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Posted: 15 years ago
#31
LET ME ASK U!
HOW would u feel..... if a boy came and INSISTED tht he loves u.. n if u wont marry him... he would commit suicide if u wont marry him !!!!
haaaaan? n if u fell in lov with some1 else???
ismein galat kya hai?
the man is just OBSSESD with u NOT IN LOVE -!!!!!! GET THE POINT DEAR!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: nostalgic_soul

@manisha-hi!Remember me?I am sorry dat cudn't write4several days as i promised dat day at annex due2hectic medical clg schedule,bt i do go through all da posts here as dis is one of da only few shows dat i follow religiously dese days.So,i missed ur writings both at annex and in da forum as i guess i read 4m ur post at da annex dat u were not able2post4some reason.Bt can i say dat i jst luved ur posts in da annex and at dis reply?I always look4ward2ur posts as i always find dem so appealing.So,bcareful as some1always is waiting4ur posts wid grt xpectations!:-))

@hira and mz. Intoxicated-i jst can say dat totally agreed wid u guys!!

@fan of dmg 2b or nt 2b-yaar!Wht can i say!I jus luvved ur post!Sheer brilliance!Pls,do try2write more often.It'll b a pleasure reading ur posts.


@Nostalgic: thnx yaar.. i wasnt able 2 post coz i was missing the epis.. n wud jst go thru the updates.. there r some PKBians whose posts i really wait 2 comment on wenever possible.. n urs is one of them.. 😳 .. its really nice 2 read diff thots.. i jst luv to read them.. so keep posting..😛

@DMGFan-2b-not2b: 👏 Wow, u write soo well.. u remind me of my Adda buddies.. i miss them so much... 😭 .. keep posting.. 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
#33
girls i am with those who say prateeksha shahshank love is wrong. exactly i don't under stand why it is right?.
sumo tried to attempt sucide not to black mail shahshank, her intention was not that. fortunately or unfortunately she couldnot die and she was exposed. she never forced him to marry.it was all their parents, especially shahshank's parent that too for the sake of bussiness.
do you remember when shahshank agreed for the sake of their parents not for the sake of sumo aranya was objecting...but shahshank did not listen to her.
you all say sumo's love is obsessed love...based on what?...based on her shahshank's collection she had!...if that was the reason what about shashak? he too had prateeksha's collection.for sumo it is obsession but for shahshank it is love...uufff...😡.
yet another reason is she is 16 years...girls... in which era you people are ? now a days 16 year girls are mature enough in fact more mature than married ladies....they are not kids. sumo is well matur...that is y she is still handling the secrect of araina...
i can only see cunningness and guitly on prateeksha and shahshank face. personally i like kiritika but i hate her when i see in prateeksha's character. she got a gangu thayli and greedy mangithar it is her fate, that doesn't mean that she should catch hold of her big fat boss knowing that he is the wouldbe of another girl. when ever she say to sumo that 'you are very cute ....you are the best choice to shahshank ' i feel like slapping her😡.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know there have been a lot of discussion on this, but having seen something very similar in my life, I would say better now than after marriage. Because that would be brutal for Suhani. Like someone else said, the engagement period is a time when you get to know each other. In my opinion I don't think their love is wrong, Shashank never really loved Suhani. He fell in love for the first time with Prateeksha and that he will never get over, if he marries Suhani. It is true Suhani loves him too much to a point of obssessiveness, and I really feel bad for her. But it is better she marries someone who loves her and not marries her out of pity because she loves him. Shashank will not be able to give her the happiness whole heartedly.

I am sorry if I am repeating what others might have written already, but just wanted to post my thoughts. Only because I have seen a very very similar situation and the aftermath of it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

girls i am with those who say prateeksha shahshank love is wrong. exactly i don't under stand why it is right?.

sumo tried to attempt sucide not to black mail shahshank, her intention was not that. fortunately or unfortunately she couldnot die and she was exposed. she never forced him to marry- umm..did u watch the epi where shashank goes to say no to her..their parents were downstairs and he went upstairs to her room..all that stuff she's collected of him were on the bed..he starts to say no..and she BEGS and BEGS him to not do so..thats when he goes and put the ring on her that was on the bed...it was all their parents, especially shahshank's parent that too for the sake of bussiness.
do you remember when shahshank agreed for the sake of their parents not for the sake of sumo aranya was objecting...but shahshank did not listen to her.
you all say sumo's love is obsessed love...based on what?...based on her shahshank's collection she had- no..based on the fact that she tried to commit suicide over him..if you really loved a guy, you'd think of his happiness(even if its not with u!!) and not how miserable you'll be without him..!...if that was the reason what about shashak? he too had prateeksha's collection.for sumo it is obsession but for shahshank it is love...uufff.-shashank listen to and respect prateeksha..even though in the beginning, he was obsessed with wanting her, now he only wants her happiness..even if that means he's unhappy without her..sumo is still crying over the fact that shashank might leave her..
yet another reason is she is 16 years...girls... in which era you people are ? now a days 16 year girls are mature enough in fact more mature than married ladies....they are not kids. sumo is well matur...that is y she is still handling the secrect of araina...the only reason she's handling that secret is coz her parents told her to do it..do u think if she had no one to guide her along there, she'll handle it as well? remember how she broke down when she thought it was HER who was adopted. While maybe some 16 year olds are mature, you can't say that in general. They are still going through identity crisis, insecurities etc in life..definitely shown by sumo with her own insecurity and low self esteem when it comes to shashank..
i can only see cunningness and guitly on prateeksha and shahshank face. personally i like kiritika but i hate her when i see in prateeksha's character. she got a gangu thayli and greedy mangithar it is her fate, that doesn't mean that she should catch hold of her big fat boss knowing that he is the wouldbe of another girl-hahahaha..can u plz tell me when this happened?..coz as far as i remember, all she's done is run away from him!! if she really wanted to catch him, she'd have used her wiles on him long before. when ever she say to sumo that 'you are very cute ....you are the best choice to shahshank ' i feel like slapping her-hahaha.u knw i feel the same when sumo starts whining about shashank..just slap her and tell her to grow up..doesn't a MATURE (**being sarcastic here) girl like her know that what guys hate about a girl are their clingliness and insecurities..it makes them wanna run away from the girl..shashank for now might feel sorry for her b/c of her insecurities..but when he starts living with that 24/7, he'd feel suffocated and miserable...

and i wanna add..if you truly loved ur guy, would you not notice every little thing about him..like his body language, or that his eyes are not always on you..Shashank, from the moment he had started to feel something for prateeksha, has changed..does sumo not notice that hes not the same easy-going guy he was before? has she ever really looked into his eyes and seen the pain (and thnx vivan for making that pain seem real 👏)...does she really KNOW him? if she did, if she truly loved him, she'd knw he's miserable............😡..but instead she's in the la-la land planning her wedding n im not saying there is anything wrong with being in the dream mode when it comes to ur wedding..but u shouldn't ignore ur fiance..when was the last time the two of them went on a date? normal, mature adults, if they are planning to spend the rest of their lives together would spend some quality time with each other. But so far i've only seen them going out shopping or wedding venue hunting, and even then, araina is always there..🤢..why isnt sumo taking time out of her busy schedule (**rolls eyes) and drag shashank somewhere private and spend time with him..and when u get married, physical intimacy is very important as well..all i've seen them do is hug, and that too only a friendly one..don't normal mature adults at least kiss their fiance? i mean, i understand if it was an arranged marriage where u do not know ur partner, but sumo has known him since childhood..n still she doesn't wonder why she hasnt been kissed yet? coz shes a baby still...if she was mature enough, she'd never get into a marriage where she KNOWS that her husband doesnt love her..all she wants is to possess him..thats all i can say...
and..lol..sorry this is soo long😆
Edited by hira5431 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: hira5431

..lol..sorry this is soo long😆

exactly...i can make yet another long post quoting your points but i don't want to. any way i am not convinced with prateeksha and shashank love. atleast i can little bit agree with shashank but not at all with prateeksha.her character is sooooooooo annoying😡. don't feel like watching any more.🤢
Edited by shumi. - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shumi.

exactly...i can make yet another long post quoting your points but i don't want to. any way i am not convinced with prateeksha and shashank love. atleast i can little bit agree with shashank but not at all with prateeksha.her character is sooooooooo annoying😡. don't feel like watching any more.🤢

lol..there is no prateeksha and shashank's love anymore, so no point in arguing.....didnt u see..both are gonna sacrifice their love..🤢/ i just wnated to point out abt sumo....anwyays..i don't like prateeksha anymore either...she's become an idiot and totally illogical..in all this, i feel sorry for shashank..he had no say in his life so far..neither in his marriage, nor his love..both were forced on him..and he can't do anything about it...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: hira5431

lol..there is no prateeksha and shashank's love anymore, so no point in arguing.....didnt u see..both are gonna sacrifice their love..🤢/ i just wnated to point out abt sumo....anwyays..i don't like prateeksha anymore either...she's become an idiot and totally illogical..in all this, i feel sorry for shashank..he had no say in his life so far..neither in his marriage, nor his love..both were forced on him..and he can't do anything about it...

i know...that is what i too feel now.let us see how arainya's love track moves...😛.hope ekta don't mess up 😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@hira-BRAVO girl!u jst nailed it down.i jst luved each&everythng u wrote in dat post!U jst said da thngs whch i wanted2state:-))
@shumi-yaar leave alone da other thngs as hira has mentioned all da thngs&i have mentioned wht is my pov in an earlier post of my mine bt,in wht basis are u saying dat a16 yr old is mature enough2take his or her decision??U asked in wht era we are,bt sweety to undrstand dat da teen age dat means4m13to19 is a complicated phase 4any individual doesn't requre2b in any era,it's scientifically&medically proved,being a med student i know dat due2some hormonal change ppl go through some physical&mental changes whch often results in taking severe wrong decisions regarding lyf by dem.Dey need sincere&cooperative frnds&experienced guide bside dem through dis complicated period.Don't get me wrong here,i myself am a 20yrs old girl&don't consider myself as wise in every aspect of my life&den wld bow on my parents as i know dat dey are my best wishers.Incase of sumo it was totally nt da case:-))
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nostalgic_soul


@shumi-yaar leave alone da other thngs as hira has mentioned all da thngs&i have mentioned wht is my pov in an earlier post of my mine bt,in wht basis are u saying dat a16 yr old is mature enough2take his or her decision??U asked in wht era we are,bt sweety to undrstand dat da teen age dat means4m13to19 is a complicated phase 4any individual doesn't requre2b in any era,it's scientifically&medically proved,being a med student i know dat due2some hormonal change ppl go through some physical&mental changes whch often results in taking severe wrong decisions regarding lyf by dem.Dey need sincere&cooperative frnds&experienced guide bside dem through dis complicated period.Don't get me wrong here,i myself am a 20yrs old girl&don't consider myself as wise in every aspect of my life&den wld bow on my parents as i know dat dey are my best wishers.Incase of sumo it was totally nt da case:-))

to certain extent i can agree with you adolescence age is bit complicate,for sure it needs parental care . but for your very kind information (i have done masters in science , 22 years of study, married and i have two lovely school going kids) in olden days teen age girls get married and lead successful married life.almost all the ekta's serial portraits this example bandini.... teen age santhu is shown as more wiser than dharamraj...i married to a man whom my parent suggested cuz as you said we all know that our parents are the best wishers .they do the best for us.when love come we neglect every thing...it is so powerful.
i don't know where do you live.i live in canada...god! you should see how these teen age girls are. that is why here they teach sex education from grade four...again i want to say from grade four...and government permits 16 to 18 year girl or boy to live their life independent, because the canadian government thinks they are mature , they have the right to live their own life.i don't think canadian government don't know about science.
i agree this serial is indian based one but maturity state is same every where. i cannot agree teen age girls are immature.there may one or two exception like you and i but not all.
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