Marriage with benefits

We have heard friends with benefits relatives with benefits now in anupama we say marraige with benefits

Vanraj Shah - If anupama was as rich as kinjal or anuj vanraj Sahh and Baa would treat her like royal because they would get property.. Because her parents cannot give any property or huge sum of money they treated her badly for 27 years. Still treating her badly even after anuj is her husband. Ultimately what matters for respect how rich your parents are actually to get respect in outside society not your character. Anupama became beti and treated nicely only after they cometo know shes anuj classmate and that he loves her. Bapuji encouraged her to think of anuj so did vanraj only because deep down they know benefits of being associated with anuj kapadia. Hence they made slave and maid anupama beti so they can enjoy benefits from anupama from anuj property and business. If anuj was middle class or like kanta do you think bapuji would make anuj or anu son or daughter or vanraj be nice to her no ways (same toshu, pakhi, Baa). Even kavya changed after anu wedding because anuj is rich or she used to look down on anupama

Now Vanraj had no intention to marry Kavya he was just playing with her for 8 years and if kavya did not threaten suicide and police case vanraj would never marry her why? Because shes not rich enough by Shah standards like an anuj kapadia. Hence he and Baa and all mistreate her. Imagine Kavya is as rich as anuj they would treat her better may be. Vanraj was doing just time pass seeing an young emotionally vulnerable woman going through a bad marraige with Kavya actually just like Malvika. Vanraj sees vulnerable woman and targets them in office. Kavya may not be only one he tragetted before her what he did to other junior woman was never shown. But we can all guess what Vanraj did to younger woman in office before Kavya because old habits die hard.

Toshu Shah - This guy more clever than daddy Vanraj saw that knjal is rich Rakhi Dave daughter and trapped her with his love affair in college only. Just like adhik is doing pakhi. I do not see diff in what toshu did to kinjal and vanraj was doing to malvika than what adhik doing to pakhi now. Toshu saw that kinjal is very rich and trapped her in love affair and anupama actively encouraged her against rakhi dave and married them off. Same with vanraj playing games with Mukku and trying to trap her in love for her business. I think if pakhi marries Adhik its like karma hitting vanraj and anupama what they did to others daughters and sisters. Its Gods justice in a way that what you do unto others it happens to you. karma.

Samar and Nandini - Samar and Vanraj did to nandini what they did to anupama or doing to kavya now. They feel shes not rich enough and young enough so Samar roamed around with her for few years than left her saying shes not fit for his family. Vanraj literally threw her out of house although shes Kavya neice. In future if adhik uses pakhi after wedding and throws her out thats Gods justice too karma. We cannot blame adhik for that as its way of God teaching lesson to Shahs that what you do to other family daughters will happen to your daughters too.

Anupama who talks of women empowerement has double standard for other parents daughters and her own daughters as far as i can see. When it comes to adhik, he is bad for pakhi the looks anupama gives him in eyes suggest that. But her family men like vanraj can target malvika, kavya and push nandini out of house and anupama will not stand up for them go blind or stay silent. When samar and toshu can roam with girl friends and cross all limits like running away and marrying without girls parents permission and anupama supports that as they are others daughters

When same thing happens to Pakhi both anupama and vanraj start screaming. But its Gods justice actually. If you do bad to others daughters and sisters and still expect your daughter to be nice without karma coming back to you its day dreams. All three men of Shahs took advanatge of girls and have left them high and dry sorry to say. Luckily dolly never got the karam of vanraj and what bapuji baa did to anupama. But what Samar and Toshu did with Kinjal and nandini will come back through Pakhi.

Why anupama is allowing Sara to be alone full day with Sara and aasaying samar will drop you house at night. All Shahs want rich girls only for themselves as they want their property.

Its high time once Pakhi marries adhik and samar marries sara anuj should tell them to live his business and house and go work and live their life. They do not desreve his house or business. Only Malvika and little anu should inherit business and property not even anupama. Because shes undeserving as shes allowed abuse of daughters and sisters by Shah men in front of her be it malvika, nandini, kinjal, sara etc

Anupama is not a womaen empowerment role model because she encourages others daughters and sisters to be taken advantage of by her husband and two sons and baa bapuji to abuse them. I do not see any womaen empowerment qualities on her own by anupama others should push her give her crores of money and set up business for her no hard work all recieved on platter from anuj. Hows this different from rich business men wives or actors wife inherting crores although illiterate by neither studying nor doing any job. Shes a typical rich man wife who becomes rich because of husbands business and money no efforts of own. Pakhi is just following mom dad foot steps by running after adhik because hes anuj kapadia related. Kids are just following what parents have done.

Anuj kapadia property and business belongs to Malvika and only Malvika because its her parents her dad has worked hard and to little anu and not even to anupama because she will give it to her 3 kids and her ex hubby. Anupama or her parents have not worked to set up this business or property so ideally she should have refused and given to malvika and anuj back. Buts shes as greedy as other Shahs thats what a lay man will say or feel.

Anupama was never greedy for anuj wealth. In fact she said she don't want to lose her identity that is why anupama still go to dance acdamy abd teach students dance even anuj gave her whole property

And she even told pakhi to compleye her studies ahd stand on her feet not just depends on gift

If anuj would have not come to anupama life then anupama would have never use cunning trick to trap ruch geuy to become rich over night woh apne hard work se sucess paane ki koshish kartin

Not like vanraj who was jealous of anupama seeing anupama st uccess just put her down he wants become rich over night by trapping malvika

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama was never greedy for anuj wealth. In fact she said she don't want to lose her identity that is why anupama still go to dance acdamy abd teach students dance even anuj gave her whole property

And she even told pakhi to compleye her studies ahd stand on her feet not just depends on gift

If anuj would have not come to anupama life then anupama would have never use cunning trick to trap ruch geuy to become rich over night woh apne hard work se sucess paane ki koshish kartin

Not like vanraj who was jealous of anupama seeing anupama st uccess just put her down he wants become rich over night by trapping malvika

She may not be after anuj wealth herself that does not mean shes not ok with her shahs getting anuj wealth other ways like ema of vanraj with malvika etc You see one day she will make anuj write his and malvika arents property to her 3 kids and little anu.

Butshe was quiet when vanraj was trapping Malvika never told anuj or took any stepto save Malvika

The way shes scared for pakhi she was not bothered about Malvika because it involved a Shah her ex hubby

Also she never advised anuj to stay with Malvika and he signed off her wealth to malvika left her alone with that dangerous Vanraj Shah and waked off with lover anupama which no brother or father do

I finstead of malvika pakhi was there anupama would tell anuj do not leave her stay with her lets break up my pakhi being taken advantage by vanraj shah like now how shes worried of pakhi adhik affair. Imagine if vanraj done something to malvika made her third wife to take over kapadia empuire or blackmailed her etcor like kavya made affair for years than was it ok for anuj anupama?

Imagine how much bashaan and halla she would do if that was pakhi not Malvika

She keeps quiet when her sons or ex husband target other woman and run off with them or do ema. Toshu has marruied kinjal only for rakhi wealth its obvious love is never there in him, vanraj was forced to marry kavya or he would go to jail, samar misbehaved so badly with his step mother kavya neice only none shahmen are worth to marry for any woman

Is this women empowerment from anupama where only her daughters should be safe from world men but her 2 sons and ex hubby can go and enjoy with other woman as they wish?

Doesnot kinjal parents or kavya parents or sister or nandini mother and aunty kavya or malvika brother and GK have same love and cocern for their daughters? How easily anupam abrushes all off under carpet when its others daughters? Like anupama nad vanraj other girls fathers and mothers and sisters have right to be worried of their girl children when they are roaming with Shah men.

Because all most all Sahh men do not have good reputation or have no sanskaar be it vanraj, toshu or even samar. When samar can leave nandini after engagement he can leave sara too after marraige cannot trust any shah men. No one throws engagement rings on girls and tells them to get out. Engagement is like roka a girl marraige breaking is ver big thing in india after fixed and egagement but anupama was not bothered than to only doing lip service drama

Or is it that only anupama daughters are daughters rest are not for their parents and siblings?

It is double standard of anupama and shahs i am questioning when it comes to their daughters versus others daughters? Keep one rule for all daughters or one yardstick

If anupam athinks adhik is bad for pakhi kinjal parents have right to think toshu is bad for kinjal simple. Why anupama did her marraige without rakhi approval? She must have sent kinjal back to rakhi home. Samea way she must have said anuj to stay with malvika than walk off with her when she knows vanraj shahs character well. You tell me which decent family who knows shahs wants their daughters married to their shah men? None. Only Mukku, Kinjal, sara, kavya are getting influenced by those shah men all coming from usa here there. Others all know how they are do not get influenced or trapped easily by Shah men or family to marry them. Family reputation is very important to get girls to marry in a house in asia.

Anupama want pakhi to stay away from adhik not because adhik may trap her daughter. Anupama want pakhi to stay away from adhik because anupama feel that it is not right age of pakhi to fell in love and get married. This time anupama feel at this age pakhi should focus on career and stand on her feet

Anupama was never against adhik and pakhi love but vshe feel right now it is not right time for this she clearly said to both pehle apme padhai और focus pe karo

Agar adhik ke elawa और कोई भी guy hota ya phir vanraj ne malvilka ko trap bhi nahikiya hota to bhi anupama ka yahi thinking hoti ki pehle apne padhai compleye at least graduate to ho career pe focus karo phir baad mein shaad ke baare mein sochna

And also anupama never has problem adhik and pakhi meeting as just friend but she want whenever they meet they should inform their family

And pakhi is either 17and half or 18 old she is not 20 because after vanraj nd anu कम्पलिट their 25 years of marriage , pakhi birthday was shown

And after pakhi birthday they show vanraj birthday where pakhi run away from house in that vanraj wala birthday episode vanraj told anyupama tumne to pakhi ko 16 year sambhala

That means pakhi turn 16 two years back on her birthday now they are showing anuj ko anupama se pyaar hue 27year hue hai to now pakhi should be either 17and half year or 18 not 20 so pakhi age showing 20 is biggest blooper

To anupma pakhi ki age ko dekhte hue ki yeh right time nahi shaadi ke liye islye anupama pakhi ko rok rahi hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama want pakhi to stay away from adhik not because adhik may trap her daughter. Anupama want pakhi to stay away from adhik because anupama feel that it is not right age of pakhi to fell in love and get married. This time anupama feel at this age pakhi should focus on career and stand on her feet

Anupama was never against adhik and pakhi love but vshe feel right now it is not right time for this she clearly said to both pehle apme padhai और focus pe karo

Agar adhik ke elawa और कोई भी guy hota ya phir vanraj ne malvilka ko trap bhi nahikiya hota to bhi anupama ka yahi thinking hoti ki pehle apne padhai compleye at least graduate to ho career pe focus karo phir baad mein shaad ke baare mein sochna

And also anupama never has problem adhik and pakhi meeting as just friend but she want whenever they meet they should inform their family

And pakhi is either 17and half or 18 old she is not 20 because after vanraj nd anu कम्पलिट their 25 years of marriage , pakhi birthday was shown

And after pakhi birthday they show vanraj birthday where pakhi run away from house in that vanraj wala birthday episode vanraj told anyupama tumne to pakhi ko 16 year sambhala

That means pakhi turn 16 two years back on her birthday now they are showing anuj ko anupama se pyaar hue 27year hue hai to now pakhi should be either 17and half year or 18 not 20 so pakhi age showing 20 is biggest blooper

To anupma pakhi ki age ko dekhte hue ki yeh right time nahi shaadi ke liye islye anupama pakhi ko rok rahi hai

anupama herself said pakhi is 20 both in weekend war and someone else said in show too

shes not in 12th std as there is uniform to wear

shes dressing like college student in midi and going which only in college you can do i mean degree or BE or MBA or masters college

In 12th std no one allowed to wear short dress like pakhi doing or bunk as gate is closed like in school

11th and 12th is like school only

Also recently they said toshu is 28 years in one episode

In OTT show anupama was invited to go to USA at age 27 when vanraj makes her pregnant

So in serial they have moved story forward by few years without telling viewers

Bec when kinjal and toshu married they were doing MBA i mean 22 years old atleast

now Toshu is 28 years means its gone 6 years forward already

If Toshu is 28 and born to anupama 1 year after marriage(at 19 she married in first year college or degree with anuj) at 20 years than anupama is 48 years already so is anuj. Vanraj must be 51-52 years not less.

Kavya in OTT is 21 years old when pakhi was in anupama womb

So Kavya must be minimum 39 years old now (if pakhi is 18 shes 39 if pakhi is 20 as told in serial shes 41 years old)

Problem in serial is without saying they just forward years of serial like toshu was recently 22 years doing college after marraige to kinjal suddenly now they said hes 28 years so 6 year leap has happened already

Malvika is 2 years elder to toshu Baa had told first day she introduced so shes 30-31 years old now

That 20 is biggest blooper

U can watch episode number 130 where pakhi birthday was shown

And then episode number 197 where vanraj told anupama that tumne pakhi ko 16year sambhala

And pakhi turn 16 after vanraj and anupama complete their 25year of marriage

And now are they showing anuj ko anupama ko pyaar hue 27year ho gaye है

I told pakhi might be either 17and half or 18 she must be first year student of graduation. She must have recent join as first year student of graduation

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I told pakhi might be either 17and half or 18 she must be first year student of graduation. She must have recent join as first year student of graduation

at 16 years she finished 10th

at 17 years a human finished 11th std

at 18 years only you can do 12th std

Otherwise you have to take special permission to do exams

first year college you are 19 years old

2nd degree BCOm or BSC or BA or BE you are 20 and

3rd degree all become 21 years

So pakhi is 19 years or more

Who knows which year college she is 1st or 2nd year? Based on that shes 19 or 20 years but not 17 years

No one can do first year degree at 17 years

But in serial too and raivaar they said shes 20 years old why i d not know

they keep saying you are adult you are 20 in serial at varous times in ravivaar show too anupama said this my daughter pakhi 20 year old

who knows and who cares what is pakhi age? Like toshu became 22 to 28 pakhi became 20 years

No she was in 11th class at age of 16

she last year she went to 12th class when there was lock down

Originally posted by: surabhi01

That 20 is biggest blooper

U can watch episode number 130 where pakhi birthday was shown

And then episode number 197 where vanraj told anupama that tumne pakhi ko 16year sambhala

And pakhi turn 16 after vanraj and anupama complete their 25year of marriage

And now are they showing anuj ko anupama ko pyaar hue 27year ho gaye है

if anupama anuj pyar 27 years than 1st degree anupama anuj are 19 years

so 27+19= 46 year olds they are

If so toshu is 28 years

Did he born at 18 years to anupama

anupama said one year after wedding he born

if anupam amarried in first degree than she was 19 when toshu born 20 so hes 28 means anupama is 48 years old or 47 atleast if hes born same year of wedding