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Anjali

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Posted: 12 years ago

I am going to say from neutral base so try to think as individual and not a fan of anyone

I don't understand all these games and politics, people are commenting on how Delnaz is fake and how Urvashi is dominating (this I can see) and they are playing games. Delnaz doesn't speak up and maybe talks behind everyone's back and Urvashi is straight forward on your face...its how they are and they are playing. In between Bakhtiyar comes in and trashes everyone (who is not in aliance with his sister) and leaves. This was not in anyone's hand and even Delnaz couldn't stop him from saying those things. From what I saw in one video, he was there for 15-20 minutes and said a lot of harsh things that were edited out.

My problem is why didn't Delnaz not go and apologize on his brother's behalf? If Rajeev can not mention things Bakhtiyar did with Claudia and Tanaz during his season, they he can not just come in and say things about whomever he wishes. He did personal attacks on Urvashi and Rajeev the most...they at least deserve and apology from Delnaz. Delnaz found out about death in her family and I saw in live feed that Rajeev was putting her to sleep and Urvashi was hugging her and waiting by the side of the bed. They forgot whatever happened and acted with humanity. The person who keeps talking about being insan and showing insaniyat, could have apologized. That's what we do in real life, don't we. When my short tempered brother said something to my masaji, i went and apologized on his behalf...and I was 16 at that time, surely Delnaz can show that much maturity as a 40+ yr old.

Delnaz doesn't want her divorce topic to b discussed (which I don't understand why she keeps avoiding when everyone knows they are divorced) then her brother shouldn't have talked to Rajeev in such manner, reminding him how he never tried making an effort and how he sent a driver with her stuff...

I don't care who is playing obvious games and who is talking behind other people...That's just survival in such house, but when they talk about showing insaniyat and being the righteous one, they should put an example before going around pointing fingers

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Posted: 12 years ago

From the neutral side, I can also saying why can't Urvashi apologize to Delu for making mockery of emotions and calling her moti. Then delu should also apologize for whatever she/her brother said. Tali dono hatho se bajti hai aur bajni chahiye. Neither Urva is mahan nor delu is so either both should apolosise or nether of them because both have done their share of dirty tricks. Of course whoever chooses to make the first move will show that she/he is a better person. Regarding age, when they are playing the same game, they all become equal to viewers. None is above the other be it class wise, gender wise or age wise or has a divorce story or a single mother story.

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Anjali

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Posted: 12 years ago

I am not saying that Delnaz should apologize for talking behind Urvashi's back...I am saying Delnaz should go and apologize for what her brother came and said...do you see the difference? If Urvashi's sons had gone around and said rude things to anyone, I would've felt that Urvashi should apologize.

Whatever is between Del and Urvi is for them to deal with...If they want to be friends, they can if they want to b enemies they can, but this is someone related to Del came in and did character assassin...

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shantiexpress

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Alrightokie
From the neutral side, I can also saying why can't Urvashi apologize to Delu for making mockery of emotions and calling her moti. Then delu should also apologize for whatever she/her brother said. Tali dono hatho se bajti hai aur bajni chahiye. Neither Urva is mahan nor delu is so either both should apolosise or nether of them because both have done their share of dirty tricks. Of course whoever chooses to make the first move will show that she/he is a better person. Regarding age, when they are playing the same game, they all become equal to viewers. None is above the other be it class wise, gender wise or age wise or has a divorce story or a single mother story.

even Delnaz has bitched behind back not for Urv but for many other ppl

After rajneeti task.. she was upset with Nik..

Friday aane do fir sab bolati hu..

Salman asked her on Friday ha bolo..

she said no i don't want to speak..

why not ...why crib behind someone's back

Nik's explantion in Live feed video was correct

as a person she voted for aashka and grp fine..

but then it was Nik (6) Vs Urv (5)

As a Captain she again voted for Urv gang.. As captain she shd have think for whole house and where is majority..

Nik's comment.. I like u Delu but I don't respect u...Perfect

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Alrightokie

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: shantiexpress

even Delnaz has bitched behind back not for Urv but for many other ppl
After rajneeti task.. she was upset with Nik..
Friday aane do fir sab bolati hu..
Salman asked her on Friday ha bolo..
she said no i don't want to speak..
why not ...why crib behind someone's back

Nik's explantion in Live feed video was correct
as a person she voted for aashka and grp fine..
but then it was Nik (6) Vs Urv (5)
As a Captain she again voted for Urv gang.. As captain she shd have think for whole house and where is majority..

Nik's comment.. I like u Delu but I don't respect u...Perfect

Yes she has bitched too..did you read what i said? I said both have done their share of bitching so both are guilty. So I don't see why only one person should go and apologize as both are wrong. Bhaki behaviour is Bhaki's choice but wouldn't hurt her to apologise but I am sure some people would still complain and may even it call fake.

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Anjali

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Posted: 12 years ago

Yes she has bitched too..did you read what i said? I said both have done their share of bitching so both are guilty. So I don't see why only one person should go and apologize as both are wrong. Bhaki behaviour is Bhaki's choice but wouldn't hurt her to apologise but I am sure some people would still complain and may even it call fake.

I know what you are saying and I agree with you that if she did go and apologize they might think she is being fake...but doesn't that hold true for Urvashi as well? When she became friends with Sapna and Niketan, Aashka and Delnaz both were saying how suddenly she is buddy buddy with them, whom she hated initially...but we can see that Urvashi and Niketan are truly good friends now.

I don't know but if one my family member had done something or said something wrong that I don't agree with even if it is in my favor, I think decent thing would be to apologize on their behalf. Don't get me wrong, if I have animosity and feel that certain person did me wrong, I will stand by my emotions but that doesn't take away that my mom or my brother or even my husband was right to go and say something hurtful to them. I wouldn't want my friend's husband come to me and abuse me because she and I am having fights...

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