Can you leave someone you love???

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Asmita

@asmi4you

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Posted: 11 years ago

I m in a relationship for last 6 years and there was a phase when my spouse was struggling for career
during that period he was not at all the person I used to love he used to say hurtful things and later apologize
and one night he took matter one step ahead
we were on a street at night the way he behaved with me I can not bear to recall it
I can say he abused me for the first time in my life
I do remember that sleepless night my mind was in a huge turmoil
my brain was asking me to leave this guy right now but my heart kept saying how will you live without him
my heart won I couldn't leave him
but I was lucky he truly realized his mistake and never ever repeated it
it has been 4 years after that night but it never happened again
which brings me to my question
I am not saying that Tanisha loves Arman but if it is the case
if she truly loves him is it easy to just leave that person ????that easily????
we all say that she should give it back to him but, is it easy ?????
no I can say by personal experience
wat do you think ??????

ps -
I am not comparing my spouse with Arman ...nope
he has a benefit of doubt coz he was depressed coz of struggle
Arman is doing it for game's sake
I am just comparing my turmoil with Tanisha's situation
you can Bash Arman as much as you want do it on my behalf also
I created this post coz just want ppl to be less harsh on Tanisha

Edited by asmi4you - 11 years ago

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Asmita

@asmi4you

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Posted: 11 years ago

plz share your views and experiences 😊

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milindms

@milindms

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Posted: 11 years ago

maybe 20 years back, women had no option, but now woman have option to leave her husband if he abuses her because she can become self-dependent...

don't take abuse in the name of love

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Kiran

@kiran307

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

Its repeated offense.. Not once..!! You can forgive once but arman is just lik that n he won't change.. I think thats coz in his mind he is just playing a game n tanisha is just a mohra for him to go ahead in the game.. His real love is waiting for him outside..

Edited by kiran307 - 11 years ago

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chandni_barbie

@chandni_barbie

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: asmi4you
I m in a relationship for last 6 years and there was a phase when my spouse was struggling for career
during that period he was not at all the person I used to love he used to say hurtful things and later apologize
and one night he took matter one step ahead
we were on a street at night the way he behaved with me I can not bear to recall it
I can say he abused me for the first time in my life
I do remember that sleepless night my mind was in a huge turmoil
my brain was asking me to leave this guy right now but my heart kept saying how will you live without him
my heart won I couldn't leave him
but I was lucky he truly realized his mistake and never ever repeated it
it has 4 years after that night but it never happened again
which brings to my question
I am not saying that Tanisha loves Arman but if it is the case
if she truly loves him is it easy to leave that person that easily????
we all say that she should give it back to him but, is it easy ?????
no I can say by personal experience
wat do you think ??????

i dont see any love between tanisha and armaan...she is faking it...i think both are sexually frustrated ... after few months u will see in the news about their breakup.

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LovesLowCulture

@LovesLowCulture

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Posted: 11 years ago

You knew your bf/spouse for 2 years at the time, Tanisha's known Armaan for 2 months within a very controlled environment. I don't think the two situations are even comparable.

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Asmita

@asmi4you

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: milindms
maybe 20 years back, women had no option, but now woman have option to leave her husband if he abuses her because she can become self-dependent...

don't take abuse in the name of love

yes sure they can
but once you are emotionally attached to a person it is not at all easy to just leave him,
how can you just throw away a person who is like a habit to you ??????

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Isha Kumar

@ishakumar

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: LovesLowCulture
You knew your bf/spouse for 2 years at the time, Tanisha's known Armaan for 2 months within a very controlled environment. I don't think the two situations are even comparable.

yea if he is treating her like this in just 2 months, imagine what will happen to her in 2 years

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-Cruiser-

@-Cruiser-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: asmi4you
I m in a relationship for last 6 years and there was a phase when my spouse was struggling for career
during that period he was not at all the person I used to love he used to say hurtful things and later apologize
and one night he took matter one step ahead
we were on a street at night the way he behaved with me I can not bear to recall it
I can say he abused me for the first time in my life
I do remember that sleepless night my mind was in a huge turmoil
my brain was asking me to leave this guy right now but my heart kept saying how will you live without him
my heart won I couldn't leave him
but I was lucky he truly realized his mistake and never ever repeated it
it has 4 years after that night but it never happened again
which brings to my question
I am not saying that Tanisha loves Arman but if it is the case
if she truly loves him is it easy to leave that person that easily????
we all say that she should give it back to him but, is it easy ?????
no I can say by personal experience
wat do you think ??????

There are more than 6 billion human beings and no two are exactly alike! Thats the beauty of nature...evolution.

Its impossible to have straight answer to a question like that when every individual's personality, mental frame of mind, upbringing and personal circumstances are different!

Why do so many girls fall for supposedly bad guys? In one girl's case it could be a latent desire to feel safe & secure in the comfort of a burly macho. In yet another's case it could be her strong maternal instinctive instinct that sees a lost vulnerable child in the burly bad man and a deep conviction inside that 'I can reform him!"😳

Persons are different...so are their responses to seemingly identical situations!😊

Edited by -Cruiser- - 11 years ago