Ashamed of Archu's family

I don't understand why these people don't understand the simple concept of grieving. Archana needed time to grieve the ending of her marriage, and she was never given the opportunity to before being pushed into another relationship. I know some people think she had over a year to grieve, but sometimes it takes a lifetime to grieve, and it's evident that Archu hadn't had proper time to grieve because she is still gaga over Manav.

I agree with you, not much to write cos you people have said a lot. While everyone keeps blaming Archna- Manav, they are no less innocent. And the bashing about the PR is now getting quite irritable. Once it was okay, but everyday??? Its like they want to hide their own guilts of forcing Archana into the marriage.

agree with you all. I feel like asking these questions to the CVs as well as all PR forum members.

Why Jaywant? Only because dharmesh chose that man and he agreed to marry Archu? how can sulochana still say 'jaywant ke sath archu khush rahegi wo ek achha pati saabit hoga etc' though she knows Archu hates that man because of the manav jail incidence..? If archu wants to stay alone, whats wrong with that?

Agree with you. Finding it very difficult to comment these days.

Archana has seen many tragedies. But the biggest tragedy for her is that her family and so-called well-wishers are forcing her into a relationship for which she is not ready yet, ignoring her obvious distress. How can they claim to love her? It is as though they are in a hurry to get her off their hands !

Originally posted by: vidyasu1

I rarely comment these days because it has not been a pleasant experience for me..

Quite rightly said. In fact this family has lost all meaning of having a good relationship with people who have always been kind and loving towards them. To be mean to a person who has done soo much for them and turning away from him when he needed them the most was the most cruel thing to do. Where is the humanity and sacrifice these parents had taught their children? Varsha is despicable and Vaishu is the worst kind of person I would want to associate with as sister.
It is quite amazing to see Satish being very concerned about the affairs of Manav more than this family.
Vinod is also very inconsiderate and how can he talk so rudely to a person who has brought so much meaning and reason for them to move.
Was it not Manav who helped to get Varsha out of her messy situation when she was involved with a married man? Was he not present at her wedding and helped her both financially and afterwards when she was going through a lot of problems bcos of her previous relationship with a married man? Was it not also he who stood by her at the time?
Vaishu also was helped by Manav even on the day of her wedding when they ran out of food and when there was no one to help them and saved them from the embarrassment?
Was he not divorced from Archu all along during these times? At that time they considered him to be their son and not even their son-in-law.
Even before getting married to Archu was it not he who saved their father from committing suicide and then agreed to marry Archu after knowing what a traumatic experience she went through with Ajith trying to defame her that led to the eventual breakup of Archu's proposed marriage to Satish?
Why can't creatives portray this family to be what they stand up for?

Originally posted by: vidyasu1

I rarely comment these days because it has not been a pleasant experience for me.. However, I could not help myself this once. I agree with you 200 per cent. Archana has been bashed mercilessly on this forum while her family has been spared and held to be right -- for the simple reason that the daughter voluntarily decided to divorce her beloved. Does that give them the right to push her into marriage with a person whom she quite plainly abhors? How can they not see her distress? Her dad finally seemed to have figured out the truth but her mom advocated the usual jugaad stuff. Once she is married everything will be all right. How? Why? Why should it be all right? It is not Manav who forced Jaywant on Archana. That crime was done by Dharmesh with wholehearted support from sulochana. She threatened and forced manav into giving Archana an ultimatum.. She made him feel guilty, called him selfish. After all this, she goes around as if she is the best mom in the world.

Vaishali in particular annoys me. I hang my head in shame for doormat women like her. Had I been in her place I would have given a tongue-lashing to my husband, perhaps even walked out on him. How can she absolve Dharmesh completely while blaming her sister, refusing even to accept her apology? An unnecessary apology in the first place. How can Vaishali be oblivious to the gargantuan flaws in her husband's character? How can she support him being so mean, selfish and cruel? I felt like murdering Dharmesh when he spoke of Manav's undeserved raise. The man was put in jail by you, the least you can do is compensate him. Had he sued you for defamation you'd have likely had to shell out money in lakhs.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

I agree with you, not much to write cos you people have said a lot. While everyone keeps blaming Archna- Manav, they are no less innocent. And the bashing about the PR is now getting quite irritable. Once it was okay, but everyday??? Its like they want to hide their own guilts of forcing Archana into the marriage.

The only person on this show who is still likeable is Satish. Archana Manav have made a lot of foolish decisions. However, that does not absolve anyone else of their mistakes too. The sisters are lost in their own lala land, and Mom and Dad are heaping their antiquated ideas on their daughter- he accepted you with your ateet and blah blah.

PS: Vidyasu, it is nice to read varying opinions. I really liked your last posts regarding the factory strikes thing. I hope you will start commenting again.