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Posted: 12 years ago
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this post is completely opposite of wat I think...😃

I m okay if he doesn't trust Zoya...but he trusts a woman who he is meeting after 20 long years more than the one with whom he has been living for the past few months n he has seen how Zoya without even a single thought has put her life on stake for him n his family...!! Wat has Tanveer done that he trusts her so much!!
He is getting married to Zoya...why does he think she wud do as he say???
bcoz he knows there is something between them...u remember that scene where Zoya told him how much she depends on him n she knws wenevr she is in any trouble, he'll always be there for her...!!! Zoya trusts him blindly, but he doesn't!!
He has always regretted his own words, his decisions...why is it that he is the always saying SORRY??? Bcoz its his fault always...if a person doesn't learn from his own mistakes...if he doesn't trust her...then he's the one who is at fault!!!
n like u said, Its more difficult to trust someone than to love him...yeah I agree,...but Zoya has has proved herself enough number of times already!!
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Zoya never said NO for this marriage...Dilshad didn't even ask Zoya if she loves Asad...Asad has not even confessed...yet this girl is ready to get married to him...this is her TRUST in Asad, that is why she is doing all that he wants her to do!!!
Edited by nupsie - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Firebolt


It's Asad and Zoya's story😕 That's why I was baffled they would want Zoya to fall in love with someone else. Separation or Zoya giving the cold shoulder is absolutely welcome but falling in love with someone else? That I don't get.


Exactly. I mean a meaningful seperation would totally do but this is Asad and Zoya's story and no matter what each other do, its still going to remain theirs. Kind of being bipolar by saying we want AsYa but then when something like is happens, going on and wanting Zoya to leave Asad and marry someone else, infact 'fall in love' with someone else.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -ElmoFuj-

They have barely known each other. They don't even know each other's complete history yet, trust is not guaranteed. But he could've been more civil though, and he need not be that insensitive. But you raised a very true point.

Great post.


bang on... this is what i excepted from asad...@bold...

i agree with u too firebolt...i don't expect him to trust blindly but i expect him to start to believe which will build up trust in him for her...
i definitely do not want Ayaan and zoya...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Completely agree 👍🏼
Nice post
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nupsie

this post is completely opposite of wat I think...😃

I m okay if he doesn't trust Zoya...but he trusts a woman who he is meeting after 20 long years more than the one with whom he has been liveing for the past few months n he has seen how Zoya without even a thought has put her life on stake for him n his family...!! Wat has Tanveer done that he trusts her so much!!
He is getting married to Zoya...why does he think she wud do as he say???
bcoz he knows there is something between them...u remember that scene where Zoya told him how much she depends on him n she knws wenevr she is in any trouble, he'll always be there for her...!!! Zoya trusts him blindly, but he doesn't!!
He has always regretted his own words, his decisions...why is it that he is the always saying SORRY??? Bcoz its his fault always...if a person doesn't learn from his own mistakes...if he doesn't trust her...then he's the one who is at fault!!!
n like u said, Its more difficult to trust someone than to love him...yeah I agree,...but Zoya has has proved herself enough number of times already!!


I said time and Asad and Zoya have not been together for long at all. In fact they are not even in a relationship. It's actually madness for them to get married but that's an India Soap cliche. Oh well.


He has to learn about Zoya. And he learns a bit more every time they MU. I'm not saying everything has to be learned from MUing but things like this which Zoya will never tell Asad (because she too doesn't him) MUing seems to be the rout.

Zoya ofc shouldn't accept Assad like this at all I'm saying is that we're on a journey to getting to that point.
Edited by Firebolt - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Asad and Zoya want to get married to each other, that is NOT trust.

That's love.

Asad and Zoya have only admitted to themselves that there's something between them.

The fact that Zoya is afraid to take the first step in enough proof that she doesn't trust him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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There is intuitive trust and that comes with love. But intuition is often disregarded by brain activity.

Innate trust comes only with time. And I think Asad and Zoya are getting there.
Edited by Firebolt - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#18
oh i just loved ur title...
i had d same thoughts but cudnt put it n words...
awsum post n must needed :-)
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Posted: 12 years ago
#19
Well Said :P n its true trust is sth which doesnt occur soo soon gradually wid time knowing a person welll only then one can trust 😊
Edited by blessing-beauty - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..lara..

Fair points but I disagree to an extent.

Love, I suppose, is a deeper emotion than physical attraction and infatuation. If one loves someone, it probably is because of the person he or she is rather than for mere physical appearance. If you like or love a person, presumably you'll be inclined to think well of them rather than jump to the worst possible conclusion about them every time. Absolute trust does come with time but the basic confidence about a person's credibility, especially when it's proved time and again, should be there.

Asad has in fact berated Zoya many times for jumping head-first into solving others' problems (very rightfully sometimes) and helping them without thinking of consequences, so he could have given a thought to why would Zoya not want to help Tanveer.

Also, at this point, Zoya isn't someone Asad barely knows. He's lived with her for months and they've been through many ups and downs together.


Asad can be definitely more articulate and sensitive but I think he has come a long some (if not all the way) to a large extent.

And I think in this particular situation (not any other) where he couldn't fathom why someone would not help a burning woman, while anger is never justified, I think we can offer some kind of understanding.


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