Is anupama doing emotional infidelity? - Page 3

Btw it is said that anuj love anupama for 26 year and anupama come to know about 25th year of marriage

So with in one year cvs are showing anupama getting marry for second is it not too early that after getting divorce with in one year they are showing marriage of anupama?

So is it possible to move on completely just with in one year of divorce

I know anupama has divorce liya but still she has spend time in that shah house for 25 year woh usi घर में 25year tuk ghumti rahi kaam karti rahi iske elaw woh aur कहीं nahi gayi

So how is it possible for anupama to move on complete just with in 1 year even though she is divorce

Jo 25year ki jo khuch hia jinke saath woh rahi woh aise bus divorce dene se thodai hi 1 year mein chale jaate hai

I think in reality agar yeh hota to minimum 8 10 year lag jaate to move on competelty

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Btw it is said that anuj love anupama for 26 year and anupama come to know about 25th year of marriage

So with in one year cvs are showing anupama getting marry for second is it not too early that after getting divorce with in one year they are showing marriage of anupama?

So is it possible to move on completely just with in one year of divorce

I know anupama has divorce liya but still she has spend time in that shah house for 25 year woh usi घर में 25year tuk ghumti rahi kaam karti rahi iske elaw woh aur कहीं nahi gayi

So how is it possible for anupama to move on complete just with in 1 year even though she is divorce

Jo 25year ki jo khuch hia jinke saath woh rahi woh aise bus divorce dene se thodai hi 1 year mein chale jaate hai

I think in reality agar yeh hota to minimum 8 10 year lag jaate to move on competelty

apni nature chahe jaisi bhi ho , divorce ho jane ke baad sirf baccho se matlab hona chahiye, baccho ke baap se nahi. Jab ap dusri shaddi karne ja rahe ho tab dusre pati ko pehle pati jaga rehta ho waha baarat le kar kisi bhi haal mai nahi aane dena chahiye. Agar apka buddha mooh bola baap apko aisa galat kaam karne ko bol raha ho toh apko ek lamba lecture de kar mooh bole pitaji ko samjana chahiye sahi aur galat ka fark and yeh bhi samjana chahiye ki yeh nainsafi hai dusre pati ke sath.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Btw it is said that anuj love anupama for 26 year and anupama come to know about 25th year of marriage

So with in one year cvs are showing anupama getting marry for second is it not too early that after getting divorce with in one year they are showing marriage of anupama?

So is it possible to move on completely just with in one year of divorce

I know anupama has divorce liya but still she has spend time in that shah house for 25 year woh usi घर में 25year tuk ghumti rahi kaam karti rahi iske elaw woh aur कहीं nahi gayi

So how is it possible for anupama to move on complete just with in 1 year even though she is divorce

Jo 25year ki jo khuch hia jinke saath woh rahi woh aise bus divorce dene se thodai hi 1 year mein chale jaate hai

I think in reality agar yeh hota to minimum 8 10 year lag jaate to move on competelty

If toshu is 27 years that means anupam acme to know about vanraj kavya 2 years back and moved out of house alomst a year back actually

First i do not believe it takes 8 to 10 years to move on from one relationship to another

I have heard ppl being in love 15 years than being forcefully married by parents to others and yet they move on

Many people have boy friend or girl friends in college but marry and move on after marriage to others

If that was not possible many people would have had worst lives especially in india and orthodox country\s where parents and family do not allow people to marry of their choice

You may love or like anyone but when married you slowly forget past boy friends or girl friends and accept the new person in life unlike what anupama doing here

Divorcees who married others no one behave like anupama going to ex house even though they have kids from them and those kids stay with exes. They just ensure that 5 or 6 days child is with one spouse and weekend with other or few days a month with father and few days with mother etc

If that was not happening 40% marraiges in india would be a big mess because 40% like or love someone else but are married somewhere else only to someone else than their love

But people reconcile and move on in life which anupama is refusing to do even 2 years after divorce(kavya said their marraige one year over so 1.5 years since betrayal of vanraj known to anu)

What i feel is anupama does not like or love anuj at all here by her behaviiour. She just has no option so marrying him as samar and bapuji telling her to marry. She prefer to stay alone or re marry vanraj may be. Thats why shes not ready to leave shah house or vanraj

Regarding kids dialogues that she can never leave shah house, its almost 6-7 months since anupama moved out and was not at vanraj house. Why she never thought of kids those 6 months? Who was taking care and feeding her kids or baa bapuji than?

Why sudden her love started now for her kids and baa bapuji now after staying 7 months away from shahs?

Why she never bothered about pakhi so many months away from mother or samar why she never asked them come and stay in my apartment with me etc 7 months back only.

I seriously cannot connect wth anupamas behaviour towards anuj feelings other than fact that she still loves vanraj and wants him back some day

Honestly toshu and samar are big 25 years plus not babies. They have their own life own wife or profession. I doubt they need anupama 24/7. May be pakhi is 16 years needs mom. But anupam anever moved her with her after divorce which should ideally have happened.

I wantednut I believe that one anyone live in same house for 25 year. That house ki memory uske घर के लोग आसानी से nahi bhulte kyonki 25year mein anupamaas wohi baa wohi vanraj ke beech rahi uski duniya bis baa bachon tuk hi simit rahi hai iske elwa anupama aur kisk se touch mein nahi rahi hai

Isliye abhi bhi anupama ke dimag mein baa yeh sub ghumte rehte hai kyonki anupama inke contact mein 24x7 hrs that too 25 year rahi hai

Mujhe nahi lagta keval divorce hi anupama shah anupama ke dimag se shah parvaar hat sakta

Anupama ko aur door rent lena chahiye mere khayal 28 30 km door rent pe rehma chahiye taaki anupama ka shah mein har din jaana rehna band ho

Waise mujhe yeh nahaai samajh aaraha hai ki poore Ahmadabad mein bus shah house ke area ke aaspas hi jagah bachi hai jahan pe anuj ka ghar anupama ka rent house and anuj ka office hona hai

25 , 30km pe anuj ka office nahi ho sakta tha

Why anuj office his should be with in 2 km from shah house?

And also yeh writer ne anuj ka office anuj ka ghar aur anupama ka rent house shah house ke raaste mein kyon banaya hai ? Matlab aisa system kyon banaya hai ki office jao ya ghar jaao to shah house ko cross kar ke hi jaana hai?

Btw maine apne comment ko. Gujrati mein translate kiya. Ab forum mein hum apne regional language mein transalate kar sakte है

Gujrati mein apna comment dekh kar maja aa raha hai though I don't know gujrati

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I wantednut I believe that one anyone live in same house for 25 year. That house ki memory uske घर के लोग आसानी से nahi bhulte kyonki 25year mein anupamaas wohi baa wohi vanraj ke beech rahi uski duniya bis baa bachon tuk hi simit rahi hai iske elwa anupama aur kisk se touch mein nahi rahi hai

Isliye abhi bhi anupama ke dimag mein baa yeh sub ghumte rehte hai kyonki anupama inke contact mein 24x7 hrs that too 25 year rahi hai

Mujhe nahi lagta keval divorce hi anupama shah anupama ke dimag se shah parvaar hat sakta

Anupama ko aur door rent lena chahiye mere khayal 28 30 km door rent pe rehma chahiye taaki anupama ka shah mein har din jaana rehna band ho

Waise mujhe yeh nahaai samajh aaraha hai ki poore Ahmadabad mein bus shah house ke area ke aaspas hi jagah bachi hai jahan pe anuj ka ghar anupama ka rent house and anuj ka office hona hai

25 , 30km pe anuj ka office nahi ho sakta tha

Why anuj office his should be with in 2 km from shah house?

Damn illogical point to even talk about! House is nothing if someone has ruin your life inside it . Anupama’s life was ruin in that house so it’s illogical ideology and anupama is doing wrong by saying yes for the wedding where her first husband lives.

As per me if anupama got lots of love in that house and respect for 25 years her attachment is understandable

She was even accused of spending night with anuj when it rained on trip

did she forget that?

an human can live withoit food for few days but not without respect

are we all not taught never to go or stay in place where we do not get respected

before anuj came in her life she was unemployed not having house or much money or educated so compromised and stayed there after divorce

whats reason now?

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Damn illogical point to even talk about! House is nothing if someone has ruin your life inside it . Anupama’s life was ruin in that house so it’s illogical ideology and anupama is doing wrong by saying yes for the wedding where her first husband lives.

Matlab izzat or self respect ko to goli maar do..agar kahin 25 saal bitaaye hain to bas wahin ke hokar reh jaao..

Are apne bedroom me jis moment usne apne pati ko kavya ke saath bed par dekha tha na usi moment wo 26 saal gaayab ho jaane chahye the waise to..par ye besharm aaj tak wahin padi hai..

Ab baat ye hai ke jise sharm or izzat ka pata hi nahi hai uske liye kya to 25 saal or kya 50..

Daily basis par gadhe ko laat maaro na to 1 din to wo bhi bhaag jayega..par ye gadho se bhi badtar hai..or un ladies ke naam par ek dhabba jo bechari divorce lekar aise toxic logo se distance maintain karti hai..

Jo ek lady bure se bura jhel sakti hai wo is ghar me jhela hai isne par iski attachment ke to kya hi kehne..

Logo ko pata nahi life me kya kya chodna pad jata hai..isse ye parivaar nahi choot raha..strange but true..🤢🤢

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I wantednut I believe that one anyone live in same house for 25 year. That house ki memory uske घर के लोग आसानी से nahi bhulte kyonki 25year mein anupamaas wohi baa wohi vanraj ke beech rahi uski duniya bis baa bachon tuk hi simit rahi hai iske elwa anupama aur kisk se touch mein nahi rahi hai

Isliye abhi bhi anupama ke dimag mein baa yeh sub ghumte rehte hai kyonki anupama inke contact mein 24x7 hrs that too 25 year rahi hai

Mujhe nahi lagta keval divorce hi anupama shah anupama ke dimag se shah parvaar hat sakta

Anupama ko aur door rent lena chahiye mere khayal 28 30 km door rent pe rehma chahiye taaki anupama ka shah mein har din jaana rehna band ho

Waise mujhe yeh nahaai samajh aaraha hai ki poore Ahmadabad mein bus shah house ke area ke aaspas hi jagah bachi hai jahan pe anuj ka ghar anupama ka rent house and anuj ka office hona hai

25 , 30km pe anuj ka office nahi ho sakta tha

Why anuj office his should be with in 2 km from shah house?

Even if their home/office is far away from SH, she is known to just swing by and visit the Shahs on her way to "jignes bhai's dukaan"😆

Not only that, she swings by and gives marriage advice to Kavya. Stick her nose in matters that should not concern her.

So,distance does not really matter to her. IMO

What illogical point to talk about when anyone live at same place for long 25 years 25 year is very long time to spend in one house and with same member and that person never step out of house so is it easy forget that house where unspend time for very long time and that too contiously seeing same faces every day for 25 years. Is it too easy to forget that jub koi 25 years se sirf ek hi chehre ek hi logon ke beech mein raha hai

Still I dont know what is illogical to talk about