Trust comes with time not with love. - Page 4

Originally posted by: asurek

It is true that trust comes with time. But here he distrusts her completely. There can be any other person - Tom, Dick and Harry against Zoya and he will believe the other person. He does not even give her a chance to explain or listens to her. I am sorry but what they are showing is a very regressive and unhealthy relationship, almost abusive.

Originally posted by: Firebolt

And I disagree. Love can come spontaneously, because I believe in love at first fight. But trust doesn't.

Oh I love a debate😆

And my response was that debating on an opinion like this isn't going to change my mind nor yours. Because we all speak through the experiences we've had. And you'd continue arguing that you're right and I'd do the same.

Argument for arguments sake is quite the bore.

It's only an argument if one cannot see the other sides point! 😆

Originally posted by: delena90

It's only an argument if one cannot see the other sides point! 😆

On a serious note - debate or otherwise,

the point that those of us who are disagreeing with you are making is there has to be some level of trust between two people in relationship before they can call it love. No we...or at least I don't mean blind faith that your partner is right, but enough where you at least show some sort of acknowledgment that you know the person you are falling in love with.

Even in marriages - nobody completely trusts the other. It grows as you said with time, but still there is a base of some sort of trust which so far Asad has not exhibited. Which is why some might question if he is truly in love.

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But you don't want to get into it so okiees

Originally posted by: Firebolt

There is an other side only if we're talking right or wrong. It's an opinion, we're all right.😊

Hm...is it really? No the other side is just people who think and have a different viewpoint from you. Can opinions be wrong?

Originally posted by: delena90

On a serious note - debate or otherwise,

the point that those of us who are disagreeing with you are making is there has to be some level of trust between two people in relationship before they can call it love. No we...or at least I don't mean blind faith that your partner is right, but enough where you at least show some sort of acknowledgment that you know the person you are falling in love with.

Even in marriages - nobody completely trusts the other. It grows as you said with time, but still there is a base of some sort of trust which so far Asad has not exhibited. Which is why some might question if he is truly in love.

U love only dose whom u trust, isnt it? Simple!😊

Originally posted by: delena90

Hm...is it really? No the other side is just people who think and have a different viewpoint from you. Can opinions be wrong?

We just debated about not debating 😆

Originally posted by: Firebolt

Oh I'm not disagreeing with that at all.

This situation involves a deep level of trust i think. Asad cannot fathom why someone would see a person burn and not do anything.

I am only saying i offer my understanding I do not condone it.

It seems we do agree after all.

Asad - I think he is a very complicated person but my gripe with him yesterday was more to do with the fact that he forgot the conversation he had with Zoya about her fear of fire. Though, I do blame the writers more - cause it was a horrible blooper. But it does kinna make Asad look like an ass when he seems to remember that Tanveer hates fish from 20 years ago but somehow can't remember Zoe's fear of fire from a few weeks ago.