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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I know why the lawyers are there now. . In the courtroom as the case proceeds it wont be Shyamus case at all .....it will be Krishnas case presented to Pratigya and Pratigyas case presented to Krishna. . Both will come to a common point . He will stopm pff from there and she will follow him , but the hate factor will be dissolved as both will be forced to see the reality and foolishness of their own actions from a third persons viewpoint . Thats what this court case is for . .

I agree both need to see where they have misunderstood one another and at this point in their relationship only a third party can help them see this reality forcing them to better understand one another since both are quite stubborn, this case will help both of them see things much more clearly.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I know why the lawyers are there now. . In the courtroom as the case proceeds it wont be Shyamus case at all .....it will be Krishnas case presented to Pratigya and Pratigyas case presented to Krishna. . Both will come to a common point . He will stopm pff from there and she will follow him , but the hate factor will be dissolved as both will be forced to see the reality and foolishness of their own actions from a third persons viewpoint . Thats what this court case is for . .



Kools 🤗 Wish if we could do that ahead of these lawyers. 😆
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Originally posted by: Binny1247

I agree both need to see where they have misunderstood one another and at this point in their relationship only a third party can help them see this reality forcing them to better understand one another since both are quite stubborn, this case will help both of them see things much more clearly.



Better still if he would have listened to her once in these last few days. BTW do any one support his condition for her to set the "sage sajao to bat sunun ga". 😔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Binny1247

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I think thats what KoolSadhu is trying to say here, that this behaviour even though it is not sweet to watch, it is the reality in small towns of UP. Woman power in such places is actually a fantasy. I totally agree here with KoolSadhu that Pratigya is able to fight her battles and win them to some extent only because of who Krishna is- supportive unlike other menfolk but very rustic like all of them. Pratigya would not have survived her so called physical protection on her own without Krishna wanting the situation to be like that.

Yes I understand that Krishna is supportive (though not always), but aggressive, but just as women power in a place like UP is a fantasy so is a man like Krishna it 's not at all reality nor is it the least bit possible. In reality a man like Krishna would have gotten what he wanted long ago, but this is a show and is better left not compared to reality. I agree his support has helped her but only to some extent, she has the ability to fight her battles even without his support and she has recently proven this when she hired aman, she only said she was willing to let him go to show Krishna the reality of what his father was doing she was not going to let the only lawyer and opportunity she had to save her father go with or without his support.
How can u say that .........that it is better not left compared to reality when Pearl Grey herself said she will show realism in her show and that it will be special due to this realism ?
Compared to Pratigya.a girl who marries her stalker confident to teach him a lesson [ all girls wud be scared to marry ] ........Krishnas character , a spoilt young Thakur , not so bad at heart , is more real isnt it ? Shyamu , Aman , Pratigya..r they real ? That Aman is so cocky and sooooo confident in getting Shamu off in just two days and thats real ? I saw people fawning over him in some threads today ..........I was amused to see the crush on such blatantly unreal characters . Krishna is definetely more real compared to Aman at least ?And ironially after making statements like Ill get Shamu off in 2days we see Aman calling Krishna as James Bond ki aulaad .😆😆😆
Which battle has she won without his support ?Can u name one ? Had he put his foot down and said NOPE .NOT THIS LAWYER BAS .Kya karti woh ? Kuch kar sakti thi kya? Sasural se bahar pair rakhna mushkil hota..such is atmosphere there , where she wud go to mumford gunj ?
Handling realism is difficult . Its disturbing .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Young minds claimed that as usual , after supporting her he disappointed big time as he went back to his old ways.

What support do these young minds seek ?Support in front of his family and support in bedroom saying I love u darling of course Ill support u in this battle , ho ahead Im with u ..............or YOU ARE WELCOME when he hears the Thank You inspite of the raw wounds that Pratigya gave him on an emotional level which she never really bothered to treat when she later realised her mistake of misunderstanding him ? Explanations were not given to him , his wounds were not gently blown over , even friendship was seeked by her ON HER TERMS . He has realised by now that a lot of stuff is hidden by her and his sasural , and he blocks it from his mind . The relationship and its sad state bothers him , and the feeling of being taken for granted is increasing day by day . He still gives his unconditional support in public to her , but it is becoming increasingly difficult for him day by day now , as nothing has changed on HIS personal front . Thats the way I saw it .



Great posts Kools!
Why is it that Krishna is supposed to listen to her whenever she wants to talk or share bits and pieces of information at her discretion? How many times did he ask her to come clean? DId she? Not once? Even what little he knew he found from his own poking around. Sanskaari, bull from the Saxenas as usual. Why is Krishna not allowed show frustration? Because he dared to love her and she, the strong woman, was helpless and out of options to handle the situation had to marry him?

If she has enough excuses that fill her head and ozze out her ears for why she can't tell Krishna the truth, so can he as to why he is frustrated. There was a nugget of gold, I mean the truth, in every thing he brought up to her the other night. She has wanted it her way or the highway. She underestimated him as the illitereate and played him for a fool. Now she has to face the music when he vents his anger, it's only fair. He listened to her angry baashans since the wedding bec' she thought he kidnapped her. No more excuses, what ever she reaps for her duplicity and outright lies, she must own up to it and make every attempt to fix it. She has emotionally tortured him for months now. She has to learn that lying to a man who is not afraid to tell the truth to her face is a dangerous game. when she said outright that nothing was wrong and she didn't have to share anything with him in a recent episode.

Marriage as far as we know is two way relationship. She heard her bro speak about barabari during their wedding ceremony, but neither one has bothered to treat their spouses as equals. They both hide secrets from their spouses and only talk down to their spouses. One of these days Komal must teach Adarsh a lesson that will never let him take her for granted ever again.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SAM2U



Better still if he would have listened to her once in these last few days. BTW do any one support his condition for her to set the "sage sajao to bat sunun ga". 😔

Yes unfortunately at this moment he feels it's more important to satisfy his male ego rather than listen to something which may destroy his marraige. His condition was ridiculous her succumbing would make things even worse like he would support her if she agreed then told him the truth.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Binny1247

Yes unfortunately at this moment he feels it's more important to satisfy his male ego rather than listen to something which may destroy his marraige. His condition was ridiculous her succumbing would make things even worse like he would support her if she agreed then told him the truth.

Nope its not male ego as i see it .............its HURT at constanttttly being rejected . Its not pride or ego at all , its just HEAR ME OUT FOR A CHANGE that he is saying , fed up with her .There is such a thing as being FED UP . And trust me , if viewers like us feel this fed up with her nonsense , I can only imagine Krishnas state as shown by the writer ShantiBhushan .
Btw A question . Is it so wrong for a man to have a little bit of Ego ? Females have their ego too , dont they . Why shud males be totally totally egoless , what kind of a demand is that , we want males as males or as eunuchs ?😆😆😆 I see a lot of female ego rising up as female Pratigya advocaters flare up at Krishnas actions and say he is a jerk etc and that he shud be slapped this and that ..............A little dash of ego is there in all human beings .Its only wwhen it becomes like Shaktis or SS that it becomes a sickness .
As I see it , inspite of his dialogues he has no probs touching her feet in the mandap . But demands from female viewers r EMASCULATE krishna. Why ? What fun will be left if the character turns into Pratigyas well trained POPAT ?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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How can u say that .........that it is better not left compared to reality when Pearl Grey herself said she will show realism in her show and that it will be special due to this realism ?
Compared to Pratigya.a girl who marries her stalker confident to teach him a lesson [ all girls wud be scared to marry ] ........Krishnas character , a spoilt young Thakur , not so bad at heart , is more real isnt it ? Shyamu , Aman , Pratigya..r they real ? That Aman is so cocky and sooooo confident in getting Shamu off in just two days and thats real ? I saw people fawning over him in some threads today ..........I was amused to see the crush on such blatantly unreal characters . Krishna is definetely more real compared to Aman at least ?And ironially after making statements like Ill get Shamu off in 2days we see Aman calling Krishna as James Bond ki aulaad .😆😆😆
Which battle has she won without his support ?Can u name one ? Had he put his foot down and said NOPE .NOT THIS LAWYER BAS .Kya karti woh ? Kuch kar sakti thi kya? Sasural se bahar pair rakhna mushkil hota..such is atmosphere there , where she wud go to mumford gunj ?
Handling realism is difficult . Its disturbing .
No Kools di both characters are unreal Krishna is not plausible look at his upbringing his surroundings yet his patience not realistic, No women in reality would marry for her kidnapper fine I accept it but this is a show the day prats took that decision reality went out the window. that was her biggest mistake though I can understand her circumstances they tried everything possible to avoid this situation but failed this was their last option besides suicide.

btw I never said aman or anyone else was realistic all I said was both of the main characters far from reality neither one in reality would tolerate so much especially prats she is forced to live with an animal like family too much. And I have noticed Krishna's character is changed in order to suit the circumstances so in this respect Prats character is more realistic mainly because she sticks to a specific personality.

I am ready to handle realism I have no problem with this but where is reality portrayed in this show? The most realistic character seems to be SS and Guruma evil politicians as in reality.
Edited by Binny1247 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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sorry double post 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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He was called 'DOG' and called other names by SS in front of all the family members and espcially in front of Pratigya...Even pratigya couldn't bear calling some one like that...Imagine taking such scolding for a person who gives no hoot for him...he has really torn apart between Family and Wife...
He understood why she needs to go the court instead of that Mela...But what he couldn't understand is why she is bothered about someone who is immaterial to their relationship (from his point of view...)
Call it fabrication from CVs, lack of communication skill from Pratigya or lack of patience from Krishna, it was required for the story...
Pratigya's wish to reveal the truth has caught wrong timing and so as Krishna's frustration...two different mindsets at working...

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