What'with Bollywood actresses marrying married men

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91118

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Well in some cases, they didn't marry "married" men, did they? They married divorcees.

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Am not trying to be a smart a** but one can only marry single men/single women (Islam allows a man to have several wives if he can afford it and if the other wife agrees)....So when those guys are divorced (they become single), they can marry again😆😆😆

More seriously, I think actresses live in the BW circles so they meet only men closed to them. And those guys marry early and sometimes out of BW (Amir got married he was 21, the same for Saif, if I'm not mistaken.....) so they end up most of times with the same guys divorced....and a bit older than them.....

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91118

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Posted: 16 years ago

#43

^^ That's kind of a sad reasoning, isn't it? They are ending up with these men because they have no choice 😛

Step out of BW ladies. I'm sure you'll find decent enough men who aren't married or otherwise taken.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#44

its their choice..for some maybe 2nd timelucky or third/ fourth..

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: lalixlili
Am not trying to be a smart a** but one can only marry single men/single women (Islam allows a man to have several wives if he can afford it and if the other wife agrees)....So when those guys are divorced (they become single), they can marry again😆😆😆

More seriously, I think actresses live in the BW circles so they meet only men closed to them. And those guys marry early and sometimes out of BW (Amir got married he was 21, the same for Saif, if I'm not mistaken.....) so they end up most of times with the same guys divorced....and a bit older than them.....

But i think Dharmandera was still married to his first wife thats why he had to convert

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Actually from what I hear, the senior Deol is still married to his first wife and he's with the other one. So he has two homes. Islam conversion is a long process...so He was having two wives meanwhile.... I really don't know if he is muslim now....

I don't think he got married to the second one.

Btw I was talking about people who can't be married to two persons at the same time.

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: nanshr
^^ That's kind of a sad reasoning, isn't it? They are ending up with these men because they have no choice 😛

Step out of BW ladies. I'm sure you'll find decent enough men who aren't married or otherwise taken.

Sorry but I'm a girl and even if Shahid Kapoor wanted to get married to me, I would refuse🤢 because the jet set people world doesn't match to my values and principles. I've already worked with "celebs" and personalities and I don't feel comfortable with some of their manners *cough* cough*....

So I understand that a NRI guy wanted to marry Madh, he lives in the US they are far away from BW. So no risk for him to deal with scandals and ex bf......

But for a guy in India (Businessman or politician or regular guys) it would be hard to date Bebo or Kat because they're attractive ladies dedicated to their job and they live in a "plastic" glam world which isn't suitable for anyone who's well grounded....So those relationships wouldn't last long....because they can't quit their job anytime their lady partners have to go to Goa, Australia, Spain or the caribbean islands to shoot some fancy scenes....

They're not married to those BW actresses to depend on them emotionally or financially...So it's hard and the pressure : the medias, the family, the co workers...You have to deal with all that whereas y're used to living your simple life......

Being a distant friend is better than being a closed partner...because those actresses evolve in that environement so they're used to things that are probably chocking for some regular people...

And the jealousy, lack of trust..it must be awful..that's why in general they choose to marry people within BW because it's easier to deal with people who have the same social codes as you.

Edited by lalixlili - 16 years ago