Manav treats soham like stepchild

agree with you completely. I don't even know what is the point of his character anymore. He is so irrelevant to the show. All he does is scream. Why didn't he just die due to the bullet. I wanted to see Archana handling her family by herself.

Agree.

Maybe someday we will stop using the word stepchild as a bad thing.

Yes, Manav and Archana have both failed miserably in rehabilitating Soham.

where Manav and Archana are wrong is that they are not educating Soham .Otherwise I am very glad that Manav caught Soham talking to Balan and he put two and two together .

Well I think Manav was ok to yell at Soham as Soham did a really wrong thing by going along with Balan's plans that was really wrong of Soham to be ok with Sachin being kidnapped but I have also noticed Manav seems to lose it with Soham a lot. He is definitely much harder on Soham then he is with any of his other children and that's not really fair. I know Soham is doing wrong with Gauri and Sachin etc but if ArMan keep scolding him that he has not reformed that wil only put him more down. Manav shud have been a little more calm in the way he spoke to Soham, he is his son, not his enemy! When Manav scolds his other children, he is scolding them in a nice loving way but it seems he is always yelling in hatred at Soham.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Yes, Manav and Archana have both failed miserably in rehabilitating Soham.

Just lecturing him abt reform and hard work isnt going to help him in any practical way!

Why the hell didnt they start educating him? Why not give him some job (any job) at Manav's company? So he feels accepted and worthwhile?

Basically Soham feels neglected and inferior to Sachin, to the rest of Deshmukh family and they treat him as such!

Its this hurt ego that has turned him into a sociopath and obsessive lover! If he had a worthwhile life, he would not be obsessing so much with Gauri.

Manav never yelled at Ovi when she did all those terrible things like deal marriage and drinking during pregnancy! He didnt yell this much at Sachin after he found out how he had lied and conspired to separate Manav from Archana!

I hold Armaan responsible for whats happening with Soham now.

I believe if Soham had stayed with Varsha he would still be the nice young man that he was becoming after coming out of jail.

Really I don't understand why not do ARMAN these things what Pallavi express her view.

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

Maybe someday we will stop using the word stepchild as a bad thing.

But you guys honestly believe whatever mistakes Ovi, Teju, Purvi, Sachin did in the past is the same as kidnapping one of his daughters, putting her life in danger and shooting his wife and putting her in a coma?

Soham deserves all the yelling he gets. Manav has no reason to trust him and after looking at Soham's current behavior he is absolutely right in not trusting him.