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soapwatcher1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#111

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Originally posted by: archverma10
OK...so first of all!!!!! Never fear...my darling sis...I am to the rescue to save our boy!!! Never again will I leave him hanging or high and dry. Jhanvi???? Gathering masses??? Laurie...**gasps*** going PURVI on us?? oooh my

So Jhanvi... (my maybe perhaps one day again "sambandh")...here is the deal if you want ARVI. I did so love your ladli...I would have much preferred her to the CC I ended up with...but again...dearest..the word here is would have

Jo and I will support you..since neither CC or sameer Rane are acceptable alternate options for various reasons at this point. I would go into detail but considering the mods seem to be finally waking up (refer post on Arjun Ovi marraige)...in the interest of not being kicked off the forum I will refrain from further discussion on this particular topic. And we still do have a soft spot for ARVI (and " Of the Way They Were"...ps..anyone ever hear that song? Its an old one)

Moving forward...Jhanvi darling. Here is the condition Jo and I lay out.

1) NO coldness or frigidiness OF ANY KIND will be tolerated from your ladli. After what she has done to our boy, if in her desire to be Mahanta over her newfound family and "sister"?? 😕 she tries to behave as though she didnt ever love him...I will pick up my danda and give her the thrashing of her life 😡

2) She has to prove her love for him to him and to us. We are NOT going to be giving him away for free this time. I am going to say what I would want as the even more traumatized "mother" who had to bear the devastation and heartbreak of her son. To be honest I did not watch that fatal episode...I could not watch it. Jo and Shyamala...the darling massis...somehow managed to stomach it...but I could not. To this day I have yet to see that episode and it is no lie. I will never be able to.

Now...that being said. This...and only this...is what will fully turn me around...100% towards your ladli.

Brutal and harsh...yes...but here it is: I want to see her risk her very life for him. Nothing less will turn me back to the way I felt about her. I have had to watch my ladla repeatedly shower her with love, affection...watch the eagerness and hunger in his eyes every time he looked at her...see the tenderness in him every time he kissed her...call her his life...give up everything and take a bullet for her.

Now I want the same...an eye for an eye...and I want it on a greater magnitude. Much greater. The bullet she takes should not be a shot in the leg that is not fatal. I want a true putting her life on the line for him...being ready to die for him if need be. That is the only thing that will convince me that she truly loves him.

By the way...Ring a bell?? Remember that stint with the kids playing with the dolls... on the 4th phere she tells him that she asks his permission to go in front of him because she will come between death and him and face it first?? Morbid I know..but interesting nonetheless in the way this was portrayed.

So these are my conditions my dear Jhanvi. I will still support ARVI because of my stance that the Arjun Ovi marriage is a farce anyway. (as you have seen my posts). However, for my buy-in... to be 100% wishing your ladli for my ladla...this is what will heal my heart in order for me to accept her again for him.

Sooo...there you have it...

Dear Arch, I can see you are an anguished mother who has seen her ladla tear his heart out so I will let it pass that you are asking my almost ladli to almost give up her life for him. That is not a kind request, not one that I would have expected from a loving saas like you, from Savita, yes, from Arch, no.😭 That is too high a price to pay and left to me I would rather she marry someone who loves her enough to have said no to her silly entreaty to marry the other Ms. Muck. (BTW, I have not watched that scene between Purvi and Arjun either, her begging and railroading him into marriage with Ovi, I cannot stand to watch her hidden heartbreak and steely determination in ruining her own life).

But fortunately, we have no say in their feelings for each other, she will love him despite his not over-ruling her and despite agreeing to go through with that wedding (women are contrary creatures and she would have wept and complained about her aai but would have loved him more for refusing her); he in turn will love her inspite of having been forced into a loveless union with you know who. As for putting her life in danger, he would not let her go forward with the pheras, what makes you think he will ever allow any danger to befall her? You will be like Savita snatching his life's happiness from your ladla if you even wish for her to get hurt in any fashion, the pound of flesh you seek to extract will scorch your ladla alive.

Agreed, he needs to rage and berate her, she needs to show him she loves him just as much or more than before but for her to lose her frigidity when he is to all purposes her sister's spouse is asking a bit too much of the sanskari ladki. If the boy has the good sense to get his marriage annulled ASAP instead of bending to touch feet for unwanted blessings on an unwanted marriage, the frigidity will be allowed to thaw, I promise.

But please do note my prior post to Jyothi, we need to present a united front if we are to get your ladla back with my almost ladli, no public bickering between us, we will hash it out in private, we are no Deshmucks lest you forget, we are respected members of the esteemed IF forum. 😉

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sashashyam

@sashashyam

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Posted: 12 years ago

#112

Laurie my dear,

I am breaking my self imposed ban on posting, but then the occasion warrants it! I am sorry that being technically challenged, I cannot produce graphics to match bee's, but I do send you my love and my warmest congratulations on touching the mille mark. I hope for many more and even funnier posts ahead, if at all possible topping the Deshmutrimony effort!👏👏👏👏👏👏

This being now out of the way, I think all of you are collectively nuts. How on earth you girls can go on with this nonsense beats me. Nothing more can be made of this story, however much you all behave as though a marriage were a piece of Kleenex. I do not care at all what happens to Purvi from now on, and the whole lot of them can go to jahannum with my compliments, and pronto.If I did not think if him like my Sasha, I would add Arjun to the list. As for you, Janhvi, you are not, as expected, satisfied with going back to your Purvi-worship, but you must now go gaga about Ovi as well! 😡

Oh dear, I am sounding like the Grinch, am I not, stealing your collective Christmas in the Antarctic (or in the Gilligan Islands) ? Not that I do not mean any of the above, but I have no business dampening your fun. I do apologise, but I think I am beginning to feel my age, and I am glad my wrist has acted up with a superb sense of timing. I need the break, and not just from PR!!!😉

Shyamala

Originally posted by: bee5

W-H-A-T ??!!! I never knew that ... , Laurie

Love you too, Laurie ❤️🤗

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Jagruti

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Posted: 12 years ago

#113

heyy laurie congratulations on becoming a goldie dear 😛 😛 😛 ...(btw this is second tym m congratulating u..i ve also posted in abhi's thread but culdnt stop myself after reading this thread)

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abhimg

@abhimg

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Posted: 12 years ago

#114

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Laurie, Deshmutrimony?🤣Where do you come up with these things?
You are a riot!

Jyothi, fair warning given, back off my now almostladli😉

Watched the epi and saw Ms.YuckMuck in the precap andshe tugged at my heart strings. Ah, Ovi is kind of growing on me too, please don't throw stones at me. 🤣After all, she is my soon to be ladli's sister now and my damaad's soon to be ex-wife. 😆

Abhi, I have a feeling Ovi will have a change of heart. Did you hear Manav's dialogues? They couldvery well have applied to the Ovi-Arjun situation. He calls Archana his jaan, did not our boy call Purvi the same thing just yesterday? Savita tells Manav she did it for him, did Ovi not say the same thing to Arjun? Manav's reply, jhoot, you did it for yourself, if you had once thought of me, you would have considered my happiness. These words will echo in Ovi's mind, mark my words. Together with her mom's saintly influence, she will become Mahaan in no time.

Laurie too great too much fun just too good dear!
Janhvi, there u go again being the optimist eternal!Do u really think Savita will ever have a change of heart? Then pray tell my dear, why would Ovi EVER give up her prize trophy man? Did u not hear her resolute determination as she said on wedding night(yuck muck) I will make this marriage successful! Do u think the last 18 years of training will be washed away so very easily? Perhaps some gangajal will do the magic and she will have a change of heart? Naah Janhvi, come on u really believe that?

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soapwatcher1

@soapwatcher1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#115

Abhi, isn't it 4:30 am for you? It is past 1:30 am and time to turn in for me.

Will Savita change? Yes, she will. I believe we all have the capacity to be good or bad and certain people bring out certain facets of our personality. If you allow a person to be bad to you, not only will the person make it a habit of treating you bad, others who watch their treatment of you will also begin to emulate the first person's behavior, mob mentality. You see it very openly in children, ganging up, being cruel. It is in your hands to put a stop to it. You can either allow the person to treat you like the dirt underneath their feet or you can nip it In the bud either by telling the person off in no uncertain terms or by keeping your distance from them. Archana did none of these, she allowed Savita to be bad to her, that doesn't absolve Savita but Archana contributed to Savita's evil treatment by taking it quietly. I also believe that the same person can be bad or good to different people, it is upto you to bring out the best in others. Savita is not totally evil, she loves her son and and grandchildren, she can be generous and giving, it is just that Archana brings out the worst in her. So since she has the capacity to be good, there is the possibility that she will reform herself and change.

As for Ovi, I saw her expressions today as her father lamented, she felt for him and felt for her mother, that ability to feel empathy is something new in the "me,me " girl so I am hopeful that she will transfer the same emotions to the the ARVI situation.

Unduly hopeful of me, perhaps?

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#116

Savita will change now because if she doesn't she will lose Manav forever .

Savita has no other choice but to become good now and behave herself .

As for Arjun , he made a big mistake by marrying Ovi .Now really he is trapped in a horrible marriage .The only way he can come out now is if Ovi herself will let him go .That can happen but it will take time for Ovi to understand unconditional selfless love .Her mother's influence will help and also now Manav too wil be more strong in telling her that she was unfair to Purvi and Arjun .

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abhimg

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Posted: 12 years ago

#117

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1
Abhi, isn't it 4:30 am for you? It is past 1:30 am and time to turn in for me.

Will Savita change? Yes, she will. I believe we all have the capacity to be good or bad and certain people bring out certain facets of our personality. If you allow a person to be bad to you, not only will the person make it a habit of treating you bad, others who watch their treatment of you will also begin to emulate the first person's behavior, mob mentality. You see it very openly in children, ganging up, being cruel. It is in your hands to put a stop to it. You can either allow the person to treat you like the dirt underneath their feet or you can nip it In the bud either by telling the person off in no uncertain terms or by keeping your distance from them. Archana did none of these, she allowed Savita to be bad to her, that doesn't absolve Savita but Archana contributed to Savita's evil treatment by taking it quietly. I also believe that the same person can be bad or good to different people, it is upto you to bring out the best in others. Savita is not totally evil, she loves her son and and grandchildren, she can be generous and giving, it is just that Archana brings out the worst in her. So since she has the capacity to be good, there is the possibility that she will reform herself and change.

As for Ovi, I saw her expressions today as her father lamented, she felt for him and felt for her mother, that ability to feel empathy is something new in the "me,me " girl so I am hopeful that she will transfer the same emotions to the the ARVI situation.

Unduly hopeful of me, perhaps?

Yes, Janhvi, dear, you are very right...i was just being devil's advocate, given the soap that PR is...what you say is true of life...you rightly bring up bullying...amongst kids...hear a lot about it... Yes, it was 4.30am and you can see the addiction to the forum right after waking up 😉

as i do see you too into the late hours 1.30am...gosh...But sometimes not everyone is nurturing...and with Savita like Manav said yesterday, it is a control issue, she always wants her son and control of his life, so she did this God awful thing of separating a mom from her kids..Archana does not knowingly bring out the worst in her does she- or is it the saas-bahu relation that just pitches the DIL (daughter in law) against the MIL (mother in law) because the point of contention is the same goods (ie. Son who is now married, reference here remembering your Arjun commodity post😉).

I nearly fell off the sofa watching Damo, 8th wonder of the world, he talked 😆 and helped set the record straight...

Yes, Ovi loves her Dad, Teju, Sachu but remember she said she loves Arjun above all (not above herself i guess as she did not put his happiness first if she truly loved him she would set him free from all this guilt all this drama all this nonsense and this marriage)...you are very optimistic Janhvi, after this ARjunPurVI separation, i am not so...especially when you have a willing Ms. Mahaanta jr. who is so ever ready to give up her own happiness for the sake of "others"...

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