Can you leave someone you love??? - Page 7

no good woman will fall for a man like armaan. he has no good quality not even one.
tanisha is bad

Tanisha at times comes across as a strong woman yet she fails when it comes to Arman. She either lacks self-esteem and confidence or is an emotional masochist. It doesn't seem very natural as she patiently tolerates series of humiliation. I don't know if she is madly in love with him or not. But her predicament doesn't seem fake for the show.

However I agree with you it may be difficult to forsake someone and move on when one is in love. A person can be independent and intelligent and yet one wonders why the same person turn subservient in relationship. One may concede for the moment and believe things will change for better but it's not always the case. Emotional and physical abuse can change one's personality and identity forever. It may seem it is difficult to break ties, yet once a person gather strength to break the circle of abuse and become free..nothing can be more liberating than that feeling!

Originally posted by: asmi4you

all I would say abt your reply is you have never faced or seen any such condition
that is why it is so easy for you to say !!!!!!!!!
darling we think we understand such situations the best but we can only understand them once we see them closely
if it helps you
as a child we say "I will never ever indulge in any kind of corruption in my career"
but once you start you don't even know or care how many times you bribe
we bribe the peon to forward your application
we make recommendations and etc etc
we try to utilize strong contacts
these are small things in day to day life, may be small in intensity but these things are also counted in corruption

sooo all I say is its easy to just utter; tough to act

Originally posted by: blue-ice

So if you are so adamant that everyone who doesn't have the same point of view as you is just saying this for the heck of it...then why are you even having this discussion??? Look at the question you asked ...I just gave you my reply...and the reason for it...why are having this discussion...you could have just asked for the experiences of the people in similar situation as u...and then I would have not even posted in this thread...but you posed a HYPOTHETICAL QUESTION before us...

Yes I have a very loving husband who has never ever abused me...but if he had I would have done exactly what I am saying...How can you judge me without knowing me personally...You better not start these kinds of topics if all u have to do is to judge people based on their answers...don't have a debate...because clearly u are unable to deal with a POV that is different than yours🥱🥱

why are you being defensive ??? I was just trying to state my POV
if you follow the thread closely you will find out I accepted different POVs with open arms
but if speak frankly I found your reply very shallow
that is why couldn't help pointing out that you have actually never seen these things closely and see I was right
I was not at all trying to put you down, just stating my mind
if it hurt you I am sorry 😊

Originally posted by: milindms

maybe 20 years back, women had no option, but now woman have option to leave her husband if he abuses her because she can become self-dependent...

don't take abuse in the name of love

Exactly! Love is not just about receiving , it's all about sacrifices and respect for someone you love. "Har kisiko nahi milta yahan pyaar zindagi mein" it's about purity in a relationship where u dont defame your love. It's not always about receiving, but giving it too. Love is pure, but obsession is sin.

Originally posted by: LovesLowCulture

You knew your bf/spouse for 2 years at the time, Tanisha's known Armaan for 2 months within a very controlled environment. I don't think the two situations are even comparable.

true how can a person fall in love true love in this scenario
All four in the house are faking big time

@ TM, in your case you are lucky that your hubby realized his mistakes and never repeated it.
Every human makes mistakes. Me n my boyfriend say a lots of things to each other when we're fighting and later make up with apology and kisses! 😳 I guess that happens to every couple. Wouldn't term it as abuse. But what Armaan does with Tani is downright ABUSE.

He literally controls her. Doesn't let her do anything without his consent.
He manhandled her before and in the last episode, he totally went to be physical with her.

I am sure you know that Armaan was charged and arrested for abusing his ex girlfriends in the past. So he has been repeating his mistakes for a long long time . I don't think there is any hope that he would change for good.

The best Tani can do is leave him .