Manav treats soham like stepchild - Page 3

But I do not understand how Sachin caused heartache to Manav and Archana for 18 yrs??? The 18 yrs separation was not due to Sachin, as far as I remember...

Originally posted by: Kalapi

But I do not understand how Sachin caused heartache to Manav and Archana for 18 yrs??? The 18 yrs separation was not due to Sachin, as far as I remember...

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

It wasn't. He was a child when they separated. Savita hated Archana enough to separate Manav and Archana at any cost. Her most terrifying nightmare was Manav's reunion with Archana so one can only imagine what type of Anti-Archana environment Sachin grew up in. Even Teju and Ovi grew up hating Archana. And she was actually their mother.

Yes...and besides he had his real mother Shravani...and any child knowing about her and Manav's past history - well, not hard to imagine, he could want his bio mom married to the only Dad he knew and worshipped...stupid of him absolutely to think he could do the match making when Manav was all Devdas all of 18 yrs...but, he is also young and can make mistakes too - but, of course - I am guessing he is not as cute and handsome a gunda like Soham is, so can't be forgiven so easily😉

Originally posted by: FireLordPhoenix

Soham's current actions and behavior don't help him in any way. Manav seemed close to accepting Soham and now if Soham is getting yelled at, he deserves it. Soham can talk back all he wants but personally I'm just getting tired of this "Vishnu Lala" chawl brawler avatar of his. I hope he stays away from Gauri because he's behaving like a psycho now. He clearly doesn't have the capacity to think of others nor does he have the capacity to think ahead. Did he once think what would happen when Gauri finds out she was deceptively married off to Soham? Did he think she'd just accept it and embrace him? What if she refuses? What would he have done then? I feel afraid for Gauri and hope someone knocks some sense into Soham to not go after his future sister-in-law and to stop his disgusting behavior.

While I do agree that Manav, Archana, Varsha, and Balan all had a hand in making Soham the person he became his bhevaior currently is not due to them but due to his own selfish desires. He wants Gauri and he wants her in any way. That's not because of Manav and Archana. They did no wrong in setting up Sachin and Gauri's marriage. I don't think Soham should be coddled any longer. I can see Manav's frustrations and he probably has had it with Soham.

@bold, I completely agree Soham is nothing but a selfish brat who refuses to listen to logic. Gauri made it clear she is not in love with him yet he expects Archana to prove her love for him by forcing Gauri to marry him. I do not believe getting Soham educated or a better job would've changed anything, he is obsessed and selfish. I just hope the CVs do not show Soham getting his way instead they should show Soham learning his lesson the hard way.

Originally posted by: Kalapi

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Just to add...not all sons of a Gunda becomes a Gunda. Nor all ppl who comes from a socially backward/bad/deprived environment automatically follow that footsteps...nor all children born from a rich, well educated, ethicalparents - themselves becomes well educated or ethical...I mean there are many many real life examples - so just saying parvarish is only the key factor is totally wrong. Well, look at Sanjoy Dutt - son of Sunil Dutt - just as an example...

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Edit add : Varsha had Sulo's great parvarish...but then what became of her...fictional example if you want one😉

This is so true kalapi. I have a very good example to this. My bestfriend's family. She and her siblings were born from drug addict parents, both their mom and dad were drug addicts since the age of 16. The father is a famous musician here in my country and the mom used to party with him. My bestfriend's mother was taking drugs for the whole 9 months. Thank God my bestfriend and her siblings all were born normal. Her mother never stopped taking shabu and weed to this very day and she is now 60 years old. The father stopped using drugs because he suffered a stroke and can no longer do things on his own. My point is, having drug addict parents did not turn my besfriend and her siblings into drug addicts. With the help of relatives and scholarship they were able to graduate. My bestfriend became an occupational therapist, now based in new york and her siblings are nurses and managers. They were determined to have a normal life and never repeat the mistakes of their parents and wouldn't want their children to experience what they had gone through in their lives. Her mother was always in jail and they had to look for money and beg relatives and friends to lend them money to bail their mother out and because of all these sad events in their lives, they were determined to a have a better life and will never follow the footsteps of their parents. So i do agree with you kalapi that not all sons of gunda becomes a gunda.

Character is influenced by education and good-upbringing...but it is not wholly influenced by these factors! Just because Soham did not get a good family life and wasn't educated does not justify the way he is behaving now...harassing a decent girl to marry him, knowing that she is engaged to his brother...lying through this teeth to his mother and counter-arguing with his father...and worst of all, hitting and almost trying to kill his elder brother!

I think something is wrong with the biological children of Manav and Archana. Ovi is a psychotic freak. Soham is a serial killer/homocide. Teju is a promiscuous hussy; she just broke up with Sunny like that...lol.

This explains that nothing good can come when Manav and Archana consummate.

Originally posted by: LoveHatePR

sorry to interrupt in your conversation...but ArMan are more responsible for the situation than anyone else...

in this era, relationships are more fragile than anything, if ArMan had pinch of trust between them then they wouldn't have separated for 18 years...

"Meri Archu" and "Aaap kuch kijiye na Manav" are only 2 things which makes them soulmates, nothing else is connected between them...

Originally posted by: Kalapi

or the (possible) fact of forcing a girl in marriage, under the guise of her honewala Husband. That is even true for such a 'cute' 'Sweet' ' true' lover boy Soham. Real life stories are replete in India, where a girl refuses a person and acid is hurdled at her next day, if not acid - deceiving her to marry him (just like Soham's plan) or...er... rape her. Ekta does show reality sometimes. I am glad, Manav shows better instincts that his airheaded wifey darling...

ok, the point is not that soham is wrong or does not bear full responsibility for his actions. of course he does. the point is that when the other kids do wrong, manav gives them a stern lecture or tries to explain it to them why it is wrong despite the fact that all the other kids should know the difference between right and wrong because they were all educated and not raised by goons. every single time soham has done wrong manav full on rages at him, even when he tries to be good and makes a mistake. clearly the yelling thing doesnt work with soham so why does he not try the same thing he does with the other kids. why does he expect sudden and fast change for soham.