in order to love IF, u need to have a calm mind honestly ... with such a mind, u can make enemies frenz and frenz better frenz.... n i honestly feel that IF has actually taught me how to be calm and handle situations acoordngly and reasonably such that both parties feel elated and they are happy towards the end situation and with such a situation there is a certain , i mean definite possibility that the other party who was intially pissed with u .... abruptly becomes a nice, cultured and cordial .....😊... that's why ... i'll tell y'all stop all this drama and learn to accept the fact diff ppl have diff views and such acceptance would benefit u in the long - term as well....