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Now I am not defending anything Asad said. But some things said on this forum, i do disagree with. Many of you here have stated that if Asad loves her, he would trust her. I do have a rebuttal for this. Trust is something very complicated and it can only come with time. Considering the fact that Asad and Zoya have barely known each other, I don't think either of them trusts the other fully. They first need to know each other for trust to set in.
They do love each other. But unconditional love, that is trusting a person blindly is both unrealistic and improbable without a sufficient amount of time.
I am not defending Asad or what he did, but I think the MU is not unrealistic. Asad needs to tame his attitude and everything but I think that's what QH is about, how Asad and Zoya change for the better. Since that's the entire story, I think we'll eventually get there but to get to unconditional love there is time.
PS- The is ofc a very personal opinion, people may feel differently because we have different views of and expectations from love.
Anupamaa
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