Prateeksha and Shahshanks love is wrong

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I was just reading around the topics posted on this forum, and i couldn't believe that the majority of the people think that Shahshank and Prateekshah's love is right.

how can you think this, Shahshank is a engaged man getting married soon, instead of being committed to someone, he is out their chasing after his secretary. I've seen people saying that Prateeksha is stupid, she is sacrificing her love for no reason....errr hello...isn't sumo a reason, what's this poor girl done wrong? she's just loved Shahshank...and ok i know that Shahshank only agreed to get married to her becuase she tried to commit suicide, however he still agreed..no one has the right to play with someone's feelings...and i don't know why people think it's ok.

how would you guys feel if the man you are engaged to, the man you love...is running after some other girl?
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ChulbuliRao thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i totally agree with you.. engaged to be married and falling in love with the secretary is totally WRONG even if they are our favvy couple i wud say it is wrong..on the other hand the love angle of araina and raunak is allrite but they are nt focussing on that..anyways i dont think prasha are going to unite in the near future... i just hope that sumo doesn't get hurt..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I understand that Sumo hasn't done anything wrong but as Shashank said,he won't be able to keep her happy so whats the use of ruining three lives altogether???
Their love isn't wrong..it is just suppressed due to circumstances.....
I agree that the way Ekta is showing the love story is 100% wrong as she shouldn't show a boss loving his secretary...she is giving a wrong message to the audience but as I adore this jodi,my lips are sealed.....😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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u know...

There will always be two arguments...that it's all about "Love"

He's engaged...shouldn't be looking at another girl really....but no, it's "LOVE" so PraSha should be together.

So we get the love argument. What if he was MARRIED? Is marriage not supposed to be a lifelong commitment?
so what, break the marriage as well?

i mean i get the reason that it's better to let go and be happy than staying together. but many times, a girl can't do that, for practical reasons. and what, will this cycle continue? and you never settle down? LoL

and what's the deal that the guy/girl will fall in love again and again get a divorce? LoL

like in kank...srk and preity got a love marriage...and then he fell in love with someone else....whats the deal that he won't fall in love with someone else again? 😆

So...it's wrong, I agree. PraSha love each other deeply, I agree.
Ekta has NO clue, I AGREE! 😆

So best way to watch Ekta serials? Switch off your moral codes...that's the only way her past shows reached such dizzying heights. It's just that now, there are many shows that evoke many sentiments and ethics in us that we start to think that every show is like that.

Just remember that Ekta is not part of the new revolutionary wave that TEACHES people GOOD things on television. 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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their love is not wrong.. but the circumstances are... i mean love is a feeling and that is not wrong.. but the fact that they two are engaged is.. dispite the fact that their fiancees are crap!!one is a greedy butt hole while the other is ms. obsessed!!! anywayz thats for another day..lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey Everyone,
I am a very ardent fan of Pyar Ka Bandhan and more so a silent reader in this forum.
I usually do not try to comment because it cause controversy and that is what we are not here for... however this topic caught my attention and i wanted to post something..

Do you not think that we accuse people really fast..
Question Yourself what would you do..
and yes i know most of your answers would correspond to your previous posts but saying and doing is a completely different story.
We have jumped to conclusions on this one.

After Shanshank realized that he fell in love with Prateksha.. he was a sincere man and the first thing he wanted to do was to tell Suhani that he has fallen in love but not with her. Is that not enough for a man to at least understand his priorities. He knows hence there has not been a rift between his relationship. Yes i know that he is engaged but has Suhani truly matured to at least have a decent conversation with him and ask him what he feels. Just loving a person is not enough, the true foundation is trust and understand. Suhani ignores things such shashank "trying" to escape a convo. That should be a red flag for someone to talk and figure things out. And again this is an Engagement not marriage this is when people are suppose to discover their relation and build for marriage it is a commitment but if he is not " cheating" as in completely doing wrong it is ok for one search. I would rather have a guy telling me that he loves another before marriage than after when you really can not fix things without breaking a bunch of relations.This relation has flaws but doesn't everyone couple have them. But both should be mature to fix.

Anyhow this is just a T.V show and we should just watch not criticize Ekta. I know she con be redundant in her serials but this is a form of Entertainment. Just understand that these mistakes that we find in people on these shows are in REAL true. We just need to make sure we do not do that.
Janhvi
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yeaahh, but dere so HOT togetheeer :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ivhnaj

Hey Everyone,
I am a very ardent fan of Pyar Ka Bandhan and more so a silent reader in this forum.
I usually do not try to comment because it cause controversy and that is what we are not here for... however this topic caught my attention and i wanted to post something..

Do you not think that we accuse people really fast..
Question Yourself what would you do..
and yes i know most of your answers would correspond to your previous posts but saying and doing is a completely different story.
We have jumped to conclusions on this one.

After Shanshank realized that he fell in love with Prateksha.. he was a sincere man and the first thing he wanted to do was to tell Suhani that he has fallen in love but not with her. Is that not enough for a man to at least understand his priorities. He knows hence there has not been a rift between his relationship. Yes i know that he is engaged but has Suhani truly matured to at least have a decent conversation with him and ask him what he feels. Just loving a person is not enough, the true foundation is trust and understand. Suhani ignores things such shashank "trying" to escape a convo. That should be a red flag for someone to talk and figure things out. And again this is an Engagement not marriage this is when people are suppose to discover their relation and build for marriage it is a commitment but if he is not " cheating" as in completely doing wrong it is ok for one search. I would rather have a guy telling me that he loves another before marriage than after when you really can not fix things without breaking a bunch of relations.This relation has flaws but doesn't everyone couple have them. But both should be mature to fix.

Anyhow this is just a T.V show and we should just watch not criticize Ekta. I know she con be redundant in her serials but this is a form of Entertainment. Just understand that these mistakes that we find in people on these shows are in REAL true. We just need to make sure we do not do that.
Janhvi

well said!!👏..u should post ur opinion more often in dis forum😆..i 100% AGREE with u😊....yes itz wrong when u r engaged 2 sum1 but u luv sumelse😕....however in such cases like shashank's..i dnt find anything wrong in dis.......itz so easy 4 us 2 put a blame on sumbody but if we try 2 be in dere place den only we understand wat dey really go through😭....shashank had neva fallen in luv with any1..he had clearly told sumo n araina dat 2...but after his engagement he met prateeksha with whom he fell in luv with.......he is also a human being...lets nt 4get all dese events tht r shown in movies or t.v serials r always inspired by real life events😉.......sumtimes a person juss discovers certain things in life a lil bit late but dat dosent mean its dere fault........another thing is tht shashank n sumo r nt yet married!!..how can we 4get tht dey r only engaged rite now.......dis is da time period where if sumthin cums 2 ur mind..u hve da rite 2 change it other den strectching it n den facing da consequences later😕😕......dnt u feel sumo deserves sum1 who would luv her in return??........i mean would u rather wnt 2 marry sum1 who will neva luv u n instead will always think abt dat other person through out dere life?????........dat hurts more den being rejected by da other person😕......another thing is tht da 1st thing shashank wanted 2 do rite after he realized his luv 4 prateeksha was share everythin with sumo.......dosent tht show tht hez on da rite path??????.....even while confessing his luv 2 prateeksha he admitited tht he made a mistake but after all hez also a human being..who dosent mke mistakes?????.....realizing ur in luv with sum1 after being married n realizing it after being engaged r 2 differnt things.......u r nt legally involved.....n itz nt like hez having an affair with prateeksha behind sumo's baq.....i think in such cases like shashank's he should juss tell sumo everything n if prateeksha agrees 2 marry him den its great but if nt den its also ok but atleast frm his side he will be doing da rite thing😛.......even thou dis is juss a t.v serial but i strongly feel derez nuthing wrong with wat shashank is doin nt only cz iam a huge fan of pasha😳😆but also cz i feel he is rite........😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i totally agree with u.This relationship is wrong .It will give wrong message to society.PRA SHA relationship is totally wrong.



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ballball

well said!!👏..u should post ur opinion more often in dis forum😆..i 100% AGREE with u😊....yes itz wrong when u r engaged 2 sum1 but u luv sumelse😕....however in such cases like shashank's..i dnt find anything wrong in dis.......itz so easy 4 us 2 put a blame on sumbody but if we try 2 be in dere place den only we understand wat dey really go through😭....shashank had neva fallen in luv with any1..he had clearly told sumo n araina dat 2...but after his engagement he met prateeksha with whom he fell in luv with.......he is also a human being...lets nt 4get all dese events tht r shown in movies or t.v serials r always inspired by real life events😉.......sumtimes a person juss discovers certain things in life a lil bit late but dat dosent mean its dere fault........another thing is tht shashank n sumo r nt yet married!!..how can we 4get tht dey r only engaged rite now.......dis is da time period where if sumthin cums 2 ur mind..u hve da rite 2 change it other den strectching it n den facing da consequences later😕😕......dnt u feel sumo deserves sum1 who would luv her in return??........i mean would u rather wnt 2 marry sum1 who will neva luv u n instead will always think abt dat other person through out dere life?????........dat hurts more den being rejected by da other person😕......another thing is tht da 1st thing shashank wanted 2 do rite after he realized his luv 4 prateeksha was share everythin with sumo.......dosent tht show tht hez on da rite path??????.....even while confessing his luv 2 prateeksha he admitited tht he made a mistake but after all hez also a human being..who dosent mke mistakes?????.....realizing ur in luv with sum1 after being married n realizing it after being engaged r 2 differnt things.......u r nt legally involved.....n itz nt like hez having an affair with prateeksha behind sumo's baq.....i think in such cases like shashank's he should juss tell sumo everything n if prateeksha agrees 2 marry him den its great but if nt den its also ok but atleast frm his side he will be doing da rite thing😛.......even thou dis is juss a t.v serial but i strongly feel derez nuthing wrong with wat shashank is doin nt only cz iam a huge fan of pasha😳😆but also cz i feel he is rite........😊

I totally agree with both of you..I would want my finace to tell me that he loves someone else rather than me getting married to him, loving him, while he's in love with another...how would it be fair to me?..or the fiance??..I have the right for my husband's whole-hearted love. How could he give that to me if he loves another? and the truth about sumo is that she'll again try to commit suicide if shashank says anything remotely close to being in love with sum1 else..🤢..doesn't that show how much this marriage shouldn't happen..when two people get married, they should both be equally committed..even if love isn't there in the beginning, things like respect, trust and understanding should lay the foundation of a marriage..and shashank can never have those things with sumo b/c she simply isn't ready yet for a mature relationship..all she has is this hero-worship obsession for the guy and she doesn't even know the real him..but that aside..shouldn't you get a chance to put a wrong to a right?..this alliance should never have been fixed..but now that it has..isn't it better to change one party's mind BEFORE the wedding happens? before its too late stop ruining 3 lives?..and at this point, prateeksha shouldnt even come into it..this is about shashank and suhaani's relationship..and they both have equal right to start or end that relationship...but judging by what's happening so far..the only people who have a say in that relationship is prateeksha, suhaani and shashank's family..

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