::Bade Achhe Lagte Hai S2:: EDT #8 - Page 18

He is not giving time to Priya to defend Akki. He already passed the judgement. This is what I don’t like Ram. He stood up for Sandy, similarly, he should give a benefit of doubt

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

He is not giving time to Priya to defend Akki. He already passed the judgement. This is what I don’t like Ram. He stood up for Sandy, similarly, he should give a benefit of doubt

It is not that he doesnt understand that for them , he doesnt mean much. Many occasions he is felt left out but he likes to live with the assumption that they love him and they mean a lot to him. I guess thats his way finding hope in life .

Originally posted by: ajacob31

I think Priya learned to drive auto by watching her auto driver daily!!. This will definitely be another WTF moments in the show!!🤣

At this point, in my story, Priya would bring up

Shivi Sid incident at the cafe and how she believed Shivi. This is what logical people would do. I wish CVs add these

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

He stood up for Sandy because there was no involvement of his family. He saw Sid at fault. Here his sister is involved. So will not stand by Akki. That is the problem with Ram. He is blind when it comes to his step brother, sis and mother.

It is not that he doesnt understand that for them , he doesnt mean much. Many occasions he is felt left out but he likes to live with the assumption that they love him and they mean a lot to him. I guess thats his way finding hope in life .

In Ram’s defense….

He crossed checked about Akki’s investment and when he caught Akki lying he believed Akki was wrong…Akki dug his own grave…

Ram didn’t blindly assume Akki was at fault…

Then Anjali will lie..and catch Priya off guard

Ram knows his (step) family doesn’t love him he calls it “daya” not love (unsure correct word in English)..but really it is not “daya” is it Ram’s money that keeps his step family close to Ram..

but Ram has potential…to be a (great) partner for Priya if the writers allow him to evolve and grow into that amazing character that even Lord Ram would admire 🤞

Another thought that pops up in mind is from where did she get the auto. To the best of my understanding Sood's dont own any auto. Is it like she found an unattended auto parked near her house, and saw that the auto diver had left the key in auto . She thought its a good opportunity to run away from Mr. Kapoor and his GF Vedu😆

Originally posted by: Armansara

In Ram’s defense….

He crossed checked about Akki’s investment and when he caught Akki lying he believed Akki was wrong…Akki dug his own grave…

Ram didn’t blindly assume Akki was at fault…

Then Anjali will lie..and catch Priya off guard

Ram knows his (step) family doesn’t love him he calls it “daya” not love (unsure correct word in English)..but really it is not “daya” is it Ram’s money that keeps his step family close to Ram..

but Ram has potential…to be a (great) partner for Priya if the writers allow him to evolve and grow into that amazing character that even Lord Ram would admire 🤞

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

I wish. In my track, Priya would have left Ram by now or at least be in her sherni self. She would ask for annulment, as for her the marriage is just a compromise. She has many instances where Ram didn’t support her. She should leave both KM and Sood house and start living for herself.

I may be the only person in this forum who wants separation. Being single and independent, I won’t tolerate such nonsense if I have a husband like Ram. I wont tolerate if he flaunts his female friend just to make me jealous. Just because he hugged me or had a cake with me doesn’t mean he loves me, it’s more to do with trust and communication. Ram is all talks and no actions. Why should I have a man child as a husband

You know I get where your frustrations are coming from. It is difficult to see Priya go through so much on the daily and not feel for her. She is every other girl on the planet who needs to keep proving her worth in one way or another whether it's to the family, job, college or any other place. But among all the things that Priya is going through I like one thing and that is earlier she would only express the things she thought she should express but now she expresses what she feels too, and thats character progress. People only express their feelings around the ones they feel secure with and her expressing what she is feeling in the current situation with ram means that she feels secure with him emotionally.

And to answer your points above, she would have asked for annulment in a regular marriage but she didn't with ram until she saw those papers because in her mind akki and shivi marriage will affect too if she left ram, which Ram also thinks, so they are trying their best to make this marriage work. Also they got married within a month of knowing each other, in arrange marriages it takes a lot of work in the initial stages to get to know each other. And they both don't take enough initiative to get to know the other person. Whatever they know about each other is through observation not through conversations which is common in any relationship's early stages. They are still awkward with each other. They cannot hold hands or hug and not feel awkward. Yes they are getting attached to the idea of a partner but for the love of God the first conversation they had about marriage was that they are marrying because of their families and they give the same reason for sticking together in the marriage too that it's for their families. They told each other that they won't demand the basic rights which is given to a spouse like companionship and haq over each other and Love is a very far concept for them. They never expected love out of this and they are not demanding that. Yes they call each other husband and wife but they still are living like acquaintances with all the formalities and all. Yes they like spending time with each other but haven't conciously accepted that to themselves either, priya was drunk and ram is still confused between her and vedika.

They are not yet at a stage were they want to be in this marriage because they want the other person in their life as a better half and the coming track is set up for that realisation only. So that they can accept that this marriage is real and they cannot go further in this marriage if they won't give the other the courtesy of having any spousal rights( whether legal, emotional or physical).

What you are saying makes sense he is very hypocritical in vedika's matter but your point about love doesn't apply to their situation yet. It's more of a matter of her self respect that will be hurt at this point that he didn't respected her dignity enough to be honest with her. She won't feel bad because he doesn't love her but loves vedika she already knows that and yet she married him. She doesn't expect love from him but it will be a matter of him not being courteous enough to let her know that it was vedika all this while. I'm not saying ram is right or priya is wrong. Idk if I'm making any sense to you or not but it's just my opinion that they both were sticking for akki and shivina in the beginning but now they want to be together but haven't realised that yet and the upcoming tracks are for that only.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Another thought that pops up in mind is from where did she get the auto. To the best of my understanding Sood's dont own any auto. Is it like she found an unattended auto parked near her house, and saw that the auto diver had left the key in auto . She thought its a good opportunity to run away from Mr. Kapoor and his GF Vedu😆

isbar raj auto wala banke aaya hoga or priya uska auto leke bhag jaygi🤣

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

At this point, in my story, Priya would bring up

Shivi Sid incident at the cafe and how she believed Shivi. This is what logical people would do. I wish CVs add these

In theory This I think this is the perfect example to compare Akki Anjali and Sid Shivina incident…

but I think for the middle class you have to prove your innocence and if you are rich you are answerable to no one…but all have to answer to the rich…😔😔😔

I am hoping Ram’s friends Sandy n Sarah come through for Akki…and find proof for his innocence

I am not crazy about Akki and Shivina but I think it is for Priya’s sake that I want this resolved…

One positive for Ram is that even when he thinks Akki is at fault he feels Akki betrayed shivina and Priya’s trust…so he doesn’t feel Priya is at fault and he doesn’t feel it impacts his feelings for Priya (I skimmed the episode but that is the feeling I got) so he still respects and feels close to Priya…

Ram also needs to disclose the Ram Vedika issue amongst all this 🤔