Pain of a mother - Page 5

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

The point is Akshara is not responsible for Neil s death. A grown ass s decision is his own

Secondly, Akshara has suffered enough both physically and mentally for her foolishness on the white day

Abhimanyu apni khudki galti ki wajah see apne bete ki zinadgi main nahi haa. Usko ya uski maa ko koi right nahi hai Akshara pe chilane ka

Call to Akshara ne Abhimanyu o bhi kiya that. In 6 saalon main kabhi nahi laga ki ek baar call karke pucho ki kya baat this

ABhinav see nahi. Akshara se baat karun

You said, “But they could have tried to bring Akshara back after a few months” , my point iss jab 4 month pregnancy thi tab he Akshara ne jutha call kar diya tha ki Maine shaddi kar li hai. Dusri shaddi kar li hai means she has a new life partner in her life now so on which grounds they could try to bring Akshara back after Akshara’s announcement that usne shaddi kar li hai!

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I got your point but I am talking about the lines you have written.

You said, “But they could have tried to bring Akshara back after a few months” , my point iss jab 4 month pregnancy thi tab he Akshara ne jutha call kar diya tha ki Maine shaddi kar li hai. Dusri shaddi kar li hai means she has a new life partner in her life now so on which grounds they could try to bring Akshara back after Akshara’s announcement that usne shaddi kar li hai!

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I got your point but I am talking about the lines you have written.

You said, “But they could have tried to bring Akshara back after a few months” , my point iss jab 4 month pregnancy thi tab he Akshara ne jutha call kar diya tha ki Maine shaddi kar li hai. Dusri shaddi kar li hai means she has a new life partner in her life now so on which grounds they could try to bring Akshara back after Akshara’s announcement that usne shaddi kar li hai!

Chalo, isko ek example see samjhate haai. Agar tumhare kissi jaan pechaan wale ne jo ki recently miscarriage hua haai. Jisse tum apparently bahut pyaar karte ho woh tumhare zaleel karke nikal dene ke baad bhi. Tumhe call kai baar call kare . Jo tum an uthao

Aur kuch machine baad aachanak se kissi aur se shaadi kar le toh tumhe ajeeb nahi lagega? Kya tum jaane nahi chaogi ki kyun call kiya tha? Ya aise aachanka se within 4 months kaise shaadi kar li?

Log hamesha Akshara ko blame karte hai ki ghar chod diya, bhaag gayi. Paar uske so called family members ka kiya. bade papa ek baar gaye usko wapas lane. Aur phir kuch nahi. Abhinav was complete stranger to them. Kabhi jaane ki koshish nahiki uske baare main?

Agar un 9 mahine main ABhimanyu, Manjari ya Bade papa kissi ne uske pass jaake usse samjhane ki koshish ki hoti na. Toh Akshara zaroor wapas aa jati

Paar nahiki. Puri pregnancy main woh akeli thi.Koi nah tha. Sirf Abhinav tha

U r right , Neil could have stopped her or convinced her to wait for the police. He is not a child .

Akshara did not have parents and how her step sister ill-treated her and we as normal humans cant even think how Ar was making her life miserable. On top of it she blamed her for her mother's death. When Abhi put salt in that wound that is when she could not rise up.

Not saying it is not Ak 's mistake, but i dont think any of us would even be able to survive a week in such instances what she had been through.

This so called lover boy who would go to any extent for her did not even remember her last 6 years....it seems to be a joke

If he goes for custody (as per the promo) that is the height of atrocity and unpleasant act from abhi

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

She got married after Abhir is born not in 4th month . Anyway 4mnths is not a long time to search for someone who left the house in pain? They never tried to search ab aa gaye haq mangane shameless ma beta duo

I am not in favour of manjari ofcourse but plot is full of loop-holes so muje Akshara 100% sahi nahi lagti hai.

Double post ..Edited

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Akshara was waiting for Abhimanyu for 9 months. Marriage with Abhinav happened after Abhir was born

@bold : Lekin uss time Akshara ne jutha call kiya tha ki usne shaddi kar ki hai when she and aarohi was around 4 months pregnant. So there is nothing like Akshara was waiting for Abhimanyu for 9 months.

4 months ki pregnancy ke time uske dadaji ko jutha call usne he kiya tha fir ab kaise keh sakte hai ki she was waiting for 9 months.

Not 4 or not 9

7 months later. Akshara was in her 8 month. Abhir was born pre mature and she made that call when she got up two days later seeing her child in Abhinav's arms and Abhimanyu wasn't there.

Now i know this won't change your thoughts but think about it before blaming Akshara and defending the mother son duo.

What would have happened if Akshara died during child birth? Abhinav didn't know about her family who the father was.? Will Abhimanyu ever get to know he has a child uska haq? Usko kitne years later on yeh pta chlta that the girl he claims to love died?

What if Akshara ne dono bache kho hi diye hote? The way Abhimanyu behaved woh justify tha? Kisi k pati ne kra hota toh maaf krdete?

It was very clear from the episodes k Akshara ne kitne hope se Abhi ko call kra tha even now she said phela word apke bete ka naam tha?

Abhimanyu and Mata ji haq haq chila rhe hain kya hai Akshara bacha paida krne machine aagye? Woh bhi ma hai she struggled during child birth, body changes, breastfeeding and post pregnancy issues uska koi haq nahi.

Waah re logic. Jitna pyaar krne ka claim krta tha na Abhimanyu yeh sab us basis hai specially how could you just leave someone you love like this.

In sab ko literally 7 months tak matlb nahi tha Akshara mar gayi k jinda hai and phir woh call aaya

What if woh nahi aata? Abhimanyu k irade the to go and look for her no.

I am sorry but supporting the mother son duo at the cost of blaming someone who is the victim of their toxic love is wrong in so many ways

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I got your point but I am talking about the lines you have written.

You said, “But they could have tried to bring Akshara back after a few months” , my point iss jab 4 month pregnancy thi tab he Akshara ne jutha call kar diya tha ki Maine shaddi kar li hai. Dusri shaddi kar li hai means she has a new life partner in her life now so on which grounds they could try to bring Akshara back after Akshara’s announcement that usne shaddi kar li hai!

As if abhim Birla stopped at anything ..he proposed a married woman having 6 yr old child.

After the phone call he still had 4-5 months to think why akshu was calling him repeatedly , what is it that was so important

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Chalo, isko ek example see samjhate haai. Agar tumhare kissi jaan pechaan wale ne jo ki recently miscarriage hua haai. Jisse tum apparently bahut pyaar karte ho woh tumhare zaleel karke nikal dene ke baad bhi. Tumhe call kai baar call kare . Jo tum an uthao

Aur kuch machine baad aachanak se kissi aur se shaadi kar le toh tumhe ajeeb nahi lagega? Kya tum jaane nahi chaogi ki kyun call kiya tha? Ya aise aachanka se within 4 months kaise shaadi kar li?

Log hamesha Akshara ko blame karte hai ki ghar chod diya, bhaag gayi. Paar uske so called family members ka kiya. bade papa ek baar gaye usko wapas lane. Aur phir kuch nahi. Abhinav was complete stranger to them. Kabhi jaane ki koshish nahiki uske baare main?

Agar un 9 mahine main ABhimanyu, Manjari ya Bade papa kissi ne uske pass jaake usse samjhane ki koshish ki hoti na. Toh Akshara zaroor wapas aa jati

Paar nahiki. Puri pregnancy main woh akeli thi.Koi nah tha. Sirf Abhinav tha

Apne khud ke experience ki wajah se he as a mother I am unable to connect with Akshara kyunki Akshara ke case mai woh khud he apne unborn babies ko goons ke pass le kar gayi thi . Chalo Ek bar ke liye mai maan bhi lu ki Neil ki death uske apne bad decision ki wajah se hui lekin akshara ne jaise apne babies ko goons ke paas le jas risk mai dala uske liye woh muje extremely wrong lagti hai. Unborn baby was not in position to speak and say ki mamma muje goons ke paas matt le jao lekin akshara bhi careless thi that’s why unborn babies ko goons ke paas le gayi and yeh bahot bada wala carelessness tha. So Akshara muje galat lagti hai.

Dusri baat , ofcourse agar divorce ke just immediately muje kahi se pata chale ki mere husband ne dusro shaddi kar li hai toh muje questions honge ki itna jaldi kaise move on kar gaye! Kiske sath move on kar gaye ! Lekin yeh tab hota hai jab aap ka ugly divorce na ho. Real life mai married hu , bacche ki maa hu isiliye yeh bol sakti hu ki jab ugly divorce hota hai tab curiosity definitely hoti hai lekin jaane ka interest nahi bachta hai ki usne nayi life itni jaldi start kyon kiya, move on kiske sath kiya etc.

Bade papa usko lene gaye , woh wapas nahi gayi, 1-2 month ke baad call kar ke bola ki Maine shaddi kar li. Uske baad leap dikha diya gaya and post leap yeh dikhaya ko dadaji was always in touch with Akshara so he was sending sweater for abhir jo ruhi exchange Ho Gaya tha, yeh bhi dikhaya ki woh sharma house bhi aate jate the during those years. Kab reconnect hue kabhi dikhaya he nahi hai. It’s just assumption ki woh abhinav se nahi mile the.

You are saying age unn 9 mahine mai Abhimanyu manjari Akshara ke pass jate toh woh jarur wapas aati lekin woh jate kaun se grounds par Akshara ke paas bulane? Unke liye toh akshara ne 4 th month mai dusri shaddi kar li thi aisa Akshara ne khud announcement kiya tha so baki ke 5 months mai kaun se grounds par kisi dusre ki biwi ko bulane jate?!

Abhimanyu ko insensitive ho kar immediately divorce nahi dena chahiye tha, that was totally Abhimanyu‘s fault. Akshara ko careless ho kar duniya theka nahi lena chahiye tha apne khud ke baccho ke cost par that was Akshara’s fault.

Regarding kisne zyada saha hai, jiska pain bada hai , uss time ki baat kari toh manjari ne jawan 25-26 saal la beta khoya tha, Akshara ne 8-9 weeks ka fetus khoya tha , manjari ne jawab beta khoya tha so she had just mental/emotional trauma , Akshara ne 8-9 weeks ka fetus khoya tha so she had physical pain along with trauma.

Maine apna fetus khoya tha and Meri Mami ne apni 17 saal ki beti ko road accident mai khoya hai, muje apne fetus ke jaane ka dukh hai but mera pain is nowhere close to Meri Mami ka pain jisne 17 saal ki jawan beti jisko pala , posa, yaade banayi, doctor banane ka sapna dekha , boards mai usko padhaya likhaya . I am very realistic person so Jo feel kiya hai dekha hai and manti hu wohi exactly likh rahi hu. Meri Mami ka pain muje apne pain se bahot zyada bada lagta hai and agar mai ye bolu ki mera pain unki barabari ka tha during my miscarriage toh woh juth bolna hoga. Person to person sabka alag manna hota hai to see the gravity of loss.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : audience ko pata hai ki usne abhir ke birth ke baad shaddi kiya like story ke liye show mai yeh specific episode dikhaya gaya hai ki jab woh and aarohi 4 months pregnant the tab Akshara ne jutha phone kar ke yeh announcement kari ki usne shaddi kar li hai. So for show and all the characters, Akshara got married when she and aarohi was 4 months pregnant.

I am not in favour of manjari ofcourse but plot is full of loop-holes so muje Akshara 100% sahi nahi lagti hai.