoping it doesn't extend that long coz I feel Tanu is a temporary evil brought in to inadvertently bring AsYa closer and make their relationship stronger and purer than ever which I believe will happen once she is exposed. I cannot stand more cat meowing and nautanki of Tanu. Truly sick and tired of her character. Lets move on people!!

Well all here wish that Tanveer track ends right away😳😆😆. But next week it wont be, thats too soon since they have further entangled it by involving Rashid today. Hence this game will go on at least till June end. Also Amrapali had said in her interview that the game with Zoya will carry on for a long time!😆

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

No...his asking her to apologize was absolutely wrong and his repeated insistence proved that he least cares about Zoya's dignity and self respect. It's appalling to see how people are defending his act as an improvement in his behavior towards Zoya...how was it different? Previously he used to bark at her throwing insults at her but now he does that in a more civilized tone...it's nevertheless insult. This man is a hypocrite. He cares about his best friend 's honor and respect who miraculously appeared after 10 years but doesn't refrain from insulting and demeaning the woman he supposedly loves. He is actually worse than Rashid...Rashid is spineless and has repeatedly kept quiet when Dilshad was insulted publicly but Asad is a step ahead because he is the one who has actually insulted Zoya publicly just like today by making her apologize and the worst is not over...the second round starts tomorrow.

True, NO person loving another would purposely hurt the partner in front of others ( Yes between two people to be married, a best friend is also other!). You rightly said earlier he used to yell, scream, hurl bitterness, thats stopped and instead its polite tone and better choice of words but does that cause less pain? Yes he is hypocrite to have different set of standards for tanveer and zoya. Yeap unfortunately its going to get worse and ZOya will be insulted more. Why did Asad give into the threat by Tanveer that she wld leave the house? Zoya who is considered to be spunky, impulsive and less mature did not give back tit for tat and say hey I will move too if you ask me to apologize?

Originally posted by: realitybites

Well all here wish that Tanveer track ends right away😳😆😆. But next week it wont be, thats too soon since they have further entangled it by involving Rashid today. Hence this game will go on at least till June end. Also Amrapali had said in her interview that the game with Zoya will carry on for a long time!😆

I am sorry to interfere in the conversation but wanted to mention about the decreased trps...it's 2.5 down from 2.8 considering it was about the hyped confession week...the billi drama will bring it down more. Will the PH take the risk for prolonging the track?

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

No...his asking her to apologize was absolutely wrong and his repeated insistence proved that he least cares about Zoya's dignity and self respect. It's appalling to see how people are defending his act as an improvement in his behavior towards Zoya...how was it different? Previously he used to bark at her throwing insults at her but now he does that in a more civilized tone...it's nevertheless insult. This man is a hypocrite. He cares about his best friend 's honor and respect who miraculously appeared after 10 years but doesn't refrain from insulting and demeaning the woman he supposedly loves. He is actually worse than Rashid...Rashid is spineless and has repeatedly kept quiet when Dilshad was insulted publicly but Asad is a step ahead because he is the one who has actually insulted Zoya publicly just like today by making her apologize and the worst is not over...the second round starts tomorrow.

I am not able to understand asad , does he suspect anything or not He says Zoe is not lying which means tanveer is lying, then how could he behave all concerned for her!! Does not make any sense to me!

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I am sorry to interfere in the conversation but wanted to mention about the decreased trps...it's 2.5 down from 2.8 considering it was about the hyped confession week...the billi drama will bring it down more. Will the PH take the risk for prolonging the track?

Arre what interruption, you are welcome😳. We are simply surmising thats all. We do hope that the Tanveer truth is revealed but involving Rashid can mean delaying. Also this will delay the confession too. Decreased TRPs😆😆 well I guess the PH will throw in 5-10 mitwa's and eyelocks and rolling and voila, TRPs will sprint up!😛😆😆😆