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Posted: 13 years ago
#61

Jyo, I loved your take on Aarti's fear about Yash's touch and her feelings about this marriage.


Samana, you crack me up. Good time for Yash to come and stick his hand in the batter indeed. I had a similar image with Yash sticking his ear to the door, listening to everything going on and jumping in like Superman and saying he will not go ahead with the marriage until the Scindia's get their ridiculous need to wave their power under the Dubey's and everyone else's nose under control.


My favorite scene was the one between Shobha and Aarti about Aarti's inner woman. In fact it is funny all through the weekend I was going through this in my head and wanted to post it but then became lazy and today Shobha and Aarti have this talk. So might as well go ahead and post my thoughts. I apologize if its way too long.


I think all through this marriage phase Aarti has been a woman struggling with two parts of her identities: Aarti the mother Vs Aarti the Woman


My biggest issue with Aarti has always been why would she want to have Yash as Ansh's father if she thought so badly about him. Parents are kids role model so she would want someone she could respect as her son's father. Thanks to Mansi, Aarti doesn't think much of Yash.


But then was it really through Mansi that Aarti formed her first impression of Yash?


I don't think so. Her first impression of Yash was when Shobha told her about the proposal and mentioned that Yash is widowed and has two little kids. I think at that moment Aarti compared Yash to Prashanth.

One had left his wife pregnant and alone to deal with raising their child. The other had stuck by his children even though the mother was no more and is considering another marriage to make those kids lives better. I think in that moment Yash came out with flying colors and "Aarti the mother" accepted Yash as a man who is dependable and one with integrity as opposed to Prashant. When Mansi starts filling her head with nonsense, "Aarti the woman" came to the forefront, adding to this was her own insecurities. As the wedding day approaches she feels more and more uncomfortable.

When Aarti's two identities recognize each other and accept each other and understand that if one identity has to be happy then the other should be happy too, only then can she become a complete woman and only then can Yash and Aarti have happy married life. I think Shobha today got her to think about these two identities today. So three cheers for Shobha. 👏


And PinkChocolate, yes I too feel Pratik and Pari are in for a rude awakening.


I really really liked today's episode. The Gayatri-Mr Khanna scene was very cute. Poor Gayatri, she is just not happy with either of her new daughter in laws. I am so glad they showed Shobha and Aarti standing up for what they believe is right and I am so glad they showed that 'woman talk' between mother and daughter. Kudos to the CVs/writers.


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Posted: 13 years ago
#62
@Jyo & Sammy. All these excuses and definite mindset regarding not 'desiring' Yash are gonna fly out of the window when she lives with him , sees what a lovely human being is and when she looks at him long enough without any pre conceived notions - she will desire him as a man. Its natural. Bouncer to yeh hoga ki Aarti desires Yash first and Yash desires her later. ☺️
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Posted: 13 years ago
#63
agree Jo, she is worried her feelings towards yash and his touch would erase her memories of prasanth whom she loved , and well its considered super crime to forget ur love for her ,...

i wont say first love is not real love all the time but second love or marriage if given right chance will be more sweeter than first one , aarti has to realize that ,
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Posted: 13 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: SylvaniaLUX

Yeah well Mr.Suraj Pratap says a lot of things...He seems a cunning man...who would manipulate occasions and words to suit the situation ..you know you get the vibe there is always an ulterior motive behind his every move and say. He is not the kind to air his dirty laundry that goes on in his home.He lives on power trips and obviously he would paint to the world Scindia's bahu is sweet and obedient to outsiders.



Yup Deeps He is only bothered about his public image ...if he gets a revolting bahu in Scindia family ,his image goes for a toss na 😡..so he needs someone who can obey all the rules and then people can say look what a obedient bahu ,Scindia has brought ..he is grt ...I feel Paridi and Aarti will definitely break this whole image of Scindia bahus now 😆😆
@Jaya :Very true ..take the example of fans only ..if they r in love with a particular on-screen couple ,they will b hell bent to prove that how that couple only is the best and how they dont get the same feel with some other couple 😆...mayb fans dont even watch that other couple or mayb they do feel the other couple is equally good but just to play safe they will still assume negative about that other couple ,just to prove their fav is the best and this stands true for all fans because its human nature to prove how what we prefer is the best 😆
Aarti is doing the same ...she is trying to prove how she does not feel the connection for Yash when the reality is she does feel it and thats making her more guilty 😉😆😆
Edited by jyoti06 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: jyoti06


@Jaya :Very true ..take the example of fans only ..if they r in love with a particular on-screen couple ,they will b hell bent to prove that how that couple only is the best and how they dont get the same feel with some other couple 😆...mayb fans dont even watch that other couple or mayb they do feel the other couple is equally good but just to play safe they will still assume negative about that other couple ,just to prove their fav is the best and this stands true for all fans because its human nature to prove how what we prefer is the best 😆
Aarti is doing the same ...she is trying to prove how she does not feel the connection for Yash when the reality is she does feel it and thats making her more guilty 😉😆😆


lol ye kya explanation de deeya yaar 😆 ...

agree she is restricting and is scared that she would fall for him soon well if i rem she said to shobha that she had the fall once and the pain , isnt interested in falling n feeling the pain again , here shows that not only yashs touch and fear but the insecurity of loosing him is also present in the gals mind , i like this track of thinking and yash being detached to her but want to prove he is a good person , its enough to show different emotions of fear a couple of such kind goes through
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Posted: 13 years ago
#66

About PraDi Vs AarYa Marriages ...I know most r assuming that PraDi might hv issues after marriage since at present its all fairytale ...but I feel mayb CVs might show both couples r learning few things from each other ...

Like PraDi hv already got the taste of Attraction ,love ,desire and passion😆..so they might learn the basics of trust ,maturity ,compromise and understanding from AarYa 😳
AaRya on the other hand because of their past experiences will hv enough of maturity ,understanding and trust on each other and both r already doing lots of compromises 😆 , so they will learn the basics of attraction ,desire ,passion and love from PraDi 😉😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: NightStarr



First of all I am loving this show for touching on issues and topics that other shows skirt around and not talk about.

The episode as a whole as usual was jam packed with drama!

Just like every other episode to me Shoba and Aarti's conversation stole the show. I feel like they are the one's are progressing the show and in indirect way telling how the show is going. In previous episodes we have seen Shoba/Aarti talk when she is telling her how she needs someone not because she can't make a living for herself but a partner in life to share things, another conversation where she tells her how she rips her first marriage card and tells her that, that was her past and Yash is her present. While I was a bit unhappy with Shobha in the past couple episodes I think we saw the old Shobha, the one from the first episode that we all fell in love with come back and tell it like is when she sees wrong.

I don't think many have talked about Bua as once again I think Shoba/Aarti overshadowed her but I feel like the biggest thing about her that is dangerous is that she is an observer and not much of a participator unless needed. The reason it is dangerous is because she can notice everything and figure out things that others might be hiding. So, I know I have said this before but I want to say it again I feel like Bua will full on either turn positive when she sees Aart's struggle in Scindia house or become full on evil because she sees Aarti happy in her second marriage something Bua always wanted.

Awww Pardhi/Prateeik ki jori 😍 young love is all I can say. While Prateik is showing signs of maturity, Paridhi is too lost in her world of happiness. After all everything is going according to plan from both of their presepectives but I think what they fail to see is that regardless of how much they think their relationship AND love won't change after marriage it will. Everything else put aside, even if the Scindia's weren't the type of family they are and were just normal average people still PP's relationship and love would change because with marriage comes responsibility, routines, chores, caring and taking care of another person but yourself, and many other things. There are only a few things that are guaranteed to bring in a huge change in one's life and marriage is one those things. Regardless of any of that though, I am glad that PP are enjoying this time they have because they will have plenty of time to be sad or upset over things happening after marriage. I do hope that they CV show them as a couple that struggles through to adjust to their marriage life just like an arranged married couple would and not trash them to show ArYa in a better light as I am more interested to see the different struggles that a love marriage couple goes through compared to an arranged marriage couple.

SRK SRK SRK SRK SRK SRK----siiigh no matter what I say about him isn't enough as I am a big fan of his. After all I have been dreaming about him since young age 😉

Overall I think the show has a good progress where there is a lot of drama but I think when things get a bit too tense they bring in a good relief and it does not look out of place- so applauds to the PV team for doing a wonderful job so far and hope they continue to succeed the same way in future :)





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Posted: 13 years ago
#68
@Angake :I feel Aarti has no issues in accepting Yash as Ansh's father ..her main issue is accepting Yash as her husband ..today her fears which she confessed to Shobha proves that she is fine as long as Yash remains Ansh's father but the moment Yash tries to b her hubby in future ,she might face issues ...
but I feel things will change after marriage because Aarti is quite vulnerable after Prashant left her ..she has been thirsting for a man's love since then but is too scared to trust anyone ...the moment she develops that trust in Yash ,she will passionately fall for him 😳😳
@Samana :Aarti does not understand the basics of marriage or else she would hv never blindly trusted Mansi's nonsesne regarding how marriage is all about lust ...Even though she got married to Prashant ,but she could never really enjoy or lead a proper married life since Prashant left her within few months of their marriage ...so the maturity which comes in a married life after a year ,never came in Aarti ...she will settle in a proper married life now ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#69
@Angake: I loved the conflict you chalked out between Aarti the mother (and I would add daughter to this ) and Aarti the woman. While the former is her role in relation to someone else, the latter is her own identity and that is much more difficult to define because the possibilities are endless.

I think on some level, AtM is punishing AtW for whatever it was that made Prashant leave her. Clearly if she loves him so ardently after all this time it means that she puts herself in the position of guilt for the failure of their relationship and for Ansh not having a father. Shobha in her talk is telling her to let AtW free and to stop punishing her for someone else's mistake.

And I completely agree that it is when AtM becomes one of the attributes of AtW rather than the entirety of her, Aarti will be able to forge her own identity and find true happiness and peace with herself, all of it.

@All: I thought it was interesting that Shobha's dialogues mirrored Pankaj's about the mind and heart doors and windows being shut. Personally, I think Aarti opened hers just a crack, shut it immediately and is complaining that the sunlight didn't come in! 😆 And Yash, well apparently he has really clean glass doors and windows so Aarti thinks there are none and Yash can see her looking at him . He is tapping on the glass to show her it's definitely there but she refuses to listen.

Oh dear.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: PinkChocolate

@Jyo & Sammy. All these excuses and definite mindset regarding not 'desiring' Yash are gonna fly out of the window when she lives with him , sees what a lovely human being is and when she looks at him long enough without any pre conceived notions - she will desire him as a man. Its natural. Bouncer to yeh hoga ki Aarti desires Yash first and Yash desires her later. ☺️

Bas send Yash in a shower and all Ansh will hv to do is lock his mommy and daddy inside a bathroom 😛😆, ...sab kuch automatically theek ho jaayega 😉 ...Aarti next morning itself will start feeling everything and will say Prashant..who ?? 🤔😆😆😆

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