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Abhi didn’t return Abhir after Abhir ran away, when he heard Akshara was sick in Kasauli - he already planned to returned Abhir- he even prepares himself that Abhir might not return from Kasauli when he takes him there.
Also, Abhi didn’t blame alone it on kismatZ Abhi legit while he was outside Birla house in yesterday’s episode, he legit goes like I try not hurt people but I end up hurting them- that alone is him admitting he knows it’s his fault.
During Kairav and Muskaan’s wedding, he also admits that he lost his love cause of his own faults. He even says it in front of Akshara.
Okay now Abhi has given up Abhir, keeping his distance from Sharma family, but apparently he is not allowed to be sad- he should be happy with what he has. He legit told Akshara I will be fine, I just have to give myself some time. He didn’t tell her to come outside neither did he display his pain in front of any of them. No one asked Sharma family to cheer him up, they are planning on doing that out of their own will.

All three parents went ahead with custody battle.
Abhir called him to come to Birla house- I think any parent who didn’t know about their kid ( who they always wanted) for 6 years and gets to spend time with him- would gladly take it . He took Abhir over when Akshara passed law exam, he was okay with Abhinav coming to school meeting, he discussed things with Akshara regarding Abhir and told her to call him also- told them they are always his parents, even tried to have Abhir to talk to understand why he didn’t want to meet his parents. Sharma family had weekends to meet Abhir, Abhi never stopped that- it was Manjiri behind his back and when Abhi found out- he canceled the order right away and ran to Goenka house to tell them, called Sharma couple many times- they didn’t pick up so he again went to Goenka house, and then planned on going to Kasauli himself with Abhir.

You all writing as if Abhi invited Sharma couple over to Birla house today so he can display his pain and they can feel guilty.

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Today's episode just reiterated what I have always said about Abhimanyu in all my posts and threads about him. That Abhimanyu himself is the greatest villain of his life and every suffering of his has always been the direct consequence of his own impulsive,intentional and ridiculously thoughtless actions.

How does one 40 year old think his 6 year old could live without his mother when he cannot at his age, how does a 40 year old think his 6 year would choose him over the parents who raised him. To thoughtlessly keep a child separate from his parents.. ofcourse he would be taught a lesson. Ofcourse his biological son would reject these notions and wake him up from these delusions. This was Abhimanyu's lesson : Even with LEGAL HAQ you cannot force your biological son to consider you a father.

All his HAQ went to the dumps.

This is also his punishment for listening and going with every single one of his mother's vile plans to keep Abhir as a prize for show in the Birla House when it was crystal clear,with literally the rest of members of the house telling him every other day, that Abhir was unhappy staying in Birla House and he was yearning for his mother, his parents. A lesson for despicable Manjiri as well : You cannot consider a human being, a little kid a land to conquer, a land you can forcefully stomp your feet on, KABZA on.

Abhir rejected the HAQ and KABZA and freed himself from these two's clutches and thats essentially why Abhimanyu today is off his rockers,intoxicated and hallucinating on the streets.

When he is stumbling and wobbling on the street he says 'I failed to become a good Dadda to you, Abhir'.. if I am paraphrasing this correct, he is absolutely RIGHT. And that is where he loses any semblance of sympathy from me.

If he was a good father, he wouldnt have separated Abhir from his parents when he KNEW how much his parents meant to him.

If he was a good father, he wouldnt have waited till Abhir literally had to run away from BH and from him for his mother and then say ' I am unhappy and I wanna go to my parents' to let go of him. He was so blindsided by his own selfish needs to be a father that he simply ignored what was right infront of him for weeks : An unhappy Abhir missing his parents. His own needs blinded him to take care of sons's.

So ofcourse he has to suffer now. Because he made his biological son suffer from seperation from his parents.

In the past Abhimanyu has conveniently blamed Akshara, Shivji, Kanhaji and now its suddenly QISMAT.. when all along it was ALL HIM. White day and whatever ensued as a consequence, separating Abhir from his parents, Abhir running away from BH and now Abhir rejecting him for his parents and taking back the faux father epithet Dadda respectively... ALL OF IT was and is ABHIMANYU's fault alone.

The day he finally accepts his faults without instant whitewashing and playing the victim card is the day he would be actually deserving of some sympathy. Because how does one with even sympathize now when all he's getting back is KARMA, which its completely deserving.

Originally posted by: abhirafan.5

Completely Agree. I think Abhimanyu will realize when Nav dies because of him. He will understand what kind of pain Akshara went through all her life and is going because of Aarohi and Birla Family. How it will be when someone calls you a murderer without your mistake. and regarding Manjari I can’t even, she deserves hell for cursing Akshara always for all the mistakes of Abhimanyu. They expect a 6 year old to be happy with a stranger whom he just met few months back and forget his own mother and father who raised in a happy and healthy environment all his life. Abhimanyu always has everyone to console him but Akshara has none. I don’t understand why can’t he be happy that his son is happy with his parents. He is selfish af. He deserves all the blames and more when Nav dies because of him.

What else should abhimanyu realize ? . He did realise. He has been punished already. But you people are expecting his trauma to increase all the time.

Last time also it was Akshara who took Neil ( great she was selfless) but knowingly or unknowingly she was the reason for the death. Now she is the one who is gonna do something for Abhimanyu in the name of picnic and may be it will be a death where Abhi would have no role but will get blamed and end up in jail. Wherever Aksahra goes it is problem only. She gives trauma. She is selfish only about her family

He has given away Abhir , now why Sharmas are doing Dola re dola to GH and BH to prove they are good souls and mahan. Abhimanyu went to a bar. he did not go to GH na. Why cant that female be away from him. What is Sharma ji saying. hum bhi uss dard se guzre hain....Koun sa dard se ? what has he ever faced in life...

He himself told Abhimanyu...kismath ne mujhe akshara ji ko diya....sab free mein mil gaya..tho ab Kasauli jao na...idhar kyon baite ho..Why the hell are u sitting in UD, bakhi time tho bagthe hain Kasauli. On top of it why do u call Majari MAA...What nonsense....

Who invited her to console Abhimanyu. Did she get invitation from BH ?

Chodo na yaar Akshara Sharma

Live and Let Live and Please Leave Abhimanyu and his family....

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Wow! So the abuser has been doing the slightest at every turn - saving Abhinav’s life in Kasauli, offering free surgery to Abhir(when he didn’t know the truth), helping in Muskan’s wedding - none of which he was expected to do nor he rubbed it in anyone’s face.

But the great Mr Sharma who agreed to a loveless marriage because he probably couldn’t find a partner for himself and got a family. Took free help from Birlas while Abhimanyu always paid for their services - be it cab or homestay! And still had the audacity to hide the truth about Abhir! Even after it was out, he recounted it as a favor!!! If this is the difference between Achha and “abuser”, I am definitely gonna choose “abuser” always!

I can never understand narrative of Abhi as only 'abuser' and Akshara as only 'victim'. At least Abhi doesn't lie..don't manipulate...is honest to core... doesnt commit any felony..has his flaws...but anyday most genuine person in this whole show..he is who he is and has guts to be that..

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Yeah. Because she went through a difficult pregnancy and gave birth to her son and raised him for 6 years. Of course she will be shattered. Abhir stayed with Abhimanyu for two weeks and his mom spread enough venom against Akshara that Abhir had to run away.

They didn't show up to Birla house to show their Mahaanta, they did that because Abhir asked his mom to take him there so he can give the card.

If it is about number of years people knowing each other then Ak knew Abhi for about 2-3 years and Abhi knew Neil for 20+ years so Abhi losing Neil was more painful than Ak losing her husband and since her kids were just foetus, we won't even count it because it is the time one spends with someone which matters. Accepting your theory, it was in post leap episodes that Abhi was mourning death of his twins so the connection with Abhir wasn't of 2 weeks but of 6 years. Parents are distraught when they lose their 1 day old baby

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Akshnav are taking Abhir to USA for the surgery ,so how come they need Mr.Birla the selfish’s help ? Kv made all the arrangements for Abhir’s surgery.Abhir’s surgery is done after truth revealed so he didn’t do any favour there,he just operated his own son. It was Mr.Sharma who sold his cars for Abhir’s treatment.

AbM paid for their services and that’s not a favour , Abhinav is living his whole life n also Akshnavir living their best happy life for last 6yrs without favours of Mr.selfish Birla. Why would n should AbN reveal Abhir’s truth when Ak wanted him not to reveal.

A person who kicks out divorcing a miscarried wife is an abuser. Abusing doesn’t have to physical always ,it can be mental abuse too. These kind of abusers will not even be my last option to choose as a life partner who cannot see anything beyond them and can only hurt ppl(he accepted in yesterday’s episode).

@Jsutfan

Why can’t he be happy with Ruhi as before as he used to be with her before Abhir then why not now ? He can stil spend his weekends with Abhir going to kasuali ,he is rich and that’s the only reason he won the custody of Abhir. So he can fly n meet him every week like how every divorce couple does.

He is always like this he can handle only one relationship at a time and hurt others with his actions. He hurt Ruhi too in that family summer camp with his behaviour, he can’t balance relationships,except with his mom! Today from his actions and behaviour I feel He don’t really care about Ruhi .

@bold - when convenient- following Akshara’s request. Otherwise no issues in going against her to get Abhimanyu for the puja! No consistency! He too was selfish!

Regarding the surgery - Abhimanyu offered them before the US trip or truth reveal and later too when Arohi brought recommendation for US - she mentioned that the expenses will be taken care of by the Birla Hospital! Kairav probably just booked the tickets - he is anyways useless!

I have said it before and I will repeat - I do not find Abhimanyu abusive - including the white day - not justifying his outburst- but wouldn’t label him an abuser after considering his actions and emotional state on that day!

We will keep disagreeing here but I find Akshara the most toxic and annoying character of this season! But to each his own. I respect your views but disagree.

@blue - And Akshara said that Abhimanyu is a better person than her!

When Abhi cries for Abhir, he’s in pain because he’s the best father and is wronged by everyone.

When Akshara cries for Abhir, it’s karma hitting for hiding Abhir’s truth and she deserves it.

When Abhinav cries for Abhir, it’s OTT he’s not even the real father, he’s the fake father who stole Abhir from Abhi and for selfish reasons manipulated Akshara and Abhir to be with him all these years.

Can someone tell my why Abhi was crying in the episode? I’m thinking because he got rejected and he can’t take rejection but please let me know if it was for something else.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Let the man cry, yaar; Nav cried so much not that long ago, just at the possibility of not being with Ak and Abhir. What is your problem, even with Abhi's pain?

Also, Abhi is not responsible for Sharma fam's actions. He never did anything to seem mahaan or anything. He just did what he had to, whatever he thought was right at the moment. Sharma fam is obsessed with mahaanta and all. Nor is he going and asking them to come to witness his ddp. Like what is the problem here?

Manjari being shown worried about Abhi is also a problem. Lol, so no one should worry about a guy who could be potentially suicidal?

Half of this crap is Manjiri's fault lol, the lady could never let go of her over attachment to her son. Couldn't she see that the kid didn't want to be separated from his parents? But God forbid anyone takes her precious son away from her (aka Akshara), typical desi saas lmao.

So it’s been a day since Abhir rejected Abhi and Abhi isn’t allowed to be sad in his own house and in his own space because apparently he is victim blaming .

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Playing victim is Akshara and Abhinav's forte, not Abhi's.

Akshara couldn't take the defeat and the very same day landed in BH after custody with that stupid hichki connection!!! She was the one who barged into BH every day and screamed and yelled at abhi and Manju.

Abhi did none of these. He is grieving in his own way!!! He didn't ask the Sharma's to be the audience. He has dignity, he didn't even bother abhir, just kept the luggage and went away!!!

It's the Sharma's who are yet again showing up at BH to show how mahaan they are, after abhi gave up on Abhir who was rightfully his!!!

Akshara didn't even had to fight for it!!! Khairat mein mil gayi usse!!!

So spare abhi!!!

Because she's the kid's mother....and the court ruling in favour of Abhimanyu didn't make much sense tbh. And, the screaming and yelling she did was very well-deserved imo, she just dropped truth bombs on them. Or should she just be constantly screamed at and blamed by the mother-son duo? I guess no one is allowed to answer back to Birla crap?

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Because she's the kid's mother....and the court ruling in favour of Abhimanyu didn't make much sense tbh. And, the screaming and yelling she did was very well-deserved imo, she just dropped truth bombs on them. Or should she just be constantly screamed at and blamed by the mother-son duo? I guess no one is allowed to answer back to Birla crap?

She also manhandled abhi physically. But just because she is FL ,she should be forgiven. If she screams ,it's her right and if abhi does he is monster. Furthermore what happened in past is past. Let's talk about present,as far as I see abhi don't scream ,shout he changed. Now what else??