Pain of a mother - Page 6

Originally posted by: Krinya

As if abhim Birla stopped at anything ..he proposed a married woman having 6 yr old child.

After the phone call he still had 4-5 months to think why akshu was calling him repeatedly , what is it that was so important

Just after seeing cardiac activity during abdominal scan, yeh sab hua tha so it was 2 months of pregnancy. Akshara ne jutha call kiya ki Maine shaddi kar li hai when she and aarohi was 4 months pregnant. So 4-2 = 2 . Abhimanyu had those 2 months to think and question why Akshara was calling him repeatedly but he didn’t because for him Akshara had broken her promise that she will not put their babies on risk for anyone/anything.

I have always said and again saying for me abhimanyu was insensitive and his timing was wrong for divorcing Akshara. But muje Akshara bhi bahot galat lagti hai kyunki day 1 se usne bahot juth bole hai , bahot superficial rahi hai, bahot careless bhi rahi hai. Mere liye jitna doshi Abhimanyu hai utna he doshi Akshara hai.

Day 1 se closely Akshara ko dekha hai, hamesha superficial rahi hai, she was never true to her feelings and that was also reason ki woh bina bataye , bina samjaye , Khera ki baato mai aa kar ek saal ke liye gayab ho gayi jaha se trust issues ki aag lagni start hui thi.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

May be u need to re watch the episode she only called up BP to announce her marriage after Abhir’s birth in her 7th month that’s after her delivery. She had Abhir in 7th month on Manjari’s b’day , but as I already said 4mnths is long enough for anyone to search ,so that’s not at all an excuse. They never cared if she alive or not. Now when they know about Abhir shameless duo begging for haq. Abhir should start addressing selfish Manyu as Sir like he did to Harsh.

For me, Akshara and Abhimanyu both have paid price of Neil’s death in their own ways.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Not 4 or not 9

7 months later. Akshara was in her 8 month. Abhir was born pre mature and she made that call when she got up two days later seeing her child in Abhinav's arms and Abhimanyu wasn't there.

Now i know this won't change your thoughts but think about it before blaming Akshara and defending the mother son duo.

What would have happened if Akshara died during child birth? Abhinav didn't know about her family who the father was.? Will Abhimanyu ever get to know he has a child uska haq? Usko kitne years later on yeh pta chlta that the girl he claims to love died?

What if Akshara ne dono bache kho hi diye hote? The way Abhimanyu behaved woh justify tha? Kisi k pati ne kra hota toh maaf krdete?

It was very clear from the episodes k Akshara ne kitne hope se Abhi ko call kra tha even now she said phela word apke bete ka naam tha?

Abhimanyu and Mata ji haq haq chila rhe hain kya hai Akshara bacha paida krne machine aagye? Woh bhi ma hai she struggled during child birth, body changes, breastfeeding and post pregnancy issues uska koi haq nahi.

Waah re logic. Jitna pyaar krne ka claim krta tha na Abhimanyu yeh sab us basis hai specially how could you just leave someone you love like this.

In sab ko literally 7 months tak matlb nahi tha Akshara mar gayi k jinda hai and phir woh call aaya

What if woh nahi aata? Abhimanyu k irade the to go and look for her no.

I am sorry but supporting the mother son duo at the cost of blaming someone who is the victim of their toxic love is wrong in so many ways

I think we have never exchanged our thoughts directly with each other so let me clarify my side.

I don’t like manjri at all and I think she is pathetic human who has no right to show any haqq on abhir. This is what i feel about manjari and I am very much clear about it. Manjari se muje tab se nafrat ho gayi thi jab uski wajah se bichara neil apne he father ke house mai anath bann kar barso tak raha. Damn cunning move by manjari. No reason can justify Neil’s miserable life because of manjari’s hide and seek game of years.

Regarding Akshara ,Akshara muje day 1 se baate chipanewali, baat baat par juth bolnewali, superficial personality lagti hai who was not true to her own feelings since the beginning of season 3 . Jab Akshara ki shaddi nahi hui thi tab bhi woh jutha jutha hasnewali, jutha bolne wali , aaru ke liye sach-juth sahi galat bhulnewali ladki thi . Jaise abhimyapni maa ki wajah se sahi-galat sab bhul jata hai waise he Akshara aaru ke sahi-galat sab bhul jati thi and always superficial reh kar acts karti thi.

Shaddi ke baad jis tarah se woh bina bataye bina samjaye bina kisi ko confidence mai liye Khera ki baato mai aa kar emotionally manipulate Ho kar 1 saal ke liye apni shaddi ko chod kar gayab ho gayi thi woh mere liye uska bahot he zyada ghatiya and senseless act tha. So I dislike Akshara for most of her actions . Humare yaha agar pati yah patni kaise koi ek 3-4 hours tak call bhi na uthaye toh dusre ki tension ke mare jaan nikal jaye Yaha toh biwi bina kisi ko confidence mai liye suddenly gayab ho gayi kurbani dene ke liye. Abhinav se shaddi he uska ek action hai jo muje sensible and sahi lagta hai . Abhinav genuinely bahot sensible and well balance insaan hai. Abhinav deserves all the happiness ❤️

Regarding Abhimanyu, muje Abhimanyu ke anger issue se hamesha se problem tha and hai . Abhimanyu ne insensitive ho jaise divorce diya that was wrong for me. His divorce timing was absolutely wrong. Par muje ek baat Abhimanyu ki acchi lagti hai ki he true to his every emotion. He is not superficial. Grey/kala/mamma’s boy jaisa bhi hai apne sab emotions truthfully dikhata hai. This is what i feel for Abhimanyu and I am very much clear about my thoughts.

Regarding abhir , I truly believe jitna abhir par Akshara ka haqq hai utna he Abhimanyu ka bhi haqq hai. I believe Akshara abhimanyu ka ugly divorce is completely separate entity which belongs to ex-couple only and I don’t believe it can be ground to decide abhir’s relation with any of his parents. I want joint custody for abhir so each parent can lead their life with their respective partner and also can be stay as parent to their child.

At last, I would say neil ki death ki punishment 6 saal Akshara and Abhimanyu dono ko mili hai in their own ways and manjari ne neil ki maut ki vasooli sirf bade bete ki then wife se nahi ki hai , apne bade bete se bhi woh puri vasooli kar rahi hai apne chote bete ki death ki itne saal se that’s why chote bete ke biwi bacche ko forcefully bade bete ke Gale bandhna chahti hai kyunki woh neil ka baccha apne ghar mai he rakhna chahti hai.

Abhimanyu ko Akshara ko dhudhne jaana chahi tha during those 9 months, sunne mai khayal acha hai lekin vastavik jivan mai ugly divorce ke baad bahot kum logo mai yeh interest bachta hai ki apna divorcee partner kya kar raha hai, kyon kar raha hai , kiske sath hai yeh sab mai interest le.

Ofcourse yeh Meri soch hai and mera manna hai. I am not expecting from anyone ki Meri soch ko sahi mane.

Yrkkh S2 mein Aik Baap ka dukh tha aur Yrkkh S3 mein Aik Maa ka dukh 🤦I hope Harsh Birla comes back soon and teaches this Manjiri Aka kandeshwari a good lesson.

So when Manjari said pre leap "tu gayi bhi toh mere bete ko saath kyun leke gai", does she mean that she wold rather have had Akshara dead than Neil. According to her, she considered Akshara her own child. How was she okay with losing Akshara as well? Or did Akshara mean nothing to her?

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

You talk as if Neil has no agency whatsoever. You speak as if he is a child that Akshara dragged and pushed into a mess. He is a grown ass adult who went with her with clear informed consent.

And it is not even like he took her to the goons and asked them to murder him or that she took him to a place and murdered him.

What do you mean she has no guilt. She loved Neil so much. Probably more than Aarohi loved her husband, Akshara loved Neil as her younger brother. She had a kid, a complicated pregnancy, she was trying to build a family. Why didn't she try to come back to Udaipur? It is partly because of guilt and partly of self respect and not wanting to be next to Birla toxic family.

And come on please, Yes, Manjari raised Neil but she always preferred and prioritised Abhimanyu. She has always shown the difference between khoon and paraaya. I do think her reaction on the day of Neil's death was OTT, considering he wasn't even that important to her. She gaslighted him and let him be treated like shit through out his life that he even questioned his existence so many times. If you look at it, Neil had so much trauma than Abhimanyu, but the show was obssessd with ego ka murti doc man.

So, yeah. I think Manjari was just punishing Akshu because she thought because of Akshu, she lost her son's babies, her grand children. Because if she hadn't Manjari wouldn't have thrown her out. And if Abhimanyu had done it, Manjari would have made him get her back.

So, no, I don't think Manjari's pain is about Neil's death. It is clearly about the loss of her son's children and his pain.

And so, Akshara's pain indeed is bigger than Manjari's for sure.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Why do I find it hard to relate to Akshara's pain? I watched the episode but it doesn't make me feel like clapping for her because of the irony in her statements

Didn't Manjri lose her son whom she had raised for 30+ years? The pain of a mother doesn't apply to her because she is not a main character?

How was she going to look for Akshara?

The other day when Abhir got electrocuted Akshara physically assaulted Abhimanyu, the pain and fear of a mother taking over, but all that is reserved for 1 or 2 characters

Abhimanyu has to forget that he lost his brother, Manjari has to forget that she lost her son

It doesn't make any sense to me there's absolutely no acknowledgement of the other side, it is not as black and white as they are presenting it to us

https://twitter.com/stella_9719/status/1654667948559302660?s=20

For once put yourselves in Abhira's shoes

Instead of the characters replace them with your near and dear.

Then think.

For me both the leads are wrong and have been wronged

As a viewer would you jump into a brawl or challenge seasoned criminals.

Or for whatever reason will you file for divorce the day your wife suffers from a miscarriage.

Will our parents allow us to live with an absolute stranger during high risk pregnancy.

Why would a stranger sacrifice his or her life unless there is a give and take deal.

Think and then remove your hatred on fictional characters or the actors playing the roles.