Manipulation, Deceit and Abuse - Page 4

Originally posted by: shriz

For those who were comparing anuj with vanraaj, imagine if anupama locked vanraaj in the room😆vanraaj chutney bana deta is ki

Exactly! She would be in the corner having panic attacks while Vinirij would still be going at it.

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

@bold: for a long time, I thought the same when she used to make mistakes and keep running for their love. I felt sorry for her too... But just a question what sort of conditioning she had that she can't comfort and clear the misunderstanding of a 6 year old? See, ad a mother, when your daughter feels insecure, the reason for your problems, the first instinct would be to comfort and protect her... even if you are fighting with your husband because of something she did... There are times when children do mischief and it may cause arguments between parents... but no one blames the child for it... if the child feels that he/she is the reason, both the parents quickly reassure the child... No sane parent would put the blame on the child or allow a child to live with the insecurity that they are to be blamed for someone's unhappiness... This same Anupamaa used to protect Pakhi so much that she didn't even reveal her father's affair to her... This is definitely not the result of any conditioning... She is just too selfish or doesn't really care... That's about it...

#rantover

Sorry, I was a bit triggered... Hence venting out

You have answered your own question. She can't love anyone other than the Shahs. Period. That kid cried in the midst of the night but she did not come. Pari who had an army around her, she stayed with her. I tried to understand her. I really did. I tried not to hate her but her hypocrisies do not let me. She shielded her own kids but could not do it for CA. If anyone says a thing against her baa/baapuji, she transforms from a meek cat to a tiger. Why can't she do that for her current husband and his daughter? Pathetic woman. They made me feel for Vanraj. I guess he knew her reality, and that's why he took measures to tame her from the beginning itself. I know I am insensitive but that's what I truly feel now.

Correction: She does not even love the shahs. She just loves herself. Baa and her kids were against the marriage but she did marry. They were against her divorcing Vanraj, but she did. She will abide by or deny it as per her own convenience and rules. She just wants to stay relevant in everyone's life.

Originally posted by: arya212002

Tu bhi na Hina , kyu ration paani leke chadh gayi hai Anupama pe 🤔.. arre woh abuse nahi karegi toh seduce kaise karegi? Seduce nahi karegi toh Anuj ko transparent dhoti mein kaise dekhenge hum?

Saare plan ka satyanash kar tu 😒😭😭 .. am so angry on u 😡😡 😡

Originally posted by: Toto123

Bhakts will not see this as anything wrong! Biased views & hypocrisy is never ending.

Problem is that not a lot of audience is online or on SM . A very large group of audience are people who watch such shows and get influenced! TV is a wide spread medium.. Showing messed up thinking or flawed charachter is not incorrect, but presenting them as leads & conveying their actions as ultimate path of righteousness is giving out wrong messages.

Originally posted by: hinz

oh the delusional bhakts, feel sorry for them!

The level of obeisance and glorification of this character on sm is a bit alarming though not entirely unexpected. Tomorrow if she ends up committing a crime, it'll still be justified anyhow (leaving aside today's ghastly scene) Stans are truly delusional.

On a side note, I feel Dawn Valley Kolej should share the blame for churning out Andhbhakts of AnupaMaid at a breakneck speed. Bandh karana padega 🤔

Originally posted by: hinz

Abuse- mostly attributed to the male gender(I’m just going by broad consensus) but Anupamaa had to try her hand at this too kyuki usko sab sab sab chahiye…I want to know how she can get away with locking and abusing her husband. Will her actions be glorified like always and the blame will be pinned on the ‘man’ who raised his voice and all she has to do is shed buckets of tears to make it appear like she is being abused when its the other way around…Vanraj’s persona has rubbed off on her and its not Anuj but Anupamaa who has turned into another Vanraj.

All this while we have been calling Maaya manipulative but in actual fact its Anupamaa who has been manipulating that tender aged child and her husband who cant tell right from wrong. She has weaved a clever story and as usual wants to have her cake and eat it too.

Coming to obsession, again its Anupamaa who is actually obsessed with self proclaimed righteousness. She takes liberty in twisting any situation to her gain and presents it as the only solution to the problem.

In the end like always Anupamaa will be glorified, venerated and put on a pedestal when in reality she can give all the current vamps on ITV a run for their money!

re jee jee…

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

@bold: for a long time, I thought the same when she used to make mistakes and keep running for their love. I felt sorry for her too... But just a question what sort of conditioning she had that she can't comfort and clear the misunderstanding of a 6 year old? See, ad a mother, when your daughter feels insecure, the reason for your problems, the first instinct would be to comfort and protect her... even if you are fighting with your husband because of something she did... There are times when children do mischief and it may cause arguments between parents... but no one blames the child for it... if the child feels that he/she is the reason, both the parents quickly reassure the child... No sane parent would put the blame on the child or allow a child to live with the insecurity that they are to be blamed for someone's unhappiness... This same Anupamaa used to protect Pakhi so much that she didn't even reveal her father's affair to her... This is definitely not the result of any conditioning... She is just too selfish or doesn't really care... That's about it...

#rantover

Sorry, I was a bit triggered... Hence venting out

You have to remember this isn’t her DNA. If this was her child, of course she would would have done everything to clear it up. She would not have let Pakhi leave that room before she understood she isn’t the problem. She would have still let her go but not before making sure she wasn’t the reason why her parents were fighting.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

#PalluLivesMatter

Why is she getting high after smelling her own snot 😲

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Show ki khaas baat yahi toh hai. That the lead (who's said to be positive) can do everything wrong and yet be worshipped because it is all forgotten with one swish of the snotty pallu

OMG yesterday I amost threw up...when she wiped her nose on her pallu and then 2 minutes after she wiped Anuj's whole face with the same pallu.....😳

I mean even while shooting how does Gaurav let her touch his face with that pallu when half the times it is either on her mouth or her nose...ewwwww