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Pancham101

@Pancham101

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: sindoorfan
Its the "unprotected" sex that makes their love making more yuck worthy... ok they were in love and felt they couldn't wait !!! I can take that. But how could they not use protection... now there is a BABY !!!! No actually 2 babies !!!! What will happen to them? I agree things happen... even bad things ... just happen... and we have to accept it and move on... but at least the CVs can show the parents getting super mad and telling them off for their irresponsible act... all can sit and think of a solution and ways to move forward... but THIS SHOULD NOT be upheld as some great tyaag !!! Purvi knows what she did was wrong thats why she did not have the guts to say it loud to all yet !!! All her slogans about "sacchayi ka saath dena" flushed royally down the drain !

Actually ...in this case.."protected" sex would be yuck worthy...

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nelum

@manan_virika

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: sherma
let me b honest premaritial sex wid ur fiance is not at all wrong(i was d one who supported shravni 4 dis too)
but leaving ur fiance on the day of marriiage after having sex is wrong for me
and den force him to get married to her sister,
and den sleep wid her sister is wrong
many are assuming ovi not carrying arjun child-wich i dont agree,cause she wldnt have given birth to any1 else child except arjun,and arjun cant deny he had sex wid ovi,caus he was happy whn she announced her pregnancy

but y shld arvi unite,especially whn purvi has married onir,who really luvs her

Haven't you been watching PR. She sacrificed her love and baby's father for her mother's happiness. So you are saying Purvi should have been selfish and care a damn about her mother. Don't blame Purvi, blame that psyco witch who took Purvi's happiness and now her baby's as well. Arvi's baby will never get his/her real father's love because of that psyco kamini.

Edited by arshi_arvi - 12 years ago

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samek

@samek

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#33

When archana met purvi after 6 months she was surprised to see purvi married and pregnant. And archana told manav that I was angry on purvi but looking how much sacrifices she has done, this is nothing and I forgive her. I just hope that archana after knowing that purvi is pregnant with Arjun child doesn't say that oh my god my daughter is so mahaan and sanskari. She sacrificed even her baby for Ovi. MAHAAN SANASKARI PURVI.

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sherma

@sherma

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

Haven't you been watching PR. She sacrificed her love and baby's father for her mother's happiness. So you are saying Purvi should have been selfish and care a damn about her mother. Don't blame Purvi, blame that psyco witch who took Purvi's happiness and now her baby's as well. Arvi's baby will never get his/her real father's love because of that psyco kamini.

archu wnted purvi happiness,

every mther wants that,and wat i dont get is hw cld purvii b so sure of ovis word when herself knew it wld b manav-savita decison

ovi dint knew wat relation arvi shred,purvi knew it,

and dont worry purvi baby wil get a gud fther like onir

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nelum

@manan_virika

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: sindoorfan

OK agree it was "heat" of the moment act !!! But nope only Poorvi was not responsible for taking the morning after pill ... it was Arjun's responsibility too !!!! He did IT too right? So dear both r responsible... equally !!! And I would say given their respective backgrounds... I donno if Poorvi ever had got Sex Ed at school, but surely Arjun did... coming from Canada !!! He def. should know about the morning after pill

Umm Purvi and Arjun never planned to have sex that's why they didn't use protections or the pill. If they did, then what you guys were saying about Purvi being not sanskari would become true. Purvi gave in to Arjun's advances cause she trusted him. But the sad part is that she couldn't trust herself and gave in to her Aai and her aai's beti.

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nelum

@manan_virika

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: sherma

archu wnted purvi happiness,
every mther wants that,and wat i dont get is hw cld purvii b so sure of ovis word when herself knew it wld b manav-savita decison
ovi dint knew wat relation arvi shred,purvi knew it,
and dont worry purvi baby wil get a gud fther like onir

Purvi's sacrifice was successful because Archana got the courage to fight for her kids and husband. Every daughter wants their mother's happiness as well. Even if Ovi knew that Arvi became physical that night, she would have still try to snatch Arjun from her. Dear look at how Ovi is behaving right now, do you really think she would be understandable?

Edited by arshi_arvi - 12 years ago

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pari87

@pari87

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi
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OK agree it was "heat" of the moment act !!! But nope only Poorvi was not responsible for taking the morning after pill ... it was Arjun's responsibility too !!!! He did IT too right? So dear both r responsible... equally !!! And I would say given their respective backgrounds... I donno if Poorvi ever had got Sex Ed at school, but surely Arjun did... coming from Canada !!! He def. should know about the morning after pill

This "not planned" part results in way too many illegitimate children in this world. The parents go scot free and they are put in an orphanage because their "pavitra love" parents could not face society with this scar on their face. Children of these unmarried people are the ones who suffer long term and noone has that right to give them that life. If Purvi had not found Onir, this is exactly how her life would have turned out. She may have raised the child herself but what would the world call her? The pavitra ex of her jeejaji? And what would the child face all his life?

Trust is not the factor here. Even if people argue she loved her mother and this is her tyaag or whatever nonsense, fact is she for being brainless and mahaan put her mother's happiness before her, but now has put her child's future in jeopardy. And that is a worse sin than anything else.

MY POV strictly.

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pari87

@pari87

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#38

And even if it is unplanned, the morning after pill is created for this reason so you don't end up being poor parents to an innocent child. So It was completely their responsibilty to make sure Purvi took the pill next day. But so engrossed was this woman in making horrible decisions that night, ofcourse she did not think long-term and has landed herself and several other people in a life long tamasha

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sherma

@sherma

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

Purvi's sacrifice was successful because Archana got the courage to fight for her kids and husband. Every daughter wants their mother's happiness as well. Even if Ovi knew that Arvi became physical that night, she would have still try to snatch Arjun from her. Dear look at how Ovi is behaving right now, do you really think she would be understandable?

it was cause of teju armaan dint got divorce,if u remembr in d reception party too,manav tld dk the same thing,tat he cant do wat purvi wants him to do

anywys i wont say i am disappointed by arjun,

but purvi chrcter is destroyed by cvs

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Kehkasha

@K.Ahm

Rocker

+ 8

Posted: 12 years ago

#40

loved ur post tich

Yup there is a difference between love an lust n what arvi had for each other was love ... had t been lust then they wud have done it the night they were in a room in that hotel in Pune

today's was just chemistrilicious arvilicious epi n just loved it to the core.

as for "planned" and "unplanned", was not at all a concern for them coz they were any way going to get married and were gonna do it ... n who carries protection with them when they go shopping or whatever.

ArVi's consummation was not planned and they were not worried about the illegitimate issues coz they were with the thought that its their marriage after few days, what happened at the cliff n the marriage fiasco was not foreseen by them ki they wud think "ki chalo we do it today then use protection coz we r not gonna get married n then do the tyaag"

Just my opinion

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