Is anupama doing emotional infidelity?

In any relationship there is two aspect one is physical infidelity another emotional infedielity

Emotional infidelity in relationship is when you become too close and share your time and feelings to someone whose not your husband or boy friend etc like anupama is doing

Emotional infidelity is also when you do not care about feelings of your partner or keep talking about your ex partners or other members of your ex to your partner always. Like anupama does always talking about shahs, bapuji and baa or vanraj to anuj.

Honestly i never saw her once speak about GK or Mukku to anuj always bapuji, baa, vanraj my kids etc

This kind of emotional infidelity is ground for divorce or to file mental harassment by spouse case too

I mean anupama says she in humanity feels bad for vanraj ok great you are mother Theresa with wax heart that melts for others

But does anupama feel this humanity towards anuj kapadia and his family too? Answer is NOOO

Does anupama feel such humanity towards her own mom and brother? Nooo

Than its clearly emotional infidelity to be attached to ex and his family at cost of your hubby and his family

What do you think is not anupama doing a greater kind of infidelity towards anuj kapadia than vanraj did towards her by having affair with kavya?

I meanshes treating anuj kapadia worst than how vanraj treated her actually. Atleast vanraj was not continuously talking about Kavya and her family etc to anupama everyday and every time they talk for 8 years he had affair with her. Or he was not giving bashan on toxic masculinity every other sentence to anupama and doing emotional atyachar on her.

How can she go on and on about shahs and her past life like this with anuj everytime they talk? She never ever ask anuj hows your work your projects your life hows GK kaka and mukku? Are you three fine. But all she does is talk about shah issues and vanraj and baa bapuji always. Never about samar or pakhi or toshu her kids ever. Talking about her kids is atleast bearable but this baa, bapuji,vanraj talks always will hurt anuj feelings. They are nobody to her actually,why should anuj listen about her ex hubby his family issues her ex in laws always. Has she ever asked him who are your relatives? Whose your uncle aunty neice nephews etc? If Mukku tries to point this fact she tells Mukku to shut up about Baa and bapui and vanraj? Shes ok with her wedding in shah house in front of ex hubby and ex saas sasur?

Anupama is breaking all norms of society regarding a second marraige by doing open infedielity with anuj kapadia with vanraj and shah family. No man or no court or society will approve her behaviour towards anuj or in favour of shahs after divorce.

Imagine the kind of mental torture shes giving anuj and not only anuj indirectly Mukku and GK his family by giving no1. priority to shahs and vanraj over anuj and his family.

Shes indirectly torturing them to forcefully go to shahs house have relationship with them by emotionally manipulating anuj and his family members by allowing wedding at shahs house or in name of its her mayka, vanraj is her kids father, in laws are father mother etc what is all this? Why should Malvika go to a house whose head of family vanraj trapped her in love games to go up in business and separated her from anuj? Is it not affecting Mukku mentally to see vanraj everytime during she going to shah house?

Is Kavya not getting emotional infidelity by anupama staying and going to kavya house everyday. Thats not anupama house at all? Shes vanraj ex wife

Forget everything that Mukku, anuj, GK or kavya feeling

Is vanraj not feeling bad his ex wife wedding discussed or done in front of him another kind of atyachar?

Is anuj and Gk not feeling akward that an anupama ex hubby is there her souten there her in laws there to discuss wedding plans etc

It seems a anupama is greatest villain of show

You are absolutely right! She has no sense of boundaries in relations so ofcourse it’s huge disadvantage for Anuj .

Who does marriage in first husband’s house? Who discusses the second marriage things in first husband’s house?

Anupama talks about women empowerment but she constantly disregards the fact that Kavya is daughter in law of the house where she is planning her second marriage.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

It seems a anupama is greatest villain of show

Lol protagonist ke bhes mai sabse badi antagonist anupama he hai no doubt 🤡

Well said..

More than Anupama, Anuj proved how bad brother he was. Today I am glad that Mukku took the entire empire from him. Vanraj manipulated his sister and he goes to his house, treats him well and if that was not enough asks Mukku to give him job. What will he do if this time Vanraj marries Mukku and then abuses her after marriage. Anuj will just break some bottles and let it be, as he has Anu with him..

Anupama is worst telling women to become slave and take care of there abuser even after divorce. She is making mockery of women who stand for there rights and leave house.. because the right thing is too take baa ki baddua but stay in the same house. She is setting perfect example in society asking all women to become sati...she forgot that sati had a very loving and caring husband.

Yes, both Anuj and Kavya are being wronged but who cares. Because Anu is always sahi.. if it was really Stockholm syndrome they could have shown Anuj saying so and trying to keep Anu away from SH but here he is all set to get married from SH...

Fact is Anupama is the biggest Villain, epitome of hypocrisy, making fun and mockery of desh ki beti in every damn episode, of all women who were abused by there in-laws and took stand for themselves when taking divorce. She never looks for her widow mother or brother but worship Baa.

She brags about being Maa but fact is she is the worst mother ever possible. Toshu, Pakhi she never taught as kids, even today she is not teaching them. all she does is thappad marungi, no mother ever raises hand on married son, you talk to them. She is worst MIL ever to Kinjal by making her another clone. Poor Samar she never once took stand for him against Vanraj, he had to fight all his battles alone and then she would continuously tell him to give respect to Vanraj as father.

I wonder who are these TRP aunties who are still seeing this hypocrisy. I wonder people who still see and make positive posts about her inspiring bhashan. Fact, it's all talk but see her actions are exact opposite. I never expected sense from ITV but this is hypocrisy of next level.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

It seems a anupama is greatest villain of show

The fact that the most sought after wedding of the year is being planned in such an illogical way is not being digested.

WHO plans their second marriage in first husbands house? Nobody.

This is the biggest problem right now. I cant bring myself to watch the show because of this.

Originally posted by: Km181

Well said..

More than Anupama, Anuj proved how bad brother he was. Today I am glad that Mukku took the entire empire from him. Vanraj manipulated his sister and he goes to his house, treats him well and if that was not enough asks Mukku to give him job. What will he do if this time Vanraj marries Mukku and then abuses her after marriage. Anuj will just break some bottles and let it be, as he has Anu with him..

Anupama is worst telling women to become slave and take care of there abuser even after divorce. She is making mockery of women who stand for there rights and leave house.. because the right thing is too take baa ki baddua but stay in the same house. She is setting perfect example in society asking all women to become sati...she forgot that sati had a very loving and caring husband.

Yes, both Anuj and Kavya are being wronged but who cares. Because Anu is always sahi.. if it was really Stockholm syndrome they could have shown Anuj saying so and trying to keep Anu away from SH but here he is all set to get married from SH...

Fact is Anupama is the biggest Villain, epitome of hypocrisy, making fun and mockery of desh ki beti in every damn episode, of all women who were abused by there in-laws and took stand for themselves when taking divorce. She never looks for her widow mother or brother but worship Baa.

She brags about being Maa but fact is she is the worst mother ever possible. Toshu, Pakhi she never taught as kids, even today she is not teaching them. all she does is thappad marungi, no mother ever raises hand on married son, you talk to them. She is worst MIL ever to Kinjal by making her another clone. Poor Samar she never once took stand for him against Vanraj, he had to fight all his battles alone and then she would continuously tell him to give respect to Vanraj as father.

I wonder who are these TRP aunties who are still seeing this hypocrisy. I wonder people who still see and make positive posts about her inspiring bhashan. Fact, it's all talk but see her actions are exact opposite. I never expected sense from ITV but this is hypocrisy of next level.

You are right

women are abused in homes by father, brother and husbands or sons because of anupama kind of women only more than baa or anupama mom kind of women

they take all abuse and nonsense and others think oh see anupama shes role model if you become like her you are great or you are a vamp like rakhi or kavya as per society

with great difficulty women got some rights and people like anupama make woman rights go 100 steps back by their behaviours

the way anupama behaving after divorce looks like vanraj never abused her baa was treating her like daughter bapuji left house for anus treatment etc hom is anupama fooling?

If anuj kapadia not there she would still be living in shah house without respect like a maid with no progress. Instead of gratitude shes forcing him to accept shahs saying mayka mayka always

and anuj kapadia is again forcing Malvika to accept vanraj, kavya, toshu back in her company why? He was saying its alright i understand when malvika said she dismissed them. Now what happened? For anupama sake hes pushing his sister in bedia hand that vanraj and toshu etc

Its like before if king defeated he give sister hand in marraige to successful king to save kingdom

Like that to get married to anupama anuj kapdia pushing malvika into vanraj open jaws he will eat her alive. Where is anuj love for sister shown in christmas or where is his concern to keep her safe and away from vanraj kind of dangerous person. If malvika was his real daughter or real blood sister will anuj ask such things from her? What is going on here? To marry anupama anuj is ready to do anything? What sort of love is this?

Anupama always thinks shahs first her kids first always and forces anuj to make all decisions in vanraj and her kids favour . Anuj always thinks anupama first over his sister Malvika and his family and business. Even in USA, africa etc no man will bend so much or behave llike this with his sister for marrying lover.

Anupama kids are worst shes not given any values any discipline nothing to them worst behaved worst humans. What sort of sanskaar they have? Anupam ahas failed as mother to her 3 kids, daughter to her mother, sister to her brother and lover or wife of anuj or sister in law of malvika or bahu of GK sorry to say

anuj kapdia has failed as brrother of malvika and son to GK and his dead parents by bending so much for anupama and shahs

No one is liking both anuj and anupama behaviours

anupama can only talk no guts to be independent of ex hubby and in laws even with anuj, devika, samar help

anuj also can only talk and break bottles no guts to kick vanraj for daring to harm his sister and family and business

Malvika has more guts than these too she and devika and rakhi and kavya are showing more women empowerment models than anupama

Originally posted by: Fighter03

The fact that the most sought after wedding of the year is being planned in such an illogical way is not being digested.

WHO plans their second marriage in first husbands house? Nobody.

This is the biggest problem right now. I cant bring myself to watch the show because of this.

Originally posted by: ektag06

this and who stays for this long after leaving post a huge big drama in their ex’s house? The entire supposed courtship period has been shown as a joke! If this is their way to substantially reduce maan craze and fans then well done, they have succeeded! Why don’t they simply get Anu and vannu remarried and put an end to this senseless drama? Will save everyone a lot of hassle.

EXACTLY.

The whole episode where she calls vannu Ravan and leaves the house…it was dramatic but done well and felt cathartic.

How can she forget all that and for what? Kinjal is pregnant not terminally ill.

Writers are taking the audience for granted.