Bani should just leave him... - Page 7

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swati

mahimn,

most of the time u people were telling that he slept with pia because he thought at that time he was divorced from bani then why he accepted him on the same night that too without asking any questions that shows what type of person he was (to have wife as well as SIL). why he was so stupid to not to ask him anything about divorce and abortion/miscarriage issue.

but mahimn i was telling himali not to make fun of his sin but now i myself is into fits of laughing(after reading ur post).

swati

Originally posted by: sangitadas

I know, its not only breaking of trust and blah blah (sorry I am too tired). But it was first grade humiliation and nobody should be subject to it.

Yep I just hopethat nothing happend. and the DNA resutls come out soon. So Bani knows the real face of that Pia. And Hopfully she won't support her after knowing the truth.

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

(she will stay and feel guilty for the rest of her life.)

sangs,
thats the problem for bani.
she should realise that her initial anger hurt was all normal for a wife who loved her husband so much cause she was unaware of the truth.

but she would not only feel guilty for her own mistakes, she would keep on feeling so cause pia who is like a daughter to her played the game with JW.

i want to see Bani disowning Pia and i promise i wouldnt say a word against her ever 😡

I totally agree with you on this. Well said.👏

Originally posted by: pooja.walia

Himali,
JP marriage will be the end of it all...

No way Jai and Pia can't marry.

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

(punishments given to a Dixit and a Non-Dixit are not only varying in terms of degree but also on account of fairness... )

poo,
where is the punishment for Dixits to compare them in dgree and fairness.
pia wasnt punished when she broke her engagement with pushy without telling him so and renewed her relationship with jai
she wasnt punished when she eloped
she wasnt punished when she acted selfish to break pushy's family
she wasnt punished when she aborted his child...

when was she punished????

a slap from some odd number of people and shradh and chautha as punishment cant be even measured on same scale.

i think all those pending punishments will soon be delivered to pia by jai and thats why i am still clinging on to KS.

Very well said.

Originally posted by: aman123

Hey what's up cousin Navi what took you so long to post???Haaa started India-forums after you and your still a senior member? 😆 😆

yea yea yea. I was the one who told you about India forums. ANyway I decided to post coz i felt like it.

Originally posted by: sangitadas

I agree with you Himali. Jai is just a normal human being and it was his love for Bani and his fear of losing her and causing her pain that had stopped him froim acknowledging the truth. I just wanted to say that between the ONS happening really and his behaviour later, I am not happy with that second part of his action. It doesnt mean that he's wrong or vice versa.

In fact, now that they have been forced to stay away from each other, I would also like both of them to realise the mistakes they had committed down the line, and learn from these mistakes. SO that when they come back together (I am sure they will) their relationship would rest on the foundations of trust along with love.

I get it that Jai didn't want to hurt her but he still ended up hurting and making her cry. Wouldn't it have been better if he had told her himself rather than her finding out on her wedding anniversary and in front of other people. If he had told her himself atleast that could have spared Bani some of her dignity. Also wat was Jai thinking not telling. Did he think that Bani would never find out. Frankly, Pia did the honour thing by telling her but i didn't like the way she told her.

the problem isn't the fact about jai and pia spending the night. we don't know whether pia is telling the truth or not. The problem is the fact that Jai didn't have the guts to tell her what happened. Now Bani would be more broken when she finds out that her sister rano knew about it. This was the one sister that Bani trusted. this was the one sister that bani could count on. Puspkar was her friend yet he didn't tell her. Bani is now left with no one to trust. SHe can't trust anyone now. She will be so broken when she finds about everthing.

Originally posted by: swatinarang

i agree with ur opinion to some extent, but tell me if nothing happened in dubai between jai and pia. whether she shld still leave him and it was just a game plan of pia to get hold of walia empire.

whether bani will be able to love anyone else in her life or will she will become a robert without feelings for anyone. seeing her depth for love for JW i think she won't be able to forget him and even if she will divorce him and let him marry pia she will be the only one suffering and will let to her getting depressed. i don't think doing a job will solve her problem.

I totally agree woth u, he (jai) doesn't deserve Bani. She's better off without him!😭

on other hand if ONS happened i also truly agrees with ur views.

swati

Originally posted by: aqsita

Well lets see how the truth comes out. Waiting for the DNA reports taking for ever.😡😆And isn't 24 hours over yet so Bani could be out of her shock.