26/3 Analysis Unit:Lets Welcome SRK in PV :D

Lets all Welcome the King of Bollywood SRK in PV 😃😃😃😃

..Aarti is a mixed ckt, she is neither strong and neither weak, a normal person , she is betrayed by a person whom she loved more than herself and that betryal will never allow her to think in a proper manner reg marriages and second chances ... looks like she never had much exposer to outside world or to other men, else she would never believe or think wat manasi had told her , had she not had the mall encounter she might have had thinking reg Yash and his actions , though she thinks he is characterless , yet she is seeing his other side through his actions and his way of talking ...the way he dropped her off (i registered in her mind in a good manner even after manasi ka drama ) him saving her from falling and helping her with bike, and all , she tried being strong for her son made him her sole reason for living and was leading a life after facing some difficulties and pressure for marriage as she felt he would understand and support her later , but his blame on her and his happiness over news for father changed her mind as she had noticed her strength getting weakned by her own strong medicine 😆... Though she is brain washed and made fearful of yash, she is trying to actually believe that and in B party she was like how low will this man go 😆

Shahrukh KAUN?! 🤔

Shobha Dubey is my SUPERSTAR!!! ⭐️
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From the beginning to the end I loved every single little thing that came out of her mouth and finally actually going and talking to Arpita's mother, well played, SO well played. agar Scindias ladkewale hain to ladiwale bhi kuch kam nahin, be it Shobha and Aarti or Arpita's mother.

But first things first.

I feel like Yash must be so tired of going on like a broken record. All of his family members seem hell bent on getting him a new Arpita and are operating on that premise. He can't seem to make anybody understand that nobody can fill Arpita's place either as the kids' mother or as his wife. She will always have her place. Right now though he does need a mother for the children and that is what he sees in Aarti. In some ways I can understand why the Scindias think like this. They are so rigid about rules and hierarchies that I suppose they see only one position as Yash's wife, the girls' mother and their manjli bahu. To make a distinction beyond that requires emotion, which they are apparently averse to so they can easily slip Aarti into that slot called Arpita, simply by virtue of the latter being their first. It seriously feels like some elected position where no matter who gets into office, they are called by the same name.

Aww Prateek and Paridhi are soo cute and sooo clueless! 😆 It is typical to see couples like this who think they will never become like every other married couple and that their relationship will not change. This is one of the ways that ArYa is much better off. At least they are keenly aware, if only with negative apprehensions, that their lives will change completely after this marriage. PraDhi honestly are a bit overconfident about their marriage and they way they are doing things. It is possible that being BF/GF and being married may not be that different if you live independently, but in a joint family, especially one like the Scindias' it is definitely not going to be the same. And it was ironic that Paridhi said their relationship would have less expectation and more understanding because I think that the opposite is exactly what looms in the distance. Because they are already in love, I think they expect much more from each other than Yash and Aarti expect from each other. So it will be interesting to see how this plays out. But all said and done, Prateek's faith in ArYa was very sweet.

And now on to my most favourite sadasya! 😃

First of all I liked that we got to hear an honest articulation of Aarti's feelings. More than being apprehensive about Yash's questionable character, which I realise now she sees as sort of his right anyway, she is worried about her lack of reciprocating his "needs". Oh dear what a tangled web we weave! But I loved her genuine concern that she felt none of that connection with him that she felt for Prashant...so it was love at first sight! In this case she will build her love much slower but it will be built to last and I am so glad that Shobha was there to explain it to her.

For me the highlight of today's episode was Shobha's speech about Aarti's inner-woman that she had completely buried under the doting mother and the dutiful daughter. I love how matter of factly she talked about desires, both emotional and physical and how both men and women have them. My one big grouse with most Indian shows is that they show the woman always as this pure creature who is wholesome and innocent and basically passive during any encounter of the physical variety. They leave the seduction and the desire to the vamps. So basically you can be a sati-savitri or a vamp, leaving no room for a normal woman with normal, natural desires.

This speech from Shobha was great because it wasn't like a rebellion or some sort of scandalous, sensational scene on that front but was a subtle and beautiful way to explain the relationship between a man and a woman. No matter how much Aarti fights it, she is a woman and deep down she has these desires too and the look on Aarti's face said she doesn't disagree, she is just unsure about Yash still. I think her love for Prashant happened to Aarti when she was vulnerable, and least expecting it. His attention and the belonging he promised was alone enough to seduce a lonely, abandoned soul like Aarti. On the other hand Aarti is entering this relationship with Yash from a place of relative security and love and going into uncertaintly which is why she is not convinced; it is perfectly logical. However, Shobha sees Yash as a man that Aarti can fall in love with, body, mind and soul and god bless her for her foresight and her intuition!

Finally, the Scindias say check and Shobha retorts, checkmate!
I loved her way of doing things here. She sees that the Scindias won't listen at all and are tyrannical despots so she chooses another avenue, much subtler this time. She tried attacking honourably from the front but when your opponents are anything but honourable sometimes you have to play dirty! 😈 I also loved how Aarti speaking up became a pillar of support for Shobha and vice versa. There is a line of injustice that they, together, were just not willing to let the Scindias cross. I think Shobha was keeping quiet for Aarti's happiness but when Aarti opened her mouth and desisted she understood that Aarti was not happy and went into fighter mode again. 👏

Aarti's story was heartbreaking and clearly touched Arpita's mother. I think she also just needed some perspective on the situation, to understand that this was somebody else's daughter. I thought it was very brave of her also to confront the Scindias because she really didn't have to care about Aarti or accommodate her wishes, not to mention the fact that the reminder of Aarti's own parents must have been a painful wake up call that her daughter was indeed dead. I loved the women-power of that scene with the three of them confronting Gayatri and SP. Those two, kya kahen? They are clearly just getting off on their power trip and it doesn't even really matter to them what Aarti is called. Every time Gayatri said ARpita with so much stress, it sent my BP sky rocketing. What a sad woman she is to have to get cheap thrills out of such things.

I really felt terrible when Scindia was abusing her today about being a bhulakkad. She has some serious Stockholm Syndrome though! I hate the way she has to sehen his evil but looks so proud when he is horrid to others. 😕 She really deserves Sailesh Khanna as a samdhi and that scene in the hall was too cute! 😆😆

Precap: Go Aarti, go! And this might be a good time for Yashji to come and stick his hand in the batter.

Let's welcome SRK into the world of PV =D

I don't really care that Bua is telling her sarcastic, "Aarti may not be what you think" to Yash, because she is actually right (Yash doesn't even know Aarti, so whatever he would think of her is definitely not the whole picture) but also because from what she has seen, she knows that there is something going on with the Dubeys, and her character is one that she won't let that slide without a comment to someone. What I'm waiting for is to see if Yash can take the right decision even after listening to her, or if he is as easily swayed as Aarti is by Mansi's talk.

Oh yeah, and I'm also waiting for SRK!😃


Too bad that just filmed SRK in front of a green screen. He and Ansh would have been so cute together.

So, drama seems to be the flavor of the day. I'm finding the whole situation with Gayatri's forgetfulness very interesting. It's clear that she does not want to admit that she has a problem, and it is also very clear that her husband is completely unsupportive of her. I actually feel extremely sorry for her, and I don't even feel that bad that she takes her frustrations out on other people. It is common that when people experience Alzheimer's or other forms of dementia, even in the early stages, that they will become more angry and irritable than previously. My grandmother had Alzheimer's, and though she never said anything mean to anyone, she would sometimes become upset over things that really were not a big deal. Actually, I really respected my grandfather for how much he took care of her and supported her. He never got angry with her when she forgot things and he tried to spend as much time with her as possible. To me, Daddy Scindia is totally failing in his duties as a husband in not trying to get Gayatri medical help, and instead just scolding her all the time. Big thumbs down!👎🏼

Well, once again, no talking between Yash and Aarti. It looks like everything is going to come out on Suhaag Raat. Actually, I can just imagine what everyone will think if Yash doesn't say anything about the name change issue until the day after marriage when he declares that everyone must call her Aarti. Gayatri will be thinking, "What did this ladki do to my beta that he is going against me?" with angry BG music.

While I don't like the elder Scindias being so mean and stupid, I'm okay with it from a story point. There are really only three places that drama can come from in the story: between Yash and Aarti, the Scindia family, and Prasant/Arpita truths coming out. As soon as Yash and Aarti are married and forced to deal with their situation they will have a kind of truce. So, after marriage there won't be much scope for unending drama between them until their feelings start becoming engaged. (Yes there may be family dynamics with the three kids, but I see that as episodic, not something that would create tension on a regular basis.) Ex-spousal issues will be on the back burner too, so not much drama there for the time being.

That leaves the Scindias, and since Aarti is just joining the family, it makes sense to start the drama between Saas/Sasur and Bahu. While it is incredibly stupid and selfish, it is also somewhat understandable that Mom and Dad Scindia would want their bahu to agree with every demand they make. In their mind, that is the best way to keep the household from being disrupted by a new presence. And really, are there any in-laws in existence who purposely want their son or daughter in law to disagree with them? What I am most interested in is that we should see the relationship dynamics between Aarti and her new sasural change over time. I'm tired of shows where the sasural hates the bahu for months on end, before one day suddenly deciding that she is an angel. That is just not realistic.

So, I guess the rest of this week is going to be more drama of varying kinds as we gear up for the wedding to start next Monday. I just hope that there is ample time spent on other characters, as I don't want to see 20 min of Angry Scindia Faces with Aarti looking unsure of what to do.

Oh, and Arpita's mom should tell the Scindias where to get off for making decisions about "her" daughter, since both they and she now consider Aarti to be Arpita. Probably won't happen, but I can dream.

Kill Gayatri 😡

Reserved - I'm loving the episode till now... go aarti! 👏

Ok Aarti and Shobha directly talk to Arpita ka mom and this whole kanyadan drama is finished 😃😃