so true and painful😭 we really need to stop teaching our children that we need to respect women as she is the Izzat of family, what they need to learn is respect a person because everyone in the world deserves respect until and unless their actions says otherwise. The concept of a girl being the izzat of many families is the root cause of every problem a girl faces nowadays.Danger is everywhere. There is no guarantee that a girl who listened to her parents to the T will end up having the perfect life. What if her parents make a wrong decision and gets her married to a bad guy who don't respect her and beats her up? What should a girl learn from a story like that? Then we all will say she should have been independent and never listened to her parents blindly.
The chances of a girl getting betrayed by her friends to that level is same as her not getting a good husband even if he is chosen by her parents.
To show that girls are incapable of making their own decisions or make good friends is far fetched. Chances of her meeting good people in a university is much higher than her meeting people as crazy as sehba. University and colleges are filled with people of same age group and majority has the same mentality and majority are not there to manipulate and take advantage of others. Jealous and back bitching is common everywhere but people rarely wastes their time to destroy another person completely out of jealously.
A girl getting her reputation tainted is a big deal in indian subcontinent. But to force her to get married as a solution is wrong. Marriage is not a punishment or an escape from badnami. It's like her family just threw her out and made her someone else's responsibility.
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