For all Krishna haters

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Just like to point certain facts out:
Pratigya hates Krishna for the things he actually has never done to her & her family.
Krishna could have raped her that nite but he didnt...so no question of marital rape
Krishna never hit her.....just pushed her & held her arm tight (he was wrong at doing that)
Pratigya till to this date has not discussed her issues with .
Krishna...MARRIED COUPLES TALK ABT THEIR PROBLEMS...THEY DEFINITELY DO NOT WITHHOLD PHYSICAL RELATIONS & PUT THEIR MARRIAGE AT A STAND STILL
up to this date..krishna always initiates conversation...pratigya just sits their with her hostile expressions.
how can she assume the roles of a bahu and devrani but not the role of a wife.
whats the harm in a married man expecting to have a child from his wife.....eventually thats wht happens in all marriages ...rite?
krishna loves her dearly & has crossed the stage of door se dekh kar aahey bharna & the stage of emotional attachment...so he wants to move on to the next stage which happens to physical intimacy.
Its not krishna whose in a rush, its his parents who r putting all this pressure on him...evey human being at some point succumbs to the stress...so has he by making the wrong decision of saying that pratigya is pregnant.
He loves her alot which is why he puts up with her crap, stands up for her against his family & everyone else who has a bad intention for her.
& PLEASE PRATIGYA IS NOT THE 1ST WOMAN WHO HAS MARRIED AGAINIST HER WISHES, ITS THE STORY OF EVERY OTHER WOMAN IN INDIA...SO QUIT MAKING HER SOUND BECHARI. SHE'S LUCKY SHE ATLEAST HAS A SUPPORTIVE FAMILY WHO UNDERSTANDS HER SITUATION...MOST WOMEN ARE OPPOSED BY THEIR OWN PARENTS & FAMILY MEMBERS.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nalwala

Just like to point certain facts out:

Pratigya hates Krishna for the things he actually has never done to her & her family.
Krishna could have raped her that nite but he didnt...so no question of marital rape
Krishna never hit her.....just pushed her & held her arm tight (he was wrong at doing that)
Pratigya till to this date has not discussed her issues with .
Krishna...MARRIED COUPLES TALK ABT THEIR PROBLEMS...THEY DEFINITELY DO NOT WITHHOLD PHYSICAL RELATIONS & PUT THEIR MARRIAGE AT A STAND STILL
up to this date..krishna always initiates conversation...pratigya just sits their with her hostile expressions.
how can she assume the roles of a bahu and devrani but not the role of a wife.
whats the harm in a married man expecting to have a child from his wife.....eventually thats wht happens in all marriages ...rite?
krishna loves her dearly & has crossed the stage of door se dekh kar aahey bharna & the stage of emotional attachment...so he wants to move on to the next stage which happens to physical intimacy.
Its not krishna whose in a rush, its his parents who r putting all this pressure on him...evey human being at some point succumbs to the stress...so has he by making the wrong decision of saying that pratigya is pregnant.
He loves her alot which is why he puts up with her crap, stands up for her against his family & everyone else who has a bad intention for her.
& PLEASE PRATIGYA IS NOT THE 1ST WOMAN WHO HAS MARRIED AGAINIST HER WISHES, ITS THE STORY OF EVERY OTHER WOMAN IN INDIA...SO QUIT MAKING HER SOUND BECHARI. SHE'S LUCKY SHE ATLEAST HAS A SUPPORTIVE FAMILY WHO UNDERSTANDS HER SITUATION...MOST WOMEN ARE OPPOSED BY THEIR OWN PARENTS & FAMILY MEMBERS.



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I agree with everything u have said and wld like to add just a thing to the underlined part.

Pratigya succumbed to the stress and never told her parents abt the letters, crank calls etc and eventually married her stalker.

So here Krishna has succumbed under his stress an acted adversely so whats wrong?

As u said it At the end of the day we are humans and at sometime succumb to the stress



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nalwala

Just like to point certain facts out:

Pratigya hates Krishna for the things he actually has never done to her & her family.
Krishna could have raped her that nite but he didnt...so no question of marital rape
Krishna never hit her.....just pushed her & held her arm tight (he was wrong at doing that)
Pratigya till to this date has not discussed her issues with .
Krishna...MARRIED COUPLES TALK ABT THEIR PROBLEMS...THEY DEFINITELY DO NOT WITHHOLD PHYSICAL RELATIONS & PUT THEIR MARRIAGE AT A STAND STILL
up to this date..krishna always initiates conversation...pratigya just sits their with her hostile expressions.
how can she assume the roles of a bahu and devrani but not the role of a wife.
whats the harm in a married man expecting to have a child from his wife.....eventually thats wht happens in all marriages ...rite?
krishna loves her dearly & has crossed the stage of door se dekh kar aahey bharna & the stage of emotional attachment...so he wants to move on to the next stage which happens to physical intimacy.
Its not krishna whose in a rush, its his parents who r putting all this pressure on him...evey human being at some point succumbs to the stress...so has he by making the wrong decision of saying that pratigya is pregnant.
He loves her alot which is why he puts up with her crap, stands up for her against his family & everyone else who has a bad intention for her.
& PLEASE PRATIGYA IS NOT THE 1ST WOMAN WHO HAS MARRIED AGAINIST HER WISHES, ITS THE STORY OF EVERY OTHER WOMAN IN INDIA...SO QUIT MAKING HER SOUND BECHARI. SHE'S LUCKY SHE ATLEAST HAS A SUPPORTIVE FAMILY WHO UNDERSTANDS HER SITUATION...MOST WOMEN ARE OPPOSED BY THEIR OWN PARENTS & FAMILY MEMBERS.

Totally agree wid you 👏
buh still this wont change their mind
& we can't force thm
buh who cares i Love Him 4eva😳
Mwahx
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't agree with your explanation of justifying Krishna's good character. If I used your standard of righteousness to justify ones' character than there is no standard ay all ... everyone will come up with their own standard of righteousness. There is a difference between good and right!
Some people supports Krishna's character because of his personality and his looks. Krishna's character needs to realise his share of wrong doings and ask for forgiveness. Without forgiveness reconciliation is futile.
Love is not selfish ... that you want everything you love for yourself. Love is selfless .. when you think what is best for others. I guess this concept is different to those who share different worldviews.
What point of reference we can use to say the character of Krishna is a good person, a bad person or the right person?
But definitely for me is that personality and looks does not provide the terms of reference to righteousness. - sorry but it is for me!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nalwala

Just like to point certain facts out:

Pratigya hates Krishna for the things he actually has never done to her & her family.
Krishna could have raped her that nite but he didnt...so no question of marital rape
Krishna never hit her.....just pushed her & held her arm tight (he was wrong at doing that)
Pratigya till to this date has not discussed her issues with .
Krishna...MARRIED COUPLES TALK ABT THEIR PROBLEMS...THEY DEFINITELY DO NOT WITHHOLD PHYSICAL RELATIONS & PUT THEIR MARRIAGE AT A STAND STILL
up to this date..krishna always initiates conversation...pratigya just sits their with her hostile expressions.
how can she assume the roles of a bahu and devrani but not the role of a wife.
whats the harm in a married man expecting to have a child from his wife.....eventually thats wht happens in all marriages ...rite?
krishna loves her dearly & has crossed the stage of door se dekh kar aahey bharna & the stage of emotional attachment...so he wants to move on to the next stage which happens to physical intimacy.
Its not krishna whose in a rush, its his parents who r putting all this pressure on him...evey human being at some point succumbs to the stress...so has he by making the wrong decision of saying that pratigya is pregnant.
He loves her alot which is why he puts up with her crap, stands up for her against his family & everyone else who has a bad intention for her.
& PLEASE PRATIGYA IS NOT THE 1ST WOMAN WHO HAS MARRIED AGAINIST HER WISHES, ITS THE STORY OF EVERY OTHER WOMAN IN INDIA...SO QUIT MAKING HER SOUND BECHARI. SHE'S LUCKY SHE ATLEAST HAS A SUPPORTIVE FAMILY WHO UNDERSTANDS HER SITUATION...MOST WOMEN ARE OPPOSED BY THEIR OWN PARENTS & FAMILY MEMBERS.



Denying physical intimacy may be her trump card. It is only bec' of her husband does a woman even have a relationship with her in-laws. She is willing to play savior to her sasural while she shuns her husband. Warped thinking. He has stood by her inspite of it all the whole time.

It's not uncommon in Indian society for sasural to expect a potha once a couple is married. They see it as the next step, they look forward to the joy of being grandparents. They can't force them but many couples do tend to feel stressed at the expectations.

How can she be a bechari if she is the one who made a decision to marry him against her parents wishes? She chewed off more than she could swallow. She has had her way in the Tacurse household much to Amma's annoyance and Krishna has been the one to stand by her.

Krishna has some growing up to do and have someone show a better life. What is her excuse though? She had a better upbringing and different exposure to life and yet she only wants to teach him lessons(revenge). How about teaching him the right lessons to make their marriage work? Seems she needs an attitude adjustment first and then show Krishna a way to a better future.
Edited by MERARAI - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Gosh dude...its just a show....just chill..no one is asking you to agree with them....

don't have to brand all those who don't agree with you as 'haters'....Hate is such a strong emotion for a stupid fictional character or a show.....


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Posted: 15 years ago
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i totally agree with the topic starter's views! i dont understand what Pratigya wants from Krishna... shes quite snobby if u ask me... she thinks just because shes educated, shes above all the thakurs when in reality, they have more life experience than she will ever have which i think is a bonus..... krishna is acting on what he has been raised with... his father and brother resort to physically abusing their wives and so krishna also took that route... however, krishna is not like his brother or father because firstly, he didnt rape prats nor has he ever actually beat her... also, he stands up for her and gets ridiculed in the process.... wheres the fairness?? i agree that krishna may not have all the answers but he is considerate, caring, loving and at the end of the day he does deserve at minimum a smile from prats.... she hasnt smiled even once... on top of all that, all she does is teach him lessons... right and wrong all the time is not exactly the funnest conversations..... she should really be more wife like and less teacher like.... i wish she would just relax a bit.....im actually happy that krishna stands up against her like he does sometimes.. its a reality check for her and he does it privately.... hopefully, she understands how lucky she is...krishna haters u must see both sides and see prats shortcomings...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@coconut boy: my post has nothing to do with Krishna/Arhaan's looks or personality.
& neither did i write up this post to give anybody a character certificate.
I am just stating that there are 2 sides to every story, every situation.
I have always wronged Krishna for where he was wrong....& have given pratigya the same treatment.
As far as righteousness is concerned, standards of righteousness are determined taking into consideration the circumstances.
Every circumstance is different so ur generalized standard of righteousness can be far from right.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@athena:

i agree with u...hating somebody for a difference of opinion is huge.....but sometimes u have to do what it takes to get ur point acroos!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: *queenme*

i totally agree with the topic starter's views! i dont understand what Pratigya wants from Krishna... shes quite snobby if u ask me... she thinks just because shes educated, shes above all the thakurs when in reality, they have more life experience than she will ever have which i think is a bonus..... krishna is acting on what he has been raised with... his father and brother resort to physically abusing their wives and so krishna also took that route... however, krishna is not like his brother or father because firstly, he didnt rape prats nor has he ever actually beat her... also, he stands up for her and gets ridiculed in the process.... wheres the fairness?? i agree that krishna may not have all the answers but he is considerate, caring, loving and at the end of the day he does deserve at minimum a smile from prats.... she hasnt smiled even once... on top of all that, all she does is teach him lessons... right and wrong all the time is not exactly the funnest conversations..... she should really be more wife like and less teacher like.... i wish she would just relax a bit.....im actually happy that krishna stands up against her like he does sometimes.. its a reality check for her and he does it privately.... hopefully, she understands how lucky she is...krishna haters u must see both sides and see prats shortcomings...




Good points! 👏(Underlined). She is running around trying to impress the in-laws while she refuses to have a normal relationship with her husband? Doesn't he even deserve a smile face to face even when he bought her the rabri? She refused to take it from it and then smiled when he left the room.. She is becoming a bit snobby and self-absorbed person. As long as he is defending her from his family, she uses him like a bodyguard to step in to protect her. She makes him pay for thinking he hurt her and her family when in fact Angad is the culprit. All he gets from her in return is criticism and rejection (verbal and emotional abuse). He is caught in the middle between his wife and his family with their ridicule and criticism, yet he keeps everything about his marriage private. She is not interested in teaching him the right lessons so far.

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