Pain of a mother - Page 4

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Exactly, but then why is she questioning Nav when she did the same herself? She saw Neil getting humiliated by her own father as well deprived of his love yet decided to stay quiet but now questioning Nav for the same thing? Abhir is being raised way better than how Neil was raised.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I have not watched all safed raath episodes but i analyze characters by keeping myself in their place. And i have not watched each and every epi so this is majorly based on what i have seen. It may not include some sequence where character behaved differently than what i have seen her. I have even skipped many post marriage manipulation sequence so just a note that i may not know everything.

Manju was raising her step child even after knowing he is her step child which is a bing thing. Abhi was the shield of both neil and manju.

The only problem manju had was she hid this fact but there was not enough justification why she had to do that. It might be a just random plot.

But we can not deny her contributions on upbringing neil as raising a child single handedly is very big thing. When abhinav is getting the tag of palne wala is greated than janam dene wala manju also deserves it.

Nav also hided the fact that he is not abhir's real father with their own justification and Manju also did that with her justification.

On that white day, Neil gave his life to save akshu as akshu was insisting to save those kids on her own. Neil always said he is lakshman for akshu. He used ti stood like rock infront of his ram and sita and protected them.

He did the same on white day. His love and care for akshu and abhi is more than his own life.

The only thing i expected from akshu that day was to say just below lines

"Neil agar tumhe kuch hojayega toh main kya jawab doongi arohi ko. Math jao hum kuch aur sochthe hai"

That's all i wanted from her mouth. If she would have said that it would ahve looked atleast she tried. But she wanted to save those childrens and did not even see that neil is not enough to face 4 strong men standing infront of her.

Neil's only goal was prevent akshu and her kids from jumping into this mess. He also said some dialogues ke main apne bacche ko kya bolunga and all i will not deny that but that came after akshu tried risking herself.

If tomorrow roohi takes abhir and sees a puppy which is stuck in water and rooohi jumps to Save puppy that even after abhir stopping her and abhir being a big brother stops her and goes instead and dies drowning. Will akshu ever be able to forgive roohi if gets to know abhir tried stopping stopping roohi.

I am not sure if birla's know what happend on white day. If they are blaming neil for just taking him to the venue or if they are blaming her for not stopping neil.

I will not blame akshu but i want her to realize her decision to became mahan on that day costed a life. Arohi lost her husband and roohi lost her father. And she should not repeat such mistakes as in future she can risk abhir's life too.

So you are ignoring the fact that Neil and Akshu were adults with brains and can understand things and equating it with 6 yrs old kids who are minor.

Okay

Originally posted by: Palak2812

So you are ignoring the fact that Neil and Akshu were adults with brains and can understand things and equating it with 6 yrs old kids who are minor.

Okay

Akshu asked neil to drive to that venue she initiated to stop gunde for risking her and her kids life. Neil being man of the family decided to take in charge.

Will you blame akshu for killing her child as she was the adult one? Her kids were still in her womb and they did not decided to risk their life.

Akshara did hold Abhimanyu’s collar that day, but she did have a realisation too later that it might not be his fault, she tells Abhinav something later around the lines that it may not be his fault but her fear is something or the other is going wrong since they went to Udaipur, so yeah she realised. Did Manjari ever realise? She kept the grudge fir 6 years.

Neil’s death was nobody’s fault. If Ak made a bad decision, Neil’s decision was equally responsible to his demise. As Ak said if she died in Neil’s place would the family disown Neil too? Both took the decision of going there together after all.

Chalo mana Manjari/Abhimanyu did what she did in pain but aren’t they selfish then to expect Ak to understand their pain while not ready to accept Ak’s pain?

If you say Ak was happy with Abhinav and Abhir and did not get punishment, you should realise the character sketch of Ak pre-leap. She was shown as someone who was extremely family oriented, in the white day she lost her whole family. Not to mention she did not get to know about Abhir immediately, and after knowing about him surviving in her womb she again was rejected by Abhimanyu. Isn’t all this punishment? She did find Abhinav, but could never move on because of her trauma from her last relationship, isn’t that pain? Not to mention Abhinav was new to her and she found him at a time when her trust was completely shattered, so she had to go through trauma of white day, added with postpartum trauma, and in that trying to trust completely unknown people in an unknown place.

And if you still feel Ak had Abhinav/Abhir, so she did not have pain; then didn’t Abhimanyu and Manjari have a whole a** family around them too. If they lost Neil so did Ak. If they lost the babies, even Ak lost one of the twins.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Akshara's dialogue - If you had cared to come and look for your daughter, you would have found your daughter with your grandchild

I am sensing a disconnect between my post and replies to it, everyone is talking about Akshara on white day but I am talking about her dialogues in tonight's episode

Why would Manjari go and look for her when both were going through pain of losing their loved ones?

The pain of a mother applies to both therefore this particular scene didn't make any sense to me

Because they threw her out. Because she after getting tired of getting accused decided to wait for their anger to reduce and reach out to her.

How come even after showing in what conditions and stressful Akshara was people still want don't want to understand her trauma. Maybe manjari and Abhimanyu and Aruhi are more like real people than coz clearly max people are blaming Akshara.

The only thing I would have done if god forbid in place of Akshara was to come back with BP for practical reasons but never contacted the birlas for sure. Would have taken the money from BP and created more comfortable life and me thinking that doesn't change the fact that I don't understand why Akshara didn't do it.

But also, i will never understand why Abhimanyu did what he did. This is not how you treat people you love.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Akshara's dialogue - If you had cared to come and look for your daughter, you would have found your daughter with your grandchild

I am sensing a disconnect between my post and replies to it, everyone is talking about Akshara on white day but I am talking about her dialogues in tonight's episode

Why would Manjari go and look for her when both were going through pain of losing their loved ones?

The pain of a mother applies to both therefore this particular scene didn't make any sense to me

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Neil s death is NOT Akshara s fault. Period!!

A grown-ass man can make his decision. He chooses to go with her. His death is on those who murdered him. Not Akshara

Akshara should not have gone to help while pregnant. Yes. But she has already suffered for action. She lost her child. She lost everything. Enough now. Stop punishing her more

Nowhere did AKshara or anyone else say that Manjari or Lotamnayu should have forgotten the loss of a brother or son. No. They were mourning. Got. But they could have tried to bring Akshara back after a few months

Remember Akshara was waiting for Abhimanyu for 9 months

Marriage with Abhinav happened after Abhir was born

Both Manjari the character and you the viewer would understand Akshara s pov. If you actually try to see things from her perspective

If it gets acknowledged that Akshara has suffered a lot for the one mistake.

It's so true that there is no acknowledgment of the other side. Absolutely no acknowledgment on Lotamanyu or Manjari s part

Did Akshara ever mention or repent that Neil's death was due to her foolishness or wrong decision

When Akshara was adamant to save the girls....Neil supported her as a good human being....he can't let his bhabhi go alone

Akshara could have gone to the police station ...first then to the concert...along withthe police

She didnot think about her unborn children when she was advised.....now she is gaining sympathy

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Neil s death is NOT Akshara s fault. Period!!

A grown-ass man can make his decision. He chooses to go with her. His death is on those who murdered him. Not Akshara

Akshara should not have gone to help while pregnant. Yes. But she has already suffered for action. She lost her child. She lost everything. Enough now. Stop punishing her more

Nowhere did AKshara or anyone else say that Manjari or Lotamnayu should have forgotten the loss of a brother or son. No. They were mourning. Got. But they could have tried to bring Akshara back after a few months

Remember Akshara was waiting for Abhimanyu for 9 months

Marriage with Abhinav happened after Abhir was born

Both Manjari the character and you the viewer would understand Akshara s pov. If you actually try to see things from her perspective

If it gets acknowledged that Akshara has suffered a lot for the one mistake.

It's so true that there is no acknowledgment of the other side. Absolutely no acknowledgment on Lotamanyu or Manjari s part

@bold : Lekin uss time Akshara ne jutha call kiya tha ki usne shaddi kar ki hai when she and aarohi was around 4 months pregnant. So there is nothing like Akshara was waiting for Abhimanyu for 9 months.

4 months ki pregnancy ke time uske dadaji ko jutha call usne he kiya tha fir ab kaise keh sakte hai ki she was waiting for 9 months.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Akshara was waiting for Abhimanyu for 9 months. Marriage with Abhinav happened after Abhir was born

@bold : Lekin uss time Akshara ne jutha call kiya tha ki usne shaddi kar ki hai when she and aarohi was around 4 months pregnant. So there is nothing like Akshara was waiting for Abhimanyu for 9 months.

4 months ki pregnancy ke time uske dadaji ko jutha call usne he kiya tha fir ab kaise keh sakte hai ki she was waiting for 9 months.

The point is Akshara is not responsible for Neil s death. A grown ass s decision is his own

Secondly, Akshara has suffered enough both physically and mentally for her foolishness on the white day

Abhimanyu apni khudki galti ki wajah see apne bete ki zinadgi main nahi haa. Usko ya uski maa ko koi right nahi hai Akshara pe chilane ka

Call to Akshara ne Abhimanyu o bhi kiya that. In 6 saalon main kabhi nahi laga ki ek baar call karke pucho ki kya baat this

ABhinav see nahi. Akshara se baat karun

Ek baar phone Abhinav ne utha liya. Toh dobara kar leta. Agar USS waqt mourn kar raha tha toh ek mahine baad kar leta

Paar apni family ke saath party karne se fursut mile tab na

Akshara didn't kill Neil but her stupidity costed Neil's his life.

Her emotional manipulation too led him to go out agree with u TM

Don't connect with this woman at all