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Posted: 15 years ago
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great post 👏 👏 👏 I totally agree with each n every word you said. u really poured my heart out. thanks alot 🤗
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Hope Mogga

So glad u liked the post .I agree with all ur views .

A lot of Krishna bashing was done today . I dont condone the holding of the cheek but then that was the spot of rare realism in this show. I understood his frame of mind . He is going on giving support but it is becoming increasingly difficult for him as days pass coz he has learnt to survive in this marraige by blocking a lot of things from his mind.......especially the lies that she and his sasural told and he blatantly sniffed . Nowdays a lot of people r saying a lot of things to him and pointing out a lot of aspects of his marraige that he is scared to admit to himself .........that they r probably TRUE . 👏👏He cannot handle this pressure anymore 👍🏼. And in all honestly , he hAS been pressurized a lot . Like he pointed out , he has given in on all accounts she has never budged on any account . It can be terribly frustrating for a man , many wud crack . On that level I feel sorry for him . 😭😭😭😭😭

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kool, I am an ardent fan of your posts.....................or should i say a silent reader who admires your post so much...............😃
Brilliantly put forward........................Loved the post................👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yea i want him to be better human being too
well krishna has changed alot from the start of the show...he has put prats n her family above his own....well him understanding prats is good too....but when will she understand him???
in this marriage krishna got nothing but heartache....
marriage isnt one way street....its give n take.....so far prat has been taking but giving nothing in return
krishna chancing is good....n pratigya needs to change too
or is pratigya perfect?

When did I state Prats was perfect, in fact isn't this one of the major aspects of reality in this show that neither one of the major characters is portrayed as perfect, both make mistakes and are forced to eventually take care of the problems they have created. from a personal point of view not siding with either character I would say I have no problem with Krishna except for his abusive behavior that must be fixed, and Prats never tried to understood him due to misunderstandings but now if you have noticed tries not to lecture, or yell at him mainly because she has started to understand his state, and what he has been going through to take her side in a family who despises her. Seriously you didn't expect understanding from a women who thought her husband had ruined her life, but as soon as she learned the truth their has been gradual changes in her behavior towards him. I find this realistic as well it takes time to get to know someone and feel comfortable around them. In the current situation I blame neither one the circumstances seem to be against them, prats is ready to tell Krishna unfortunately he has reached a stage where he refuses to listen to anything. From my POV both need to learn how to communicate better, because that will help them to better understand one another.

Krishna only got heartache yes because this marraige was forced and his obsessiveness refused to allow him to accept the fact that she never loved him, another communication problem.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu-s

Kool, I am an ardent fan of your posts.....................or should i say a silent reader who admires your post so much...............😃

Brilliantly put forward........................Loved the post................👏

Thanks a lot .😊and if ur an ardent fan I want u not to be silent but hop in my threads with your opinions . Doesnt matter even if u disagree with me at times , ur welcome.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Binny1247


yea i want him to be better human being too

well krishna has changed alot from the start of the show...he has put prats n her family above his own....well him understanding prats is good too....but when will she understand him???
in this marriage krishna got nothing but heartache....
marriage isnt one way street....its give n take.....so far prat has been taking but giving nothing in return
krishna chancing is good....n pratigya needs to change too
or is pratigya perfect?

When did I state Prats was perfect, in fact isn't this one of the major aspects of reality in this show that neither one of the major characters is portrayed as perfect, both make mistakes and are forced to eventually take care of the problems they have created. from a personal point of view not siding with either character I would say I have no problem with Krishna except for his abusive behavior that must be fixed, and Prats never tried to understood him due to misunderstandings but now if you have noticed tries not to lecture, or yell at him mainly because she has started to understand his state, and what he has been going through to take her side in a family who despises her. Seriously you didn't expect understanding from a women who thought her husband had ruined her life, but as soon as she learned the truth their has been gradual changes in her behavior towards him. I find this realistic as well it takes time to get to know someone and feel comfortable around them. In the current situation I blame neither one the circumstances seem to be against them, prats is ready to tell Krishna unfortunately he has reached a stage where he refuses to listen to anything. From my POV both need to learn how to communicate better, because that will help them to better understand one another.

Krishna only got heartache yes because this marraige was forced and his obsessiveness refused to allow him to accept the fact that she never loved him, another communication problem.


@Binny: In read, this seemed to be the key hurdle, IF it was a normal marriage, even arranged marriage things would have been different. See This is the central idea of this show and so far beautifully executed. I won't blame Pratigya for not falling for him, She needs to step back more if he manhandles her. Physical abuse can never bring man-wife close, let alone falling in love.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kool, I fully agree with u r post. Krishna has been pushed to the limit by his wife & family, he said it correctly he has turned into a "football". 😭😭
However, I don't condone manhandling for any reason....
U R absolutely right when u said that Prats has left it too late to tell the truth and now "football" Krish is in no mood to listen...😆😆
All you guys have missed one point and now i'm going to say it..... she called Krishna's sharat as "behoodi" and that was the exact point when he lost his temper....
Guess they don't teach tact and diplomacy in college.... 😆😆😆
Edited by a_uma - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: a_uma

Kool, I fully agree with u r post. Krishna has been pushed to the limit by his wife & family, he said it correctly he has turned into a "football". 😭😭

However, I don't condone manhandling for any reason....
U R absolutely right when u said that Prats has left it too late to tell the truth and now "football" Krish is in no mood to listen...😆😆
All you guys have missed one point and now i'm going to say it..... she called Krishna's sharat as "behoodi" and that was the exact point when he lost his temper....
Guess they don't teach tact and diplomacy in college.... 😆😆😆



Uma you are right, they don't teach such things in collage, Pratigya is fast learning Thakur ways and lingo that is practiced in that house. And yes his condition of her self submitting at the drop of a hat now can actually be termed as" Behoodi condition" 😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
#39

Popped in to say I agree absolutely with Kool😃

Thanks for the post Kool.😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Many are of the opinion that she needs to step back more if he manhandles her .

I say that she shud not have stepped forward at all to marry a gunda in the first place , then all this stepping BACK cud have been avoided . She foolishly did take that decision , ALONE , without listening to her parents . She had higbrow bookish ideas in her head about being capable to teach lessons etc and survive in a Mafia kind of family .

When u decide to take the bull by the horns , what happens ? You must be prepared that the bull may hurt u with his horns too . Thats exactly whats happening to her . Its her own karma.

Its marvellous that she has gone unscathed so far and the credit does not go to her education , capabilities or spririt at all . It goes purely to Krishnas love for her . Lets face it , he is a beast brought up in a beastly atmosphere but a beast who fell in love with his beauty . Its his love that stops him each time at the hissing level and not go further ..........or else this foolish girl with her Hate Talks and insults had left no stone unturned to bring out the beast in any man , forget just Krishna. I think these dollops of realism r put in for warning young gals with starry eyes .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 15 years ago

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