Bani should just leave him...

Naviswtngl thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Bani should get the guts to leave and forget him. He is good for nothing. I am actually glad that Pia showed his true face. I get it that he was forced drunk but serioously he should have had the guts to tell Bani the truth himself. It would have been less painful for her that way. What made him think that Bani would never find out. The truth would have gotten out either way. Atleast Pia tried to tell Bani wat happened but Jai and Rano stopped her everytime. I know that Pia isn't rite with wat she did. Pia's character is someone who needs to be told, she can't look at a person tell their feeling like Rano can. I actually blame both pia and jai for wat is happening rite now. I think Bani should just leave him and pia. What has she ever gotten from both of them. All she ever got was a little happines and lot's of pain and tears. She should get on with her life w/o jai and pia in her life. She needs to get out of her shock state and divorce jai and go get a job. She needs to start thinking of her life and live her life instead of crying. Bani is a strong woman and she can get through this. She doesn't need Jai in her life. She lived her life w/o jai before and she can again.

I know a lot of people won't like what i post. but please No Bashing. 😛 This is just my opinion. do not attack me.😆 I would be like to know wat you guys think.

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swatinarang thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i agree with ur opinion to some extent, but tell me if nothing happened in dubai between jai and pia. whether she shld still leave him and it was just a game plan of pia to get hold of walia empire.

whether bani will be able to love anyone else in her life or will she will become a robert without feelings for anyone. seeing her depth for love for JW i think she won't be able to forget him and even if she will divorce him and let him marry pia she will be the only one suffering and will let to her getting depressed. i don't think doing a job will solve her problem.


on other hand if ONS happened i also truly agrees with ur views.

swati



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Posted: 19 years ago
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Swati,

Exactly.If ONS did not happen, not only will Bani not have any reason to leave JW but moreover for no fault of hers will have to bear the guilt of the stupdity of St. Billo. She would never have the option of being happy with someone else. But yes if ONS did happen, I dont see Bani forgiving JW and will probably move on.

Rgds,

Pri
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: swatinarang

i agree with ur opinion to some extent, but tell me if nothing happened in dubai between jai and pia. whether she shld still leave him and it was just a game plan of pia to get hold of walia empire.

whether bani will be able to love anyone else in her life or will she will become a robert without feelings for anyone. seeing her depth for love for JW i think she won't be able to forget him and even if she will divorce him and let him marry pia she will be the only one suffering and will let to her getting depressed. i don't think doing a job will solve her problem.


on other hand if ONS happened i also truly agrees with ur views.

swati



You are rite that if that hadn't happened, she wouldn't have to leave him. Since it did or didn't happen he should have still told her. He could have spared her some dignity, instead of finding out in front of everyone. Also she will still be suffereing if she doesn't divorce him. It would be easier on her if she goes away from him because then she won't see him and if she doesn't see him she won;t keep remembering everything. with her doing a job she will be out in the world and be independent.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Navis,

(she won't see him and if she doesn't see him she won;t keep remembering everything. )

If it is JW who disappears into thin air, she wont be seeing him either.

Rgds,

Pri

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Its not an issue whether ONS happened or not. We were made to believe that the ONS happened but now slowly but steadily, we will probably be shown that the ONS never happened and that JW had passed off on that fateful night.

Not that exonerates his mistake, not cos of the ONS but because of his deplorabel behaviour later.

Since the issue is whether Bani should go away from him or not rests comepletely upon Bani's judgement of the issue, since she still doesnt know the entire truth. And do you think that they will be happy togetehr, since they are soul mates?

I want these two to face thsi rough weather with a straight chin, and when they eventually see themselves through this weather, they should throw the GFNs out.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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(Not that exonerates his mistake, not cos of the ONS but because of his deplorabel behaviour later)

sangs,
dont u think Jai was afraid of loosing bani if truth comes out. he wasnt giveing a damn to what others think of him or his reputation.
his prime concern was bani and her well being.
he didnt want to see bani in pain.
still there were number of occasions when he dared to tell her but call it a destiny, he couldnt.
then with Rano's backing and Pia's acting he thought he can get through with it.
everyone has skeletons in their closets and noone want them out especially if u are losing love of ur life.
JW did the same as he is an ordinary human.bani's constant comparisons of him with God held him back.

if his acts were condemnable then Bani and Pia are somewhat responsible for it too.

PS:hope i am sticking to the subject.

i would love both of them to go their own ways away from WM and GFN and think about their life without each other. then they will realise what they mean to each other.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Sangs,

(Since the issue is whether Bani should go away from him or not rests comepletely upon Bani's judgement of the issue, since she still doesnt know the entire truth. )

Unfortunately that right has been snatched away from her by St. Billo. By pronouncing a death sentence on JW, she has created a situation where JW will probably have to vanish into thin air the moment he is convinced that Bani is back on her feet. Even if she wants to forgive JW, that option will be taken away from her. And if Munna is baizzat buried, Bani will be forced to feel guilty for an appalling tragedy she was never responsible for in the first place.

Rgds,

Pri
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Its not an issue whether ONS happened or not. We were made to believe that the ONS happened but now slowly but steadily, we will probably be shown that the ONS never happened and that JW had passed off on that fateful night.

Not that exonerates his mistake, not cos of the ONS but because of his deplorabel behaviour later.

sang,

as per my feelings both the things happening of ONS and behavior of JW post ONS are equal, but ya of course we can still have one explanation for his post ONS behavior that he don't want to lose bani so he was doing all those things,( but in that case also i cannot make out then why he kissed pia saying hamara bacha 😡.)

sang,

in any case if ONS happened even in drugged state i want bani to go away and to be with some other person rather finishing her life with pagalkhana members and if pia's child is JW's then they shld marry and rot in hell and for me KS will be over. now i am watching KS only because of the fact that they r making us believe that nothing happened in dubai between JP but u never know they can turn the things anyday.

swati

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I totally Agree with you sangs Jai should have told bani the truth. Atleast she wouldn't have felt guilty of her own sister Pia came up with all that Drama in front of someone she doesn't know.

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