Anupamaa 11th May 2024 Written Update & Daily Discussions Thread - Page 9

Prayaas se kya matlab  hai Ab kya anupama   eent Pathar dhoye kya majdoori kare to show Prayas ?.

Anupama  ne youtube channel  mein apne haathon se khud khaana Bana ke video  upload  Kiya apne haathon se khud tea masala peesa  dance academy  jaati hai shikhane ke Liya ab Kaun se Praysas ki baat  ho rahi hai

Rahi baat  Devika  ke financial  help ki when u start from zero  to shuru  mein sabhi financial  help karte hai 

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Prayaas se kya matlab  hai Ab kya anupama   eent Pathar dhoye kya majdoori kare to show Prayas ?.

Anupama  ne youtube channel  mein apne haathon se khud khaana Bana ke video  upload  Kiya apne haathon se khud tea masala peesa  dance academy  jaati hai shikhane ke Liya ab Kaun se Praysas ki baat  ho rahi hai

Rahi baat  Devika  ke financial  help ki when u start from zero  to shuru  mein sabhi financial  help karte hai 

Baaki log Jo kaam karte hain woh mehnat nahin hain?

SAPNE kiske the? Anupama ke.

Kya kya sapne the: Dence Ecedemy ka, Amreeka jaane ka, jaane aur kitne?

Amreeka pahunchaya Devika ne, job apply kiya, interview diya, accommodation ka negotiation kiya, visa apply kiya, visa ki bhaagdaud ki, tickets ka jugaad kiya (may be through a travel agent). Haath me papers rakhke diye aur upar se jaane ko convince bhi kiya financial help ke saath.

Amreeka me bhi Dance Academy me introduce Yashdeep ne karaya.

Toh Jo kaam Devika ne kiya woh Anupama karti Toh prayaas hota. Agar Anupama ka YouTube channel itna hi bada tha aur woh financially independent thi, toh woh insab ke liye khud ke paise lagati.

Dance ka shauque Anupama ka hain, agar itna hi shauque tha toh dhoondhti ki aap paas kaunsa Academy hain, koi Indian hain ya nahin yeh sab khud office hours ke baad karti. Yeh prayaas hota. Khud ka ek ghar dhoondhti office hours ke baad, khud rent, utilities, groceries, transport, laundry manage karti. Toh prayaas hota.

Sapne Anupama ke hain toh prayaas aur risk bhi Anipama ko uthana chahiye. Sab kuch haath me laakar dena prayaas nahin kehlata.

Acha Jo apme haathon se khaana banaya restaurant  mein  serve Kiya woh Prayas Mehnat nahi hai ?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Acha Jo apme haathon se khaana banaya restaurant  mein  serve Kiya woh Prayas Mehnat nahi hai ?

Woh uska kaam hain. Ab Restaurant me prakat hone ke toh salary dega nahin koi. Ab office me haazir hone salary thodi na hoti hain.

Anupama ke toh maze hain, Salary hi nahin accommodation, food sab kuch muft me mil raha hain. Off office hours, office resources use karke food "experiments" bhi karti hn madam, batao. (Example: Leela ke saath guftagoo me confrss jo kiya tha)

Kaise. Sub muft mil raha hai ?  .she use to pay rent  to yashpal  it was clearly  shown that yashpal  told ki iska karaya lagega and anupama  agree  to pay rent for store room

Ab emergency  ke time agar anupama  yssdeep ke Ghar Riki to use kiraaye li jaayega ?

 Aur ab kya toshu  bhi kiraye lega 

And more over anupama  is paying  half rent where  anupama  is liv8ng eitb co staff in rent house 

Ab anuj  bhi anupama  se kiraye lega kya  matlab  anuj  khud bulaaye anupama   matlab  log khud bole mein  mere Ghar mein aao ya phir choti  ke Dekh  bhaal ke liye  khud hi anupama  ko invite  bulaao aur uske kiraye bhi lo

Phir to anupama  ko bhi paise maagne chahiye  Jo maid ki Tarah anuj ke Ghar kaam kar rahi hai 

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kaise. Sub muft mil raha hai ?  .she use to pay rent  to yashpal  it was clearly  shown that yashpal  told ki iska karaya lagega and anupama  agree  to pay rent for store room

Ab emergency  ke time agar anupama  yssdeep ke Ghar Riki to use kiraaye li jaayega ?

 Aur ab kya toshu  bhi kiraye lega 

And more over anupama  is paying  half rent where  anupama  is liv8ng eitb co staff in rent house 

Ab anuj  bhi anupama  se kiraye lega kya  matlab  anuj  khud bulaaye anupama   matlab  log khud bole mein  mere Ghar mein aao ya phir choti  ke Dekh  bhaal ke liye  khud hi anupama  ko invite  bulaao aur uske kiraye bhi lo

Phir to anupama  ko bhi paise maagne chahiye  Jo maid ki Tarah anuj ke Ghar kaam kar rahi hai 

Insaan ko independently rehne ke liye:

Rent, utilities, maintenance, groceries, transport, laundry (if not owning a washer-dryer) par kharcha karna padta hain. Insaan Inmese kisi cheez ka upayog without payment kare toh use muft hi kaha jayega.

Anupama storeroom me rehne ka Kirana toh de rahi thi but baki sab ka kya, utilities, jo food experiments restaurant ke kitchen me karti thi?

Emergency me baki staff toh nahin gaye Unke ghar rehne. Tabhi Katie se bolkar shift ho jati.

Anupama ko doosron ke bharose, sahare rehna nahin chahiye na. Yeh kaisa Independence hua?

Rahi baat Anuj ke bulane se aane ki. Why did she even agree to come? Agar uska koi rishta nahin hain, use Anuj se koi lena dena nahin hn, toh mana hi kar deti. Ya phir kahe ki Adhya ko mere Ghar (jaha bhi woh reh rahi hn) waha bheje.

Added later:

Pick-up and drop service to and from Kinjal-Paritosh's, food supply from Restaurant (none of the other, even Indian staff were offered these privileges), food conducive to Leela's taste.

Man is social  being   insaan poori Tarah independent  nahi ho sakta 

Baaki sub yashdeep  ke paas  isliye rehne nahi gaye kyonki unke paas already  Ghar they 

But  anupama  being new in  America  uske paas  turant Ghar available  nahi  that that  is why stay  anupama  there few days that too when  yashdeep  ask for nut after ward she stay at kinjal  house   but muft mein  khaana  peeve ko nahi  but to help kinal  

And now she is paying  half rent 

Aur koi jaroori  nahi  serial  mein  anupama  ko Ek ek cheej  ke liye anupama  ko paise dete dikhaya  jaaye 

Even when  she is staying  at yashdeep  house  she  is still  preparing  food in open  garden  and providing tiffin  services  

She is preparing  food providing tiffin service so I don't know independent  hone kya matlab  hai and yes  poori Tarah  koi independent  nahi Hota hai 

Anupama is putting herself in a dependent spot for no reason. Store room se Dhillons ke yaha, Kinjal-Paritosh ke yaha move karna hi nahin chahiye. Agar Anupama ka apna residence hota toh woh "help" ko restrict kar paata ki kitna kar payegi, kitna nahin.

Anupama koi bachchi nahin hain ki kisine bulaya aur woh chal di. Kisine kuch kaha aur woh maan gayi.

Har kisi ko apna ghar khud hi dhoondhna hota hain. Efforts toh daale. KOI BHI naye shehar me jaata hain toh hafta 10 days (jitna bhi afford kar sake) kahi temporary accommodation leta hain aur phir khud ka thikaana dhoondhta hain. It is in their own best interest.

Aur tiffin services or whatever else, is her job. Waise toh yeh bhi Anupama ne khud bola Vikram aur baki sab deliver karne jate the apne apne ghar se clients ke ghar tak. Apna kaam use karna hi hoga isme koi bhi badi baat nahin hain.

Madad me aur ehsaan fark hota hain. Man, the social being, madad karte hain.

Independent tab kehlati jab woh apne liye khud zimmedar hoti. Jaise baki ke employees. Kisi aur ke ghar par mehmaan bhi zyaada reh jaye toh achcha nahin hota.

To saara kaam anupama  akele kare  ?

Akela Chana bhaada nahi phod sakta 

Yeh samajh nahi aaya  ki tiffin  service  is her  job ?   Jub anupama  ne socha ki use independent  hai life mein  khuch hat ke karna tabhi  to woh yeh job kar rahi hai Otherwise  why She will do job  if she don't want to be independent  

Originally posted by: surabhi01

To saara kaam anupama  akele kare  ?

Akela Chana bhaada nahi phod sakta 

Yeh samajh nahi aaya  ki tiffin  service  is her  job ?   Jub anupama  ne socha ki use independent  hai life mein  khuch hat ke karna tabhi  to woh yeh job kar rahi hai Otherwise  why She will do job  if she don't want to be independent  

Kaunsa saara kaam kar diya Anupama ne?

@bold: matlab?

@underlined: Samajh nahin aaya.

And exactly what would she do in life if not for some form of work (Job or business whatever the case may be)?

She was working in a restaurant as housekeeping staff, staying the store room.

She shifted to Dhillons after the fire broke out. Due to constraints they started delivering the food made in their house kitchen so that they can resume operations after restoration and keep their customers.

Ab delivery bhi Vikram ka kaam toh tha nahin he was doing that. There is NO FREE SALARY. You HAVE TO WORK to EARN. Phir woh job ho ya business. And it is no Ehsaan on ANYONE. If anything, it is a good will of someone who is either giving you an opportunity.