Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki: Episode Discussion Thread - 41 - Page 90

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Gotcha gotcha I read it differently ❤️

And The decision for Mannat, Neetu took, not supporting the decision, was referring to more in terms of let's see if characters like the bitter pill where others take decisions on their behalf. Obviously Mannat didn't like it, but she still doesn't realize her decision triggered a domino effect for Vikrant.

She was sorry for lying but she wasn't sorry for supporting someone else over Vikrant & she wasn't going to give up lies.Once she accepts this I am good . I found it so funny when she asked Neetu you promised to keep this a secret from Vikrant, in front of Vikrant. What were the writers even thinking, so much confidence to ask why didn't you continue to lie🤣

Originally posted by: Resham

Tai doesn't like this raasta... remember her story is already written....

I know... 😭😭😭

Manifesting it day in and day out 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Moor278

I am in minority...

I want him to not fight... let Mannat and Dua come to him on their own... not because of some court order 🙃

Aren't we mixing two things here? There is Vikrant & Dua and there is Vikrant and Mannat. Vikrant and Mannat have both accepted that their relationship has ended. Vikrant needs to just be thinking about his kid. Trying to combine the two is where it all gets muddied I feel.

Dua has already come to Vikrant multiple times. That relationship was built from Dua initiating contact. It's his turn to think about his kid.

I'm not advocating for him to get custody. I just need his parental rights restored and he be given access to his kid. Over time they can see about the rest as Dua gets older.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Bold...

As per updates... theres going to be a fight between DK and Mannat and he is going to accuse her (once again) of using Dua to stay close to Vik 🤦‍♀️

I would suggest lets wait and see if more updates give some clarity on what Mannats thoguht processs is actually 😐

Also the result is not out yet either.

My other hope is it is not Vik who has filed the case.. it could be Neetu... (hinted as per updates)... while I do want ManVik and Dua together... I do want Vik to stand by his words and not file a case against Mannat.... like Scar says it will hurt her again and she will feel betrayed after Viks repeated assurances of not taking a drastic legal route.

Bold: Moor, DK is absconding with the family back to Indore while we are advocating for Vikku boy to stand by Mannat has already accepted that her fate is to be alone with her baby. We will be waiting a long time if its left up to Mannat

Question is if not court then what?

But i do get that going back on his word is him breaking his promise again just waiting is not sounding very promising to me.

Originally posted by: Bettyscar

I think Vikrant is caught between a rock and a hard place. Where would you suggest he starts? Mannat is not even willing to discuss access for him. His rights to Dua were handed over to DK at birth and for his kid's happiness he is willing to let go. In the bts he hasn't agreed either. We probably need to wait and see what finally tipped the scale for him.

Before running back to Indore they needed to have had some form of agreement in place. All she is promising is she will discuss with DK. Where does that leave Vikrant?

If Mannat wasn't operating from a position of trying to safeguard DK's interests then I would think maybe she would give it a clear thought but all it looks to me is she is going to make Vikrant pay for his sins against her and not for Dua. Mannat shouldn't be running away like she is doing now.

When the reveal happened itself, I ranted to Moor. That Mannat was more worried about DK's shock rather than her own. Even Ronnie, was more concerned about DK. Mji panics when she sees DKji's face!

Vikrant is Mannat's ex, Ronnie's son, DK's brother. He realised his huge mistake of trusting Vish; & he is in a space where he has accepted he has lost everything. Mannat and DK have seen this; where he called himself the unluckiest. As someone they all cared for, wouldn't they want him back in a small way? But when Dua said he can go along; it looked like none of them wanted him in their lives.

Despite all of that, he has come back to tell them and reassure them, he will not interfere, he may not have reached any pinnacle of perfection, but shouldn't they be giving him a chance to visit at least? What is the fear??

Definitely it seems like it's a punishment and none of them want to have anything to

do with him. Why is there no conflict in their minds?? Why make up with him at all?

What i mean is, Vikrant is family. If there's a any slim chance of the prodigal son returning, why would they not take it?

Originally posted by: Mona_HappyLife

In today's episode ManVik mutually agreed that the entire situation would be handled gradually so Mannat is not stopping him at all.

The final fight happened due to Dhairya, it was not Vikrant or Mannat's fault wherein Mannat got pissed off & told him that he cannot all of a sudden start taking decisions...

Also court case BTS are yet to be released, as of now we know that Neetu has been instigating him to file case which he has refused to.

So Mannat has no issue, she only wants this to sensitively handled, nothing else...

Through counselling it is doable or not thats secondary. Any mother who has gone thru all these will be extremely cautious for her child not to go thru mess again considering the MUs still not being cleared.

Once MUs are cleared, Mannat will automatically step back into Vikrant's life even if Dhairya tries to sto her...

😂 We’re jumping the gun I agree, but we do agree DK instigated the fight and Mannat jumped in at the end. And what’s emerging is DK taking more control of the decisions, outwardly to M/Rotu saying he’ll allow access, to Vikrant saying he won’t, with Mannat backing DK’s right to decide.

Back to Dua’s consideration in my first post. Thankfully Mannat respected Vikrant’s wishes and rose above her past trauma & own life experiences with a mutual plan. But if that mutual agreement is in tatters because if DK and Mannat is not able to, or willing to shift DK’s decision , what is Vikrant’s next option? To try DK/M again (🤨), give in (😢) or seek independent judgement.

I guess what’s driving Vikrant’s urgency is that once they leave for Indore, he won’t be able to discuss anything further with Mannat- DK’s controlling dialogue in OH showed this to Vikrant.
Unfortunately Mannat can’t have it both ways, agree a plan with Vikrant and let DK override, she needs to handle the genie she let out of bottle or lets the courts do it.

It’s really sad that ManVik have come to this heart breaking scenario that they can’t resolve themselves. Makers aren’t going to resolve those mus in a hurry either, no chance if DK scoots them off to Indore…..

Absolutely agree.

Mannat took her decisions independently pre leap. Now maybe life took that confidence away from her. She is so grateful to DK, that any difference of opinion she feels is reducing that gratitude factor.

She seems to be controlled in a way by DK. I don't know if anyone else is seeing it that way.

Dua will have to know, sometime in her life. She can turn around and ask them, why they denied her meeting Vikrant. Even if they make up some story about why Manvik separated.

Originally posted by: Shazia_h

😂 We’re jumping the gun I agree, but we do agree DK instigated the fight and Mannat jumped in at the end. And what’s emerging is DK taking more control of the decisions, outwardly to M/Rotu saying he’ll allow access, to Vikrant saying he won’t, with Mannat backing DK’s right to decide.

Back to Dua’s consideration in my first post. Thankfully Mannat respected Vikrant’s wishes and rose above her past trauma & own life experiences with a mutual plan. But if that mutual agreement is in tatters because if DK and Mannat is not able to, or willing to shift DK’s decision , what is Vikrant’s next option? To try DK/M again (🤨), give in (😢) or seek independent judgement.

I guess what’s driving Vikrant’s urgency is that once they leave for Indore, he won’t be able to discuss anything further with Mannat- DK’s controlling dialogue in OH showed this to Vikrant.
Unfortunately Mannat can’t have it both ways, agree a plan with Vikrant and let DK override, she needs to handle the genie she let out of bottle or lets the courts do it.

It’s really sad that ManVik have come to this heart breaking scenario that they can’t resolve themselves. Makers aren’t going to resolve those mus in a hurry either, no chance if DK scoots them off to Indore…..

Agree to what you said but Vikrant needs to be patient.

The truth has just come out. Just because he realized his mistake now he can't expect Mannat to quickly give in to whatever he wants.

Yes he is the father and he will yearn but that itself his redemption process & I don't see anything wrong here. Not even once Mannat said No to him. Infact when Dua hugged him she had tears out of happiness & deep down she does want the relation to mend but not at the cost of Dua's sanity...

What DK thinks or says is secondary. As Moor said he is not the ML so ultimately things will not happen the way he wants.

Yes, Mannat at times gives in to DK but she is not going to take his whims everytime, she already once snapped back at DK in OH and once at SM as well.

If DK continues to cross the line & pisses of Mannat then she will deal with him in her own way...

Also DK has been looking after Dua for 7 years, its not easy for Mannat to replace him completely with Vikrant in just few days or even bring in Vikrant all of a sudden & change the entire equation. This will backfire at Dua, it doesn't matter even if she at present has friendly relation with him.

She cannot just take decision based on what Vikrant thinks, she needs to think about Dua too, Dk as well how much ever some of us dislike him...

I will be shocked if the story is NOT a copy paste.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Absolutely agree.

Mannat took her decisions independently pre leap. Now maybe life took that confidence away from her. She is so grateful to DK, that any difference of opinion she feels is reducing that gratitude factor.

She seems to be controlled in a way by DK. I don't know if anyone else is seeing it that way.

Dua will have to know, sometime in her life. She can turn around and ask them, why they denied her meeting Vikrant. Even if they make up some story about why Manvik separated.

Let her get controlled....

She will automatically exit out of DK's life.

She is yet to see DK's real face/insecurity/anger or whatever you would like to call.

She doesn't take shit for a long time, we already seen that..

Pre-leap Vikrant made the mistake of believing Vish's manipulation. Post leap its Mannat now..

Perhaps, Vikrant is the only pasandida mard whose tantrums she keeps on bearing every time...

Meanwhile let Vikrant do the effort of having Dua back naturally & not by force...