Originally posted by: AshBendre
About Gauri..i sometimes feel, gauri became negative because of the singhs behaviour towards her. they just brushed her off everytime she tried to be nice to her initially...then she started thinking it was because of anandi's existence (this was because her mom poisoned her thoughts) and to some extent it was true that because singhs loved anandi so much that they were very very rude to gauri...
I do not think so.
If she- being a doctor did not have the tactfulness of understanding that Anandi was still married to Jagya ...how could she expect a traditional value-upholding family like singhs would accept her? yes I know she thought that the marriage was terminated ...but for Anandi it wasnt and yet she decided that Anandi will go away from her life magically and the singhs will accept her.
She did not think how she has hurt Anandi by staying with her 'then husband' so naturally it pissed Singhs more.
If Anandi would have reacted then singhs might not have been rude with Gauri but Anandi did not speak a word.
ANd people tend to speak , feel sorry for victims all the time and singhs, they knew from heart that the position Anandi was in at that time was because of them!
So they did not want to face that. They wanted to show their anger and disapproval towards the new girl who had just stormed into their perfect lives and they just did that.
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Gauri was always wanting the Singhs approval. IN fact that is precisely why she hated Anandi. She was/is jealous of the attention given to Anandi by Singhs. Like a child who gets jealous and sometimes when not nurtured properly goes to heavy extremes. Thats what happened with her...
But yeah.. if Singhs would not have said anything to gauri one thing was sure...
she would have definitely escalated and asked for Anandi's removal from the haveli,
I do not disagree with the singhs. THey did what any normal person would do.
THey did not really curse at her or yell. THey tolerated her which is a big thing in my opinion. Even after she started plotting and being stupid they tolerated her.
Dadisa is def. a culprit behind all this. She ruined successfully 3 lives. Atleast she fixed one (Anandi's)
now its her turn to set things right with Jagya and Gauri
And that is precisely what s going to happen.
Edited by Suchi-Virmanian - 12 years ago
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