Is anupama doing emotional infidelity? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ektag06

this and who stays for this long after leaving post a huge big drama in their ex’s house? The entire supposed courtship period has been shown as a joke! If this is their way to substantially reduce maan craze and fans then well done, they have succeeded! Why don’t they simply get Anu and vannu remarried and put an end to this senseless drama? Will save everyone a lot of hassle.

I know last weak she says i feel bad for vanraj as a human being

what a joke?

did vanraj treat her as human for 26 years noo

She very cleverly uses my kids father card to blackmail anuj kapadia and malvika everytime subtly

i am saying this from one or two months every other post

if you want your kids take both pakhi and samar leave house with them

why go to ex hubby house everyday asying kids reason?

Even in most modern usa no one does all this go to ex hubby house everyday saying my kids there

Its your 3 kids choice to stay with father. Otherwise by now they would have moved n with you no. Which kids will leave divorced 45 year old mother alone whose not educated not haviing good work etc alone after divorce

If you ask law and court they will ask kids whom you want go and stay and give weekend visitation rights to other spouse(for non adult kids). And girls i know go to mother only usually by court till 18 years of age and later they can decide whom they want to stay with after becoming adults.

You read my mind as had the same thoughts and posted this yesterday in another thread.

Seems she wants back in that house with Vanraj. She is doing the same thing of emotionally cheating on Anuj with Vanraj and adding to Kavya's insecurities 😒

God,earlier I wasn't looking forward much to Anuj's extended family,but now I feel that will be atleast better than the SHAHS!😭

What's with their obsession or Vanraj?

And fine,Vanraj and shahs is also fine,but then there is no need to show Anupama still being a doormat for them...ugh,it's completely annoying.

Yes anupama never think bout herself he ke ep crying remembering her past

Showing humanity kindness love care not to

Revesnnnge ful make anupama greatest Villaiinn

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes anupama never think bout herself he ke ep crying remembering her past

Showing humanity kindness love care not to

Revesnnnge ful make anupama greatest Villaiinn

Its a different thing not to think about only yourself (bhaad mein jaho aap who cares)

Its a different thing if your decisions land your loved ones spouse and his family in trouble and akward situations

Your husband and his family are also humans have feelings like you only or shah family

Why force them to do things they hate? or do not like every time?

Why force anuj to keep shahs as top priority to please anupama over himself his sister and business always?

Will anupama keep anuj or malvika over above shahs and her kids never ever

Than why force anuj or malvika to keep shahs and baa and vanraj and bapuji desires over themselves by anupama always is my question?

If anupama had a sister and vanraj did what he did to malvika with her own sister will anupam ago to vanraj house again and have humane feeling for him or his family?

How shes forcing anuj and malvika to go to vanraj house who did such big betrayal and abused malvika emotionally and made her think he loves her etc

If Malvika was anupama blood sister how would anupama react to what vanraj did to malvika in office played with her feelings took advantage? She would literally hit him black and blue for playing with her sister never enter shah house at any cost

But here shes forcing not only anuj but malvika to go to her abusers jhouse again and again in name of marriage of anuj anupama

Do we not see anything wrong here?

How malvika feel seeing vanraj face everytime? Is this some joke going on?

Or even anuj, vanraj snatched his empire playing games snatched anuj only family sister away how he feels going to that man house every day?

Why different yardstik of behaviour for anuj and anupama when it comes to their family?

If someone does to pakhi what vanraj did to malvika wil anupam ago to that man house if anuj says my wedding is in pakhi abuser house?

What is being shown in anupama that anuj and malvika going to shah and vanraj house for maan wedding is totally wrong. No one goes to their abuser house person who cheated them and split their family ok. Malvika was saying so correct to anuj in kitchen and to anupama too. Malvika cannot forgive and neither should anuj kapadia what vanraj did to him and his sister. Anuj has gone crazy in anupama love and not understanding what vanraj and shahs did to him and his sister in january. Mya be if he had parents they would not allow him or malvika to go to shah house ever to an abuser of their daughter or sister house.

Anuj is not 25 year old or 30 year old kid hes 45 years old mature human. If he cannot understand what vanraj did to his sister and him who else will? He was busy throwing bottles on wall. Any other brother or sister in anuj place will throw bottles on vanraj head and never enter shahs road forget house. Anuj is again and again giving chance to vanraj to abuse his sister and manipulate his family and business. Lets forget anupam ato understand how serious this issue is? Even if vanraj rapes a woman or malvika she will say hes good pita good human. Shes like crazy blind fan of movie stars who are ok with any wrong stars do. Vanraj do anything she will be his crazy fan and shah family crazy fan. But anuj he has no maturity to understand serious issue is shocking. Whats use of education and work experience if you have no maturity to handle life and people.

I feel anupama doing emotional infidelity to anuj

Anuj doing emotional blackmail to malvika

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes anupama never think bout herself he ke ep crying remembering her past

Showing humanity kindness love care not to

Revesnnnge ful make anupama greatest Villaiinn

She is NOT showing humanity or kindness. She just has feelings for her ex and her family

People has said this a 100 times, but she never shows this level of humanity or kindess to anuj or his family or her own mom.

Someone showing humanity and kindness only to her abusive ex and no one else is not a kind or great person.

There is a difference between being a kind person and being a doormat having Stockholm syndrome after being forced to be in an abusive household for decades

Once again its pushing the same stereotype, a woman should always sacrifice and be a Goddesss and never care for her own happiness

The excuse about her children. She has to sacrifice for her children you guys. How can she leave her abusive house because she has children???? Won't someone think of the children!!! Then about a pregnant woman. She has to look after a pregnant woman. How can she being a woman abandon a pregnant woman??? Oh the humanity, she has a duty to look after a pregnant woma. She does, she does!!!! Now about Humanity and kindness to an abusive male and his abusive family. She has to show kindness to an abusive ex who is still abusive, an abusive MIL who is still abusive. She has to!!!!

The gist of the points are always the same, its not only a great thing that a woman ALWAYS sacrifice her own needs for others but it is actually expected from her. She is just a slave to others and that's her role in society. Being a slave and a doormat is a good thing. A woman is a Goddess, sacrificing, forgiving and not a human being with her own desires and needs

It is 100% regressive and sexist mentality

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Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes anupama never think bout herself he ke ep crying remembering her past

Showing humanity kindness love care not to

Revesnnnge ful make anupama greatest Villaiinn

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When one door closes, another door open. But we often look so long and so regret fully upon close door that we do not see the one that is open for us -Alexander Graham Bell

Btw Surbhi i love the quote in your signature

Tere har post k neeche likha hota hai❤️

When one door closes, another door open. But we often look so long and so regret fully upon close door that we do not see the one that is open for us -Alexander Graham Bell

@red-Waise ye quote wala gyaan anupama par bhi applicable hai na???!!!😳

Let anuj bua enter anupama

Show

She will also insult rebuke anupama for being divorce and trapping anuj for being manhoos and anupama will give same respect love care to anuj bua

Kahegi मुझे aapki dant jara bhi bura nahi lagta aap badi है आपके मार्ग दर्शन की हमे sakth jaroorat है हम चाहते है आपका aashirward hamare sir pur hameasha bana rahe

Ok meri doosri baa Maine aapka saree press kar ke rakh diya hai aap naha lijiye phir nashta kar lijiye aapke dawi ka time ho raha hai

To yeh anupama ka nature hai she can't see anyone in pain aur anupama j

Yeh wala quote jub anupama serial nahi aaya tha use pehle se daal rakha है