Would you marry...

A simple question to ponder upon. Would you willingly marry or be agreeable with any cousin or a member of your family marrying someone like Anupamaa or anyone from family like shameless Shahs?

If anyone near me (especially women) wants to get hitched to a delusional harmful person like the spicebox or any sadakchaap phemli member, then I would actively work to sabotage the alliance, so as to ultimately protect them from getting hurt in the future and prevent their life being ruined. Yes, eventually it's their decision and others can't impose but I'd want to do everything possible to save them and would not mind being at the receiving end of their anger because of them.

When KinDosh were getting hitched, masala dani was hailed for standing up for love whilst Rakhi was vilified and look what it has lead to. My intent here is not at all to discourage or question love and free will but to point out that many more factors need to be carefully considered before getting married especially in a society where it's common to treat marriage as a union between families more than the individuals.

Associating with a filthy characterless clan like Tamashahs is strictly avoidable. Anuj married Anupamaa for the person he thought she is individually. Keeping aside who was right and wrong in the matter of Choti because the makers don't know themselves, what is even left of his life due to the destructive actions of the unpaid maid and her self appointed maayka.

No, never. If I were Rakhi, I would have attempted suicide to emotionally manipulate my daughter to leave the loser family. And, I would not have felt an ounce of guilt.

I would never want to even be associated with a person like AnupaMaa or the Shameless Shahs let alone marry someone like them.

Sadly, people like the Tamashahs do exist in real life and associating with them is like living in hell. In other words pathetic people like them should be avoided at all costs no matter who they are and what relation they have with guy.!

I would never want anyone to marry in a family like the Tamashahs where they’d receive taunts, insults and gaslighting on a daily basis, and where there are disgusting people like Jhuli and Trashraj who are vile and justify EMA!

A person like AnupaMaa would also disgusting since they would be a narcissist and would treat people who genuinely care about like trash and find glory in taunts, insults, curses and being an unpaid maid of a pathetic household. Not to mention they would treat their toxic in-laws like their family and worship disgusting people like Jhuli and Trashraj.

Nope. I would warn them again and again of the consequences. But if they still go ahead, I will make it very clear that I won't be a part of that occasion and I won't be available to watch any drama if issues surface.

What would I do if I were below people,

Rakhi: Mess up Paritosh's life brutally as well as blackmail him by first giving him financial stability and then force him with financial threat as well as a fear of long divorce law suit if he ever causes any mental abuse to Kinjal. Also keep that detective agency intact while constantly monitoring the Shahs.

Kinjal never has and never will acknowledge Rakhi, so she can be Batman in her life and keep things going while she is delusional and keeps giving credit to MAA.

One fine day when the iron is the hottest, blackmail Paritosh to divorce Kinjal. Leela will ensure that Paritosh is the one who is retained and Kinjal will have to choose between her self-respect and a family who doesn't need her.

Remember, kids are stupid. They will always look for a blue pill, you will need to give them the red pill by grinding it and mixing it in a delicious sandwich so that they don't even know they are taking it

Anuj: Play uno reverse on MAA and do what she does to him. Constantly place passive aggressive comments that "If you love me do this...", "If you love me do that...", "Shahs have each other but I have only you...", "I can't stand the sight of Vanraj, if you really love me you will not go to a place where he stays..."

Most importantly, not be dissuaded by penic attacks, because MAA will get them for some reason anyways.

Either MAA will leave the Shahs in fear of Anuj leaving her, or she will seperate from Anuj for good. Either way it will be great for him.

Remember, MAA is manipulative. The only way out is to manipulate her like Maharaj did and their marriage worked for 26 years.

Try to prove yourself right with logic and your marriage will crumble in one year.

Maaya has given valuable lessons to everyone, she manipulated CA without villianizing MAA or Anuj, but victimizing herself instead, so there is no truth or reveal for CA to know.

She is self-aware that she came because Maaya was alone and will live with her without complaints thereby taking the red pill that's actually good for her.

Originally posted by: strancho

Nope. I would warn them again and again of the consequences. But if they still go ahead, I will make it very clear that I won't be a part of that occasion and I won't be available to watch any drama if issues surface.

Absolutely not. The lot of them are mannerless, graceless, shameless, manipulative, uncouth, arrogant, lack self respect, have no concept of propriety, are inherently selfish. Basic empathy is an alien concept for them. They have no idea how to conduct themselves in society

Baa is simply vile in the language she uses. Her ‘nicknames’ for people are not amusing. They are demeaning and speak of her base nature more than anything. Calling your DIL maide ki katori and your samdhan naagin is acceptable in which strata of society?!


Kyu kyu kyu you’re making us think of such possibilities 😥

Originally posted by: shriz

anyway you won't get anything to eat in that function..mat hi jaana🤣

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Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

What would I do if I were below people,

Rakhi: Mess up Paritosh's life brutally as well as blackmail him by first giving him financial stability and then force him with financial threat as well as a fear of long divorce law suit if he ever causes any mental abuse to Kinjal. Also keep that detective agency intact while constantly monitoring the Shahs.

Kinjal never has and never will acknowledge Rakhi, so she can be Batman in her life and keep things going while she is delusional and keeps giving credit to MAA.

One fine day when the iron is the hottest, blackmail Paritosh to divorce Kinjal. Leela will ensure that Paritosh is the one who is retained and Kinjal will have to choose between her self-respect and a family who doesn't need her.

Remember, kids are stupid. They will always look for a blue pill, you will need to give them the red pill by grinding it and mixing it in a delicious sandwich so that they don't even know they are taking it

Anuj: Play uno reverse on MAA and do what she does to him. Constantly place passive aggressive comments that "If you love me do this...", "If you love me do that...", "Shahs have each other but I have only you...", "I can't stand the sight of Vanraj, if you really love me you will not go to a place where he stays..."

Most importantly, not be dissuaded by penic attacks, because MAA will get them for some reason anyways.

Either MAA will leave the Shahs in fear of Anuj leaving her, or she will seperate from Anuj for good. Either way it will be great for him.

Remember, MAA is manipulative. The only way out is to manipulate her like Maharaj did and their marriage worked for 26 years.

Try to prove yourself right with logic and your marriage will crumble in one year.

Maaya has given valuable lessons to everyone, she manipulated CA without villianizing MAA or Anuj, but victimizing herself instead, so there is no truth or reveal for CA to know.

She is self-aware that she came because Maaya was alone and will live with her without complaints thereby taking the red pill that's actually good for her.

Very impressive 🫡

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

A simple question to ponder upon. Would you willingly marry or be agreeable with any cousin or a member of your family marrying someone like Anupamaa or anyone from family like shameless Shahs?

If anyone near me (especially women) wants to get hitched to a delusional harmful person like the spicebox or any sadakchaap phemli member, then I would actively work to sabotage the alliance, so as to ultimately protect them from getting hurt in the future and prevent their life being ruined. Yes, eventually it's their decision and others can't impose but I'd want to do everything possible to save them and would not mind being at the receiving end of their anger because of them.

When KinDosh were getting hitched, masala dani was hailed for standing up for love whilst Rakhi was vilified and look what it has lead to. My intent here is not at all to discourage or question love and free will but to point out that many more factors need to be carefully considered before getting married especially in a society where it's common to treat marriage as a union between families more than the individuals.

Associating with a filthy characterless clan like Tamashahs is strictly avoidable. Anuj married Anupamaa for the person he thought she is individually. Keeping aside who was right and wrong in the matter of Choti because the makers don't know themselves, what is even left of his life due to the destructive actions of the unpaid maid and her self appointed maayka.

As stated in bold, be it a typical arranged marriage or not, one may not know what they are signing up for until after tying the knot. If we are able to identify it before the marriage happens, I don’t think anyone with a sane mind would willingly agree to get into a relationship like that.