Wrong direction

I feel the moral which the creatives are trying to show is in the wrong direction. They are showing the moral at the end as though someone is opposing widow remarriage in the serial, but in the show as of yesterday everyone were convinced for widow remarriage and were happily celebrating. I could not see anyone opposing it till they came to know of pregnancy. That is very natural even open minded educated people who accept widow remarriage cannot accept such a situation and Madan singh was right in his anger. It would have been even fine if the girl is pregnant from previous wedding but since Suguna is pregnant even though the previous wedding didnt happen, its a mess piled up from Suguna's end.

i agree...message given is all wrong. first the support suguna keeping her baby on emotional grounds while all the while opposing women having kids too early in life. now they make the whole thing seem anti widow remarriage.

wedding happened....that is why she is a widow...because her husband died...and you have a husband only after a wedding...

we all the the circumstances and why each woman reacted the way she did...my point is ambiguous message given by the show. if they really are serious abt social issues then they must give some messages which are practical like widows getting an education. but we suddenly cannot have ppl agreeing to get their sons married to pregnant widows happily.

Messages are given in the context of episode... if you remember the episode where they announced her pregnancy, the message was something like - things done in youth can have repercussions for a lifetime.

my thinking is different...change doesnt occur suddenly...if it does happen then there are chances that the changes may backfire and revert back to being even more regressive. one example was dadisa realizing how much she was hurting suguna and phooli by calling them apshagun when someone else thought suguna would be apshagun. now dadisa is back to considering madan singh's widowed daughter-in-law apshagun.
but if change is gradual with characters undergoing a true change of heart due to realization then it will bring on true change of heart. the messages given at the end of the show is not really for city-types and nris sitting at their laptops and tying away but for those ppl living in small town and villages who prolly are planning to their get their little daughter married off. would this audience find the moral of getting their son married to pregnant widow palatable? but im sure the idea of giving their daughters and daughters-in-law an education would go down better. if we really want to talk of equality of rights for men and women lets start with the right to education-when a married jagya can continue his schooling why cant his married sister and wife? lets reach some level of equality there first.