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Today there are a lot of posts blaming Krishna for talking roughly to Pratigya and manhandling her . Well , I wud request them to calm down and look at it with Pearl Grey's perspective of realism that was once promised to us and which she adds in the amount of a dollop in every episode nowdays . .
As I saw the episode , I saw Krishna the husband in two angles . As a husband he gave her unconditional support in front of his full family and silenced them by declaring not to co erce her to go to the PuranMasi Fair . It was due to his support that as usual she won even this battle .She realised this and said Thank U to him , coz perhaps the grain of truth in her sasur's accusations had hit her a tad more than she cared to acknowledge openly or show. That she was constantly deprioritizing her sasural for her maayka. The sasural was not really wrong there , they hit the nail on the head , she never is there for them .
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Then we see Krishna the husband as a man . He accepts her Thanks , unimpressed and stoic , and tells her a blunt truth ........that he ALWAYS has supported her as he regards himself as her PATI , whether she does or not is upto HER . The hurt , the sore wound starts opening up with her THANKS . It succeeds in not mollifying him but enraging him as he has ALWAYS given her support , right from the time she did not want to change name , to Kesar to her non apologetic stand when she went to her maayka ..........He left house for her and ALWAYS opposed his family for her sake and today she is saying THANK YOU . Wow , arent some people TUBELIGHTS ? The sarcasm in Krishnas answer starts from that Thank u and explodes when she says I wanna talk about Angad .
Angad who is a sore sore point with Krishna as
1] Its was Angads side that Pratigya took although Angad stabbed him
2] It was Angad's return in her life that she hid and it was Angads issue that she handled by herself without taing him in confidence to the point that thw whole of Allahabad knew it except him .........the police Inspector expressed surprise and he had felt very humiliated and hurt
3[ It was Angads isue that has become so sore that his sasur is in jail and he is being sandwiched between family and wife once more .
Angads name made him explode and see red . He is no more in a mood to listen and getting fed up of being taken for granted .
The way he sees it is I am constantly giving support and my demands , my feelings r dismissed off as UNIMPORTANT as always some other important issue is there in Pratigya's life . Today Angads issue is important , what i said has entered from one ear and thrown out of the other .
So he held her face , shook it and left her with a reality check ..........U live in the house where what Shakti does is DAILY ROUTINE in this house . Never did it to u , but dont dismiss me or take me for granted .
Crude as it was it was the dollop of realism that Pearl Grey promised ...........that Pratigyas fights have been succesful NOT due to her spirit but bcoz Krishna supported her . Even Aman Mathur wud not be on this case if Krishna had taken a strong stand and said I JUST DONT WANT HIM BAS .Pratigya had been ready to dismiss Aman too at a certain point.
Instead of hating Krishna for his actions why not see his support and the fact that he always leaves her ? Real hitting is different ..........and hissing to give a reality check is different . And thats what Krishna always does. He hisses but doesnt BITE . Not really that is .
We get so much pleasure from unreal fantasies that a womans sprit alone is enough to fight battles on alllll levels in narrow minded society in UP small towns , but we feel this incensed at some dollops of realism shown by Krishnas hissing periods that come very occasionally in this serial .Why ? Can't we handle realism ?Those who really hurt , would have hurt Pratigya long back , and perhaps in such a way that it wud be unrectifiable . This is realism for you . It is not necessarily sweet all the time , it is bitter and troubling to watch . But its TRUE.
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