Baa finally shed her mother pretence and revealed her true nature. Even before Anuj accepted Anu's proposal, the way Baa was ordering Anu to oil her swing was disrespectful.
The writers want us to think that Anu has been self-respect manifested since Vanya's affair reveal. They will reinforce that by making Anu accept the proposal despite Baa's insistence.
But that's not enough. Anu needs to stop living with this 'family'. A 'father' who put her in such a painful living situation, a 'mother' who character assassinats her, a 'son' who doesn't want to live there anyway, plus an ex-husband and his sidechick-turned-wife. Living with all these people isn't sanskaar. It's lack of self respect. And Anu needs to get some!
High time she goes to live with her actual mother & sibling. This woman has ignored her real family for the fake one for far too long.
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