Man or woman,slapping is not justifiable...end of! - Page 6

I sent this thread to the person I know who works on this show. I hope it is understood that it was not received well.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

I sent this thread to the person I know who works on this show. I hope it is understood that it was not received well.

I agree with you I was shocked that they made his character do such a harsh thing like slapping a girl

Originally posted by: shaz2009

No matter how distraught a situation Asad is going through or how angry he might be that slap was not justifiable in any way in my eyes.That was not just a little slap but that was one hard slap,a very violent slap!Zoya practically went flying with the force of that slap that my heart totally went out to her!I am very dissapointed in Four Lions for making the character of Asad take this harsh action,it wasn't called for despite the situation at hand.I seriously didn't expext this kind of behaviousr from the character of Asad and I really didn't think he'd go that far as to actually physically hit her...Yes That;s exactly what it was more, like a big hard whack round the face...which made me sgiver seeing this side to Asad!Once before I was dissaponited in Asad's character when he held Zoya by the neck and really thought this level of agression was not going to be repeated again,but today they had to take it to anothwer level.I know I'm probably going to face alot of bashing here and be told that what else do you expect him to do when he's Ammi's on her death bed but this is not the kind of up bringing he has been given by his mother who I thought was an inspiration for him,who taught him to respect people and be strong in life and after seeing his Ammis struggle to bring him and Najma up as a single mother he should have grown up to have a hell of alot of respect frowoman in general.I'm going to get everyone tell me that what else was he supposed to do.?..He will repent later but nothing is going to make a difference right now or make me feel less dissaponitment in Asad today as I really wasn't expecting them to carry this slap sequence out...what were they thinking!KSG was geat in his acting as usual but this slap was not hot like many are deeming it to be.Slapping a woman in any way is not hot or sexy to me from any angle.If we all were to go slapping and hitting peoeple whenever we got angry then we wont have civilization left in the world at all as theer would only be animals in the name of human beings!

Can i give you jhappis and pappies for this?

To show my support i need to write something more but because its three in the morning, i am just going to copy and paste what i wrote in a very enlightening thread:


... I love it when people "put violence in context" of the situation ... makes me feel so warm and gooyey about the future of mankind ... and what did you say " he will regret it and hurt himself even more" ... awww! how romantic ... but wait a minute, is that not what habitual abusers do too ? ... they are always sorry and solemnly promise to never ever do it again ... except when they are in a rage or mentally traumatised and the idiotic girl has no sense and she enters at the wrong time ...

So we all agree? "if she had not done this ...", "if she had not said that ...", then our poor, stressed hero "wouldn't have done this"

... Now , where have i heard this before?

Originally posted by: bips

Can i give you jhappis and pappies for this?

To show my support i need to write something more but because its three in the morning, i am just going to copy and paste what i wrote in a very enlightening thread:


... I love it when people "put violence in context" of the situation ... makes me feel so warm and gooyey about the future of mankind ... and what did you say " he will regret it and hurt himself even more" ... awww! how romantic ... but wait a minute, is that not what habitual abusers do too ? ... they are always sorry and solemnly promise to never ever do it again ... except when they are in a rage or mentally traumatised and the idiotic girl has no sense and she enters at the wrong time ...

So we all agree? "if she had not done this ...", "if she had not said that ...", then our poor, stressed hero "wouldn't have done this"

... Now , where have i heard this before?

I have ranted a lot about this and I'm gunna say this again, a gentleman never hits a woman under any circumstances. It's just NOT right. Nothing can justify this. Yes eh was angry, emotional, couldn't think right but he could have showed anger in some other ways. I couldn't imagine Asad hitting any woman even in my wildest thoughts. Being raised by a single mother, loving with two women, I thought he has huge respect for women and won't do any such thing under any circumstances but I was wrong. At the moment, I just can't respect Asad. I just don't feel right. I need time to get over this and he needs to redeem A LOT. He needs to feel guilt, immense guilt even before finding the truth out. He needs to realize how low he stooped by slapping Zoya. And after finding out the truth, I want to repent really bad. And Zoya better not make it easy for him. She better make him pay hard. don't wanna see a love track starting anytime soon. I can't take it. I'm so utterly disappointed. I'm just hoping Asad's mom finds out about the slap and makes him realize how low he stooped. How wrong it is to hit a woman.

Over the weekend, I kept on thinking about Asad getting angry, yelling, kicking Zoya out and cursing her. I was all ready for this because I knew what Asad was going through. I understood his pain. I wasn't even going to blame for all this and I would've defended him myself, if anybody blamed him for getting angry at her but not even in my wildest dreams did I expected this slap. I was shocked would be an understatement. Now I can't justify Asad's actions. He was WRONG! Period.