why is fame so important?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: fly2me

@suku:
ohmygosh...me too!!!!😆😆
I started singing the song after i read what the topic was about!😆😆
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Coming back to the topic...
Its total human....and not only in bollywood but in life generally.
Like sanam said...for most people...fame is important to secure a better future.
But then again in some cases, people want success and the definition of success to them is fame.
And then in some other cases, from the day they are born then want to have fame.
Etc, etc...you get my point...

So, i think fame is important to a lot of people in life because they become widely honored and acclaimed, they have better future, they have good money, they are loved, they have mostly a good public reputation,they are recognized in society, and for some, life gets easier...etc.
:)

Originally posted by: ShadowKisses

That said, I think the whole fame as self-esteem / ego booster is more destructive than it is productive. Relying on other's acceptance of you seems rather warped when the person whose acceptance should really matter is yourself. I think that when you unconditionnally accept yourself as you are, the primitive crave for fame can decrease quite a lot which in retrorespect might increase acceptance of others as they are. However, it isn't a concept most of us (including me on several occassions) can suscribe to permanently. Insecurities do come up every now and then, which starts the vicious cycle of fame and appreciation by others as an ego-appeaser all over again.

Very well said, as usual, especially this part..

We are so conditioned it makes me sad..

Originally posted by: adios

Lara I want to be so famous tat I want Srk to dance at my wedding..lolz.. But seriously yaar tat is one of my dreams.. Fame is the eternal aim of human life.. and also spirituality..

U like pcd too...I love dont cha..also..!

Man you want to meet him and want SRK to dance at your wedding...girl i aim low and go high type girl...so right now my dream is to just MEET him!😍,😆 i HAVE to meet him before i die, hook ya crook....and then i will make him dance in my wedding too!😆😉

I love that song too...dont cha wish your girlfriend was hot like me...😆😆