Originally posted by: TheCoolDocSid
nahi reâŠ. Not about Pihu being bad child⊠more about priya vs ramâs upbringing⊠but khair chodo⊠it is supposed to be ram and priyaâs upbringing⊠how I wish , how I wish they could have done something in this line of storyâŠ.
Dono hi fools hai jo dekhi baat ko bhool jaate hai aur bhool ne wale cheezon ko family family keh ke sar pe rakte haiâŠđ
1. Placebo thing irks me to extreme lengths đ Whoever thought pill popping is genetic areâŠ, may be popping pop?đ€Ł
2. but trying to paint a better picture of reality to her daughter is a parenting technique which many parents use , to give them sense of personal security and to find an anchor in themselves to be happy.
This is where MM failed at with priya in making her self aware and free of guilt of wrongdoing of a man who just happened to be her father and to not associate him with her, she went on with mard dard infront of her growing up daughter and she turned khadoos wearing that trauma and projecting down her self worth and abandoning self agency through itđ€Ș.
And so did Ramâs dad ,instead of telling him to care for himself , he said family, family, family which was name sake kind to him and never belonged to him/ made him belong to them, And it gave ram low self worth and insecure attachment wala man child syndrome.đ€Ș
And Priya actively going against her momâs parenting and indulging her daughter into imaginary adventures when it is supposed to reality reminds me of this scene in âthe pursuit of happinessâ by all means, the kid needs to be protected of certain harsh realities evil or not, that the world presents.
I know I should not compare⊠but, I couldnât find a better example.
(This actually happened with Chris gardner, and his son believed he was living in an adventure through out the timeâŠ.. I am quoting his sonâŠ)
Christopher Gardner Jr. recalls "I couldn't tell you that we were homeless, I just knew that we were always having to go. So, if anything, I remember us just moving, always moving. On private adventure, just the two of us."
https://youtu.be/dLwjEtY4uas
But as she sees her grow, sees her understand things better, and starting to ask questionsâŠ. then she might open up completely about her familyâŠ
It is not like she hid her father completely⊠she did say about her Prince Charming and his characters to Pihu and that is something she is understanding as of now.
As the time goes by, she will may be ask and wants to know about her father, she has the time that she spent here with her, so that she can think and make her mind and process info.
P.S.: It is still wrong on Priyaâs side to separate father and daughter(though it wasnât her intent as she tried talking to him 4-5 times, and that she has been blackmailed and guilt hammered on , similar to ram), but she made her choice, given her circumstancesâŠ. may be for better at that point of timeđ€·ââïž.
And she is still stuck at âI will not break for my kidâ, but she didđ€Ș, when ram was in her proximity âșïžđ
only a matter of time, only a matter of time⊠đ€Ș