Can the Singh's go on ignoring things?

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Posted: 13 years ago

The Singh's have never been interested in G so far. It was fine as long as they didn't accept J..but now, isn't it their responsibility to find out what happened to G, why he left her, on what terms he left her and what plans he has for her? Simply saying that he doesn't want to see her forever and walking out doesn't count as a permanent solution.

G could make a comeback with her baby, sit amidst the Singh's and claim her rights. Turning off their faces and walking away with disgust whenever they see G, may not help much this time! What plans do they have if she comes back?Or do they assume that J-G's relationship is done and they can marry J again? Or do they think he will lead a celebate life forever?

I think the Singh's need to visualize a bigger picture and evaluate things , as this could turn out to be a dumb mistake made by them. If they are ready to accept G then they can wait for her return...if they don't wish to take her back, then they should see that J-G relationship has ended properly.They can't keep ignoring this forever. Whatever it is, they need to take a stand and conclude things. Now that they accepted J, they should either make or break J-G relationship properly!

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Mehek25

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nice post dear and u have made some valid points also.

Both Jagya and the Singhs need to sit down and talk this over.

But one fact which cannot be ignored is that JaGa marriage has always been null and void. Because at the time of their court marriage Jagya had not been divorced from Anandi...and before the second (actual) marriage could take place Jagya walked out on her...So all said and done theirs had always been a live-in relationship...Should Gauri keep the baby and decide to come back to stake her claims on Jagys then matters will definitely be brought to a head and things will be very different...That's the time when they will have to take a decision...I think that will happen but a bit later on...probably after jagya gets interested in someone else...maybe the CVs have lined up Sanchi for him...Lets see what they do...So far they have been logical in almost all their tracks...hoping they always keep that way...

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Tuttifrutti

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Posted: 13 years ago

A good post...I think Singhs should not have any problem in accepting Gauri as their DIL and Gauri too should not have any objections as A is already officially out of J s life. Introducing another girl in the life of Jagya may be suicidal for cvs as that may not be well digeted by most of the viewers. There may be one hitch in bringing Gauri back to Jagya s life ...after all Gauri too is sufferer of bal vivah and it will show that that bal vivah was ok in the childhood but the selection was bad...

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jagspaddy

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Posted: 13 years ago

It would be nice to show Gauri's repentance. She could ask Sorry from the Singh family and esp Anandi. She could also give some gyan to Sanchi so that Sanchi changes her mind as well.

Just like Jagya's image changed, they could change Gauri's image also and get her acceptance from Singhs.

In some time Singh will surely think of getting Jagya married. Why not do it with a changed Gauri??

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rukhsar.crazy

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Posted: 13 years ago

they are currently busy with the marriage na dear...

once the marriage is done defenetly they'll give a thought to it...saari umar akela thodi rahega??

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Posted: 13 years ago

The fact is that Jagya has comeback just now...and the singhs are busy with Ansh marriage...I am sure once the marriage is done n Ansh are off for their honeymoon dadisa will start have a craving for her 'par pota' and then start discussing with jagya about what he wants to do with his life...

About Gauri..i sometimes feel, gauri became negative because of the singhs behaviour towards her. they just brushed her off everytime she tried to be nice to her initially...then she started thinking it was because of anandi's existence (this was because her mom poisoned her thoughts) and to some extent it was true that because singhs loved anandi so much that they were very very rude to gauri...

I know gauri did all the wrong things which are unacceptable but still i feel if the singhs would had tactically handled the situation it would have ended in a better way...

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Uma

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Posted: 13 years ago

A much needed post...Thank You..

Really surprised., the otherwise., good at heart Singhs., can forget G so., conviniently..

If they are not intent on rishta., they could have atleast taken the matter in their hands and ended it amicably...afterall., their son., lived with her for so many years...and almost fathered a baby too...

Wonder., why even A is quite on this matter...? Is she not a conscious lady otherwise...?

Are CV's doing this intentionally ...to bring on the baby as an eye opener to J as well as Singhs...OR is it yet another MAJOR blooper from their end...?🤔

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tootyfruity
A good post...I think Singhs should not have any problem in accepting Gauri as their DIL and Gauri too should not have any objections as A is already officially out of J s life. Introducing another girl in the life of Jagya may be suicidal for cvs as that may not be well digeted by most of the viewers. There may be one hitch in bringing Gauri back to Jagya s life ...after all Gauri too is sufferer of bal vivah and it will show that that bal vivah was ok in the childhood but the selection was bad...

tootyfruity - I'm sorry i didn't understand ur last statement " it will show that that bal vivah was ok in the childhood but the selection was bad...". ?

@ the statement in bold - Gauri never had any objection anyways. She didn't mind staying in Haveli when Anandi was there. She won't mind now. So if at all the Singh's and J let her in, i think she would jump at the chance and enter Haveli. 😛

However my point was that the Singh's should clear things up before things turn into a mess. They can't stay dumb till the situation arrives.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: AshBendre
The fact is that Jagya has comeback just now...and the singhs are busy with Ansh marriage...I am sure once the marriage is done n Ansh are off for their honeymoon dadisa will start have a craving for her 'par pota' and then start discussing with jagya about what he wants to do with his life...

About Gauri..i sometimes feel, gauri became negative because of the singhs behaviour towards her. they just brushed her off everytime she tried to be nice to her initially...then she started thinking it was because of anandi's existence (this was because her mom poisoned her thoughts) and to some extent it was true that because singhs loved anandi so much that they were very very rude to gauri...

I know gauri did all the wrong things which are unacceptable but still i feel if the singhs would had tactically handled the situation it would have ended in a better way...

Yes AshBendre, that might be the Singh's/CV's plan. The might start this drama after this marriage drama gets over.

@bold - On the contrary, i think if G hadn't married off J in a hurry, secretly after knowing his whole story, things would have been a lot different. Whoever poisoned G, she was not supposed to abuse Anandi cause Anandi was the victim here. If A had all the intelligence/diplomacy to trap J and take him back from G, she wouldn't have let him live with G in the first place...i never understood how G missed this point!

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Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I think they did not want to associate with G.

For them she is like that 'other woman'.

Her relationship with Jagya has no standing in their eyes.

Ofcourse we know that it does matter but for them she is the reason why Anandi had to leave their haveli in the first place.

But ...as soon as AnSh wedding finishes I am sure g will be back in the picture and her redemption will start as well.

And eventually they will accept her. They are not bad at heart but they do not have to be forgiving all the time. G had really hurt them BAD... so naturally they do not want to think about her

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