Originally posted by: Krinya
I respectfully disagree to the above points.
How did ayesha lose self respect in front of basit ? Respect is anyways earned , not through lies and deciet , not by keeping a good facade of something so imperfect. She acted foolishly . When basit will know the truth , and it's not like he will never know about Zoya, it will be the same situation what it is now. N I am sure he will not care. Ayesha assumed a lot on his behalf which was wrong .if her and her family had zero respect in his eyes to begin with why would he propose marriage to ayesha ?
Basit as a person has an eye for people..he chose ayesha of all the girls , he trusted ayesha when she told him about jawad gossiping abt them, he trusted ayesha when she asked for advance within 1 week of job, he trusted bano during presentation times , he made peace with his mom on ayeshas insistence , he opened up to her exposing his vulnerabilities , he came to their house during Zoya Aamir rishta knowing it's his responsibility towards ayeshas family ..all this while it was only basit who tried to take Steps towards building a relationship .while ayesha is still waiting for his approval to serve him breakfast coffee , take his bag , that's all she think she owes to him as a wife.
Coming to fahad , did ayesha prevent prevent scandal? They wanted to locate Zoya and make sure she is not in trouble. Zoya herself sent her shadi video when the time was right. They didn't contact the police for which they needed a man . They didn't go looking for Zoya in the middle of the night for which they needed a man...if fahad didn't locate Zoya she would have anyways come to their house as a married woman the next day.
This whole mu was written very badly to create a doubt in basits mind . All the lies which were told were avoidable. Yes Zoya did something very shameful but they also have to own it up, it's not like it will never be known to outsiders .
Thank you dear for beautiful discussion ❤️
For all what you said
You're talking about events as a viewer (when as a viewer I'm also seeing the things like you but the case isn't the same for ayesha character)
Ayesha herself said that to basit remember the scene when he tried to raise his hand on her
She said in the same scene you don't want to be with me with your friend and the way he treated her family and when it's about work you remembered I'm your wife and respect and afterwards when he came to her house he didn't properly apologized to her and when she left room he didn't say he wanted her back and when his mother said about missing her in the house he didn't agree
I understand basit behaviour as a viewer also but ayesha wouldn't be the same
All the previous situation regarding jawad - money it was about manager and his PA not husband and wife relationship so it's totally different situation to me
He proposed her beucase he was forced to be married (yeah may be he chose ayesha subconsciously but still at the beginning he has no respect for her family and I understand basit and the way he communicated with greedy qudsiya but ayesha NOT) and it was evident in many scenes.
And when he came to Zoya and amir rishta he didn't think it's his responsibility. he came after what he did to ayesha (hand raising) I think if didn't happen, he wouldn't have come to their house.
About fahad:
From where would ayesha know that Zoya will send her marriage video the next day?!
At least fahad could reach to Zoya and knew she is fine.
they were actually afraid from police option becuase it will create the scandal and questioning form everyone surrounding them.
At the time of escape they weren't sure about Zoya marriage to amir - and maybe ayesha thought that the whole problem could be solved without basit knowledge like
They didn't get married and Zoya returned back
Or they haven't planned to be married and zoya just tried to frighten them to not marry to the old man
Many things might come to her mind.
That's it from me I know I'm different in my thoughts but completely I find these conflicts normal and should happen this way and it doesn't destroy the track of the show to me at least
Thanks again for the worthy discussion ♥️♥️♥️